14 Year Old Girl In Trouble...Pls Help...

hi there.....i normally dont visit this section.....cuz i dun take advice.....neither do i give advice....

but iam here for the sake of my Friend's life....

She is my classmate....in 9th grade.....and a very good friend of mine.....but about a week ago...she did sumthing very stupid....and now....shes pregnant....

She doesnt noe wat 2 do.....she doesnt now how 2 tell her parents about this....cuz shes really scared....she also noes that its gonna 'show' in about very little time and is very troubled about it...e.....and also....if she doesnt tell this fast......shes going 2 be in big trouble...she came to me for help..and......i had really no idea wat 2 tell her.....but u guys can....pls help this girl....she can't play a role of a mother at such a young age....

pls help......

love;

joey....

whhoa whoaaa whoa shes 14??shes gonna be in biggggg trouble.. i don't know what to suggest.
umm abortion?? if thats possible.. i know ppl say its a sin to get abortion done and all..but lets be practical here.. shes only 14.. 😕if she doesn't get it done, it will ruin rest of her life.

i don't know if she should tell her parents or not...
if she does, shes gonna be in trouble. if she doesn't, well thye r gonna find out anyway. so i guess its better if she tells them now n if tis not too late then they will suggest the same thing, abortion. she did make a BIG mistake. ..good luck ...its gonna be rough time for her...

Originally posted by: -Pinky-

whhoa whoaaa whoa shes 14??shes gonna be in biggggg trouble.. i don't know what to suggest.
umm abortion?? if thats possible.. i know ppl say its a sin to get abortion done and all..but lets be practical here.. shes only 14.. 😕if she doesn't get it done, it will ruin rest of her life.

i don't know if she should tell her parents or not...
if she does, shes gonna be in trouble. if she doesn't, well thye r gonna find out anyway. so i guess its better if she tells them now n if tis not too late then they will suggest the same thing, abortion. she did make a BIG mistake. ..good luck ...its gonna be rough time for her...

yes she only 14.... i noe....abortion will be the best option...but even for that she needs money....and for money....she needs 2 talk 2 her parents,which shes totally freaked out about.....yes she did a huge mistake....and this will teach her sumthing..i dunno wat!

Originally posted by: prithvi lover

yes i noe....abortion will be the best option...but even for that she needs money....and for money....she needs 2 talk 2 her parents.....yes she did a huge mistake....😭

ohh yah she has no other way.. i was thinking maybe she cud do it in secret but thats not possible... n its better if the parents know.. cuz they will only help!!
she has to figure out a way to tell her parents.. i dunno how though..
maybe other members here can help..

Woah Woah Woah!!!!!! At 14 shes peggers not suprised to hear this in western countries happening these days. But, its terrible mistake shes doing. Abortion is the best option but, she needs to tell her parents fast. But, if she's afraid to tell her parents but then why on earth would she willing to do the thing. She should of taught of about it first before becoming peggers.

Originally posted by: usha_pooja

Woah Woah Woah!!!!!! At 14 shes peggers not suprised to hear this in western countries happening these days. But, its terrible mistake shes doing. Abortion is the best option but, she needs to tell her parents fast. But, if she's afraid to tell her parents but then why on earth would she willing to do the thing. She should of taught of about it first before becoming peggers.

i noe.....she shudve taught of it.....telling the parents is hard.....but even worse is telling the guy....

Originally posted by: prithvi lover

i noe.....she shudve taught of it.....telling the parents is hard.....but even worse is telling the guy....

yes dear, its really hard but i wish her all the best...

yaar.......but how will she tell her parents!!!!........
she is soooooo scared! i have a feeling she wont tell!

I don't wana sound rude but if she did that one week ago then she can't tell if she's pregnant.

Normally when a girl gets pregnant, she finds out like 2-3 months after

^^^Yeah Pooji most people only realise later on, mostly when they have missed their monthly cycle.

But accept she is pregnant at 14 - and ignore the fact that how common it is these days in western societies to get pregnant, at her age she has a long life ahead and should not wreck her life when she is simply not ready for a baby.

Telling the guy- well it is his fault just as much as hers, takes 2 😳 so he has some responsibility in this as well, and if they were not mature enough to use protection, deal with the concequences of your own actions is tough but sooner they do it together then they can get on with their life.

Sooner done the better before it becomes too late, longer she leaves it the worse it will be, days wil turn to months then yeah it will begin to show and too late for an abortion.

Parents haVE to also take charge here seeing as the girl is 14, if she was older then ok she has the right to have confidentiality but shes 14 here They need to educate her bettter on life, and they are her only option for knowing what is right to do. 😳

But yeah if she wont tell her folks, sorry i am afraid someone else will have to on her behalf for her best interests. 😳