Originally posted by: shalini*
hey!
well i need some advice abt a guyi m on a social networkin site n there's this guy hu i really liken v hv a few mutual friends i ws kinda waitin 4 him 2 send me a friend request bt it hasnt cum mah way as yetjst wanna know if it means d guy doesnt like me? coz i've loads of friends bt he jst doesnt seem interested enough
😆 Now this is truly fun! There is nothing more enjoyable than a good cat and mouse chase game. It is your decision here if you would like to be the cat or the mouse. If you choose to be the cat then you should send him the request. If he denies it then you clearly know he is not interested. A lot of time us girls, even guys seem to think the worst about ourself and move on without giving it a proper shot. Maybe the guy is not aware that you are on the site, or he is waiting for your request. For all you know he is one of those typical guys who would rather get the request instead of requesting himself. Guys do that a lot. Even my best male friends don't request for me. I don't think it means they are not interested. 😕
If you choose to be the mouse, then it's the classic girl waits guy to make a move. Which is fine!! A lady needs the guy to make the first move at times. Do you usually talk to the guy? It is not wise to wait for a guy who is nothing more than hi hello buddy. Strike up conversations with him without giving away that you are interested. Make him be interested in you. Let him find out you are someone awesome and he should definitely be friends with you.
Hope it works out hun! 😉
