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Posted: 17 years ago
#41
Yeah i agree with hat you said too, she will loose her childhood and will resent the baby for 'ruining her life' if she choose to have it.

Yeah we are not here to judge but give guidance, but society in general with judge her... 😳 either way for not knowing better and 1st for getting pregnant at such a young age,

Yes it is common sadly in western societies of teenage mum's but it's exactly approved of. 😳

So would she really be able to handle that if she had the baby...the prejudice views of society 😳
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Posted: 17 years ago
#42
Well,its good to hear thats she has told it to her parents,but still SHE IS KEEPING THE KID Thats not good for her future dearoo,explain it to her

How will she be able to go to school or face the school,she wont get a job or anything

Explain her thats its NOT a good idea to keep the baby.She's 14 dude,its not good for her future and her body 😕
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Posted: 17 years ago
#43

Originally posted by: anon

Yeah i agree with hat you said too, she will loose her childhood and will resent the baby for 'ruining her life' if she choose to have it.

Yeah we are not here to judge but give guidance, but society in general with judge her... 😳 either way for not knowing better and 1st for getting pregnant at such a young age, Thats correct!!!! I agree with you.

Yes it is common sadly in western societies of teenage mum's but it's exactly approved of. 😳 Thats United Kingdom for you! 😃

So would she really be able to handle that if she had the baby...the prejudice views of society 😳

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Posted: 17 years ago
#44
Yeah sadly thats UK,

I think we are the 2nd highest European country with Teenage pregnancy figures, so yeah more is being done to promote safe sex, but anyhow its just promoting younger people to have sex.

Disturbing

but yeah wherever you go it isnt approved of even if it is a common thing.

And dunno if the girl is asian or not but asian society/culture them omg 😭 all they care about is their 'respect' in society...and so no wonder there is honour killin and so much....

So wherever this girl looks, there naturally will be some disapproving looks, and i dont think at 14 a girl can handle that.

Bullies at school are the worse kind as nothing gets done and comments by girls are hard to handle 😳
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Posted: 17 years ago
#45

Originally posted by: anon

Ok thats goood she has tld her parents, how did they react???

Yeah see , a month pregnant, if she delayed it then months would have gone by.

Look now she has told her parents, i guess it is for them to guide her....you have done the best you can for her but now it is up to her and her parents and the guy.

Yes she is a kid herself so you should explain wht wil happen if she keeps the baby, but at the end of the day her parents are the only ones that can do something.

but wat will happen if she keeps the baby!??

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Posted: 17 years ago
#46

Originally posted by: prithvi lover

but wat will happen if she keeps the baby!??

well no one can plan the future can they?

Well either she will grow to love the baby n look after it properly with help or her parents will end up looking after it😳

To be honest im not sure, as i havent seen anyone close to me been pregnant at that young age but uk soaps are full of stuff like that😳

But yeah i think either way her parents will just end up looking after it untill she is a more mature girl and can make her life decisions for herself.

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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: usha_pooja

well....i noe this baby can really ruin her life........

parents were horrified!😭.....sister started crying......and the guy....well........hes not so supportive..unfortunately!😭......

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Posted: 17 years ago
#48

Originally posted by: Marthika

Well,its good to hear thats she has told it to her parents,but still SHE IS KEEPING THE KID Thats not good for her future dearoo,explain it to her

How will she be able to go to school or face the school,she wont get a job or anything

Explain her thats its NOT a good idea to keep the baby.She's 14 dude,its not good for her future and her body 😕

oh my god! school!........i forgot that part!

school..........oh no!!!!😭

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Posted: 17 years ago
#49

Originally posted by: anon

well no one can plan the future can they?

Well either she will grow to love the baby n look after it properly with help or her parents will end up looking after it😳

To be honest im not sure, as i havent seen anyone close to me been pregnant at that young age but uk soaps are full of stuff like that😳

But yeah i think either way her parents will just end up looking after it untill she is a more mature girl and can make her life decisions for herself.

parents taking care of the kid..........thts ok?....😕

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Posted: 17 years ago
#50
Look 1stly if the parents were horrified and the dad isnt supportive no way should she have this child, im sorry she is just 14, a kid herself, who is goin to support her and her kid??? NO one,

Her parents for one wouldnt let her keep the baby, i am sure any girl at age 14 n pregnant - any decent parents wuld weigh the pros n cons n decide wast in her best interest n her best interest is to abort the foetus, as she has a long life ahead of her...n a baby would wreck that all.

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