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ggenny

@ggenny

Beginner

Posted: 16 years ago

Met this guy from work... he's also an indian, but working overseas.. he's chased me with flowers and chocolates (sending from overseas!!!) ... almost everyone in the office knows about our very intimate relationship... But then this graduate trainee Gr*shma came, working for (and obviously flirting with) him.... she's now sl**ping with him - her own boss!!!

Shouldn't she be ashamed of herself... stealing other people's man?

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Mahi

@-Mystery-

Stunner

+ 6

Posted: 16 years ago

She should be ashamed of herself but more than that the guy should be ashamed of himself.

I firmly believe that we can't blame others when the person himself is at fault. He could've easily said that no he doesn't like her and that he loves her. And it was certainly within his ability to ask her to stay in her limits and be faithful to you but he wasn't that means he doesn't really value true love and all he cares about right now is changing his girlfriends everyday.

I am sorry but I think you shouldn't give him a single thought. He doesn't deserve it. If he cared about you he would've never done that. If he loved you, he would've never let that girl enter his life.

Please forget about him and move on with life, I am sure there'll be someone else who's much much better and made for you.

-Mahi

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Maan-Diwani

@Maan-Diwani

Inactive

+ 2

Posted: 16 years ago

if ur bf never told her that he had a gf or told her about you than u really can't get angry at her, that would be his fault. but if she did know about you and still went in persuaded him than yes she's a b****.

But honestly ur bf should of never slept with another women when he has u. i would say dump his a**.

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Maleo

@maleos

Beginner

Posted: 16 years ago

leave him, that kind of guy is useless...

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lovepreet

@pearls1124

Inactive

Posted: 16 years ago

Ok let me tell u one thing..............

its all his fault if he was in love with u then he would definitely tell the girl that he already is in relationship..........

bt he didn't do -- what does that tell you????

that he is cheating on you and I think u should dump him rite now..... he doesn't deserve all that from u --- I understand that u really love him bt just stay away and I am sure that you'll get used it.... again he is not the right gy for u b/c even if guys go any further wtih this relationship i am damn sure that u guys will have all the those problems later on once a cheater is always a cheater.........

stay away from that cheater......................

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Nisha.87

@Nisha.87

Inactive

Posted: 16 years ago

if he is cheating dump him, once a cheater always a cheater

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Aditi

@aditi...

Explorer

Posted: 16 years ago

Leave him, he doesn't deserve you. If he cared about you, he wouldn't be cheating on you. You deserve someone way better...

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Anam

@Anam_naan

Inactive

Posted: 16 years ago

When dat guy has no love for u..nd having agf he sleeps with some1 else..den he is the .......... .............

newayz u shuld leave him..bt nt like dis..teach him a lesson..so dat he dosent do this again to any1 else...

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dream

@dream

Voyager

Posted: 16 years ago

He has cheated on u..leave him & truly he doesnt deserve u...u knw what he'll realise his mistake soon...anyways..he should be ashamed of himself ..n u move on & be happy!

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Mmm

@xsweetbabygyalx

Explorer

Posted: 16 years ago

#10

firstly....he should had not gave her permission to sleep over his place.....she should be really ashamed of sleeping with her own boss, that is plain old disgusting.....this is gonna sound bitter but he isn't faithful towards you because if he was, he would never let the other lady come into his life.....he could had made excuses that he is not looking for relationships but wants to work.

just as everybody is saying....leave him....you will find somebody.....he is a cheater, i do agree with everybody but according to me, he is a player.....he might dump her when he finds somebody else.....there are some girls out there who know that a guy is taken but they still make their moves on the guy who is already taken......whether in a pre marital relationship or in a marital relationship.

you will find somebody who would care for you and be very faithful towards you.

best of luck !!!

it will be harsh but you have to leave him for your own good.....the best thing to do is tell him how deeply hurt you are, it will make him realize how badly he had hurted your feelings then break up with him.

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