14 Year Old Girl In Trouble...Pls Help... - Page 2

I agree here...

She needs to firstly tell the guy, there is some responsibility towards the guy as well in the issue... And quite a bit to blame too, honestly... The girl shouldn't really be suffering all alone!

And secondly, she should tell her parents. They will be upset about it of course, but they will get down to helping her. If they don't, who will?

9th grade is really a little too early for such things though... I hope her parents would have put a little better sense into her earlier.

-Sam

I think your firend should be 100 percent sure that she preagnent.. 😳

Originally posted by: anon

^^^Yeah Pooji most people only realise later on, mostly when they have missed their monthly cycle.

But accept she is pregnant at 14 - and ignore the fact that how common it is these days in western societies to get pregnant, at her age she has a long life ahead and should not wreck her life when she is simply not ready for a baby.

Telling the guy- well it is his fault just as much as hers, takes 2 😳 so he has some responsibility in this as well, and if they were not mature enough to use protection, deal with the concequences of your own actions is tough but sooner they do it together then they can get on with their life.

Sooner done the better before it becomes too late, longer she leaves it the worse it will be, days wil turn to months then yeah it will begin to show and too late for an abortion.

Parents haVE to also take charge here seeing as the girl is 14, if she was older then ok she has the right to have confidentiality but shes 14 here They need to educate her bettter on life, and they are her only option for knowing what is right to do. 😳

But yeah if she wont tell her folks, sorry i am afraid someone else will have to on her behalf for her best interests. 😳

thankyou sssssoooooooooo much! this is very helpful!😊

Originally posted by: Marthika

I think your firend should be 100 percent sure that she preagnent.. 😳

she is.....the doctor told her...

Originally posted by: Angeleyes 2

I don't wana sound rude but if she did that one week ago then she can't tell if she's pregnant.

Normally when a girl gets pregnant, she finds out like 2-3 months after

really?????........but the doctor told her....😕

Originally posted by: Naughty_n_nice

I agree here...

She needs to firstly tell the guy, there is some responsibility towards the guy as well in the issue... And quite a bit to blame too, honestly... The girl shouldn't really be suffering all alone!

And secondly, she should tell her parents. They will be upset about it of course, but they will get down to helping her. If they don't, who will?

9th grade is really a little too early for such things though... I hope her parents would have put a little better sense into her earlier.

-Sam

i noe....but it is sooooo hard telling sum1.....and....shes not so mentally strong....

Hey Nps,

If it is confirmed by doctor then fair enough, Pooja just meant usually a girl of any age usually does not realise straight away that she is pregnant unless it was planned and they checked etc....As usually there are sign of being pregnant and if it was only 1 week ago, the signs would not begin to show that early like morning sickness etc.

But yeah I can understand that any girl in that situation would be scared and no one is that mentally strong to tell parents of the situation they are in, so it can be easier for someone not directly involved like you as a friend to explain what she is goin through and how scared she is to talk to them herself.

I know the friend can be angry at u, for tellin but later on she will realise u r lookin out 4 her n its her best interest u were caring about. 😊

Originally posted by: prithvi lover

yaar.......but how will she tell her parents!!!!........
she is soooooo scared! i have a feeling she wont tell!

She needs to tell her parents. By the way, if her doctor told her shes peggers, then I think and I dont want to rude that maybe she did the thing way beyond the week.

Originally posted by: usha_pooja

She needs to tell her parents. By the way, if her doctor told her shes peggers, then I think and I dont want to rude that maybe she did the thing way beyond the week.

yep thats true, i agree here.😳 As most people only realise once symptoms are occuring which forces them to act on this and take a test or go to the doctors.😳 So did she go to the doctors on an off chance😳

Even though as soon as you have dine the thing you can pregnant, the chnces are you do not realise until quite a while after😳

Originally posted by: anon

Hey Nps,

If it is confirmed by doctor then fair enough, Pooja just meant usually a girl of any age usually does not realise straight away that she is pregnant unless it was planned and they checked etc....As usually there are sign of being pregnant and if it was only 1 week ago, the signs would not begin to show that early like morning sickness etc.

thanks saira😳🤗uff long time😆