Humsafar Discussion Thread - Page 93

Originally posted by: The.Patthaaka.

Oh Asher Asher Asher!

Jitna dil kholke mohabbat kiya,utni hi shiddat se dil todna bhi jaante ho. Cant actually call it dil "todna" exactly. Coz this is more of refusing to shower love and not exactly hate or breaking her heart. He is making her feel devoid of any form of love.

You know I truly believe its always better "to know,than to not know at all." Not knowing is a bigger torture.

This is another thing about HS than makes it stand out. We have umpteen number of stories showing about how people fall in love,how a relationship is formed,likewise,we have also seen a relationship breaking and how people are all sulking post break up. BUT,we have NEVER seen this aspect of a relationship.

See,there is a blurred phase between a relationship being fine,relationship not being fine and the relationship eventually breaking. Humsafar is now exploring the phase between the relationship not being fine and breaking. This I have never seen before. Atleast not a good version of it.

When you've fully invested in a person,you are used to his/her expression of love(again,not everyone uses words to express their love,introverts dont always use words,its more about gestures. WHatever it is,his/her partner would know whatever that form is) The worst possible punishment you could give someone you love and someone who loves you,is first shower as much love as u can and then abruptly say "hey!Im out of juice,man. You dont get any lovey dovey words,gestures or even smiles or nods. Deal with it."

With every exhale,its almost asthough he is spitting his displeasure on Khirad.

What's worse is you dont even know why. (Hmm. Are u sure u dont? Khirad,honey,think deeper,what was the root cause? When was the first time he showed signs of displeasure?)

Asher is conversing,yes. But not how he used to,not about what he used to,not how she was used to.

Add to it. He has a frustrated serious look on his face all the time,the furrowed forehead and the arch eyebrow (Fawad TOTALLY nailed it. 👏)

I cant believe this,I actually was a bit teary-eyed by the end of the episode. The actual heart-break is way better than not knowing if ur heart is still,full. Does that make sense? Hope u got my point.

Also,I made an observation 😆 WIth this new Asher surfacing now. His suits have changed too. Its darker shades now and not the dull pastels (eww 🤢 ) and they're more fitted and tighter,much like his uptight behavior now. Hmm,co-incidence much?

A very good episode. Fawad shines in every scene. 👏

and yes lovely observation about his appearance too. fawad changes his body language too to make it happen. as u said he shines in each scene, each expression, each nuanced detailing about his delivery of the scene makes me believe that he is blessed with skills. ⭐️

Originally posted by: pinkeye

Episode 10 should be titled as love hurts.


Two people suffocating in love as they feel their paradise is changing. It was hard to see both Asher and khirad suffering like that for no fault of theirs. Asher's insecurities and envy are biggest enemy for him and his marital relation. And to retaliate and in hope of being comforted, he chose indifference and anger to hurt a girl whom he claims to love. Its like I am suffeting , so you also have to suffer. Tit for tat to soothe my raging emotions, a very normal human emotion I duppose. But I have one glitch regarding this, why cant he communicate properly with his spouse? Its better to talk and sort out issues rather than being that unreasonable. Moreover if he was so jittery about khizer and his antics, he should have warned him to back off saying dude you are crosdi g your limit. I mean what was he getting constantly emotionally stabbing khirad?

Coming to khirad, I felt for her but she is way too naive to not understanding what her husbamd is jittery about. But I will not hold that against her as she tried to talk, to communicate just like any other woman to sort out issues. But all goes down drain. Her portrayal of gradually getting disheartened by repeatitive harsh behaviour of Asher was very well presented and portrayed. It was visible with each interaction she was pushed yo the wall and her happy bright life was getting dim. Well done Mr Director. Specially the last interaction where she says isnt it my right to deserve the answer as a wife? Asher was as usual rude, arrogant and I am not bothered. The man portraying it was top notch in those scenes. I wil not fangirl on Fawad's portrayal.


Today's episode also validated the fact here every antagonist was driven by their ego and had vengeance towards protagonists like a run of the mill story. Khizer hated Asher as he was rejected by his love thanks to her obcession, sara hated khorad for her rejection and ousted from her man's life and Farida hated the marriage as her marriage was once threatened for the association. So in a way, another normal human emotion is highlighted and caused the damage. Is it right or wrong? I guess ending of each will justify that. But it surely emphasizes on the fact that when negative traits emotionally takes you over, all of us are self destructive irrespective of being protagonist or antagonist of the story.

I hated Fareeda and fakeness and her cold brutal plotting , hated khizer the obcessive lover whose male ego was bruised badly and Sara has no control, so I feel sorry for her rather angry. Better I stop analysing them in these epis.


My most favorite scene when khirad stumbled due ro dizziness it was Asher who holds her tight and asked worriedly are you ok. Love hurts because finally you love the person and have immense expectations from their emotions, but it cares too and thats why for a moment he gave up his ego, his disturbed heartbeats to see the most precious person in his life is doing fine or not. A very subtle, heart warming scene to show love still wins over indiffernce and anger. Loved it.


P.can I just say Fawad and Mahira looked drop dead gorgeous and divine in white in that morning scene? Uff Fk , dnt look so good yaar. And Mk and her chikan kurta, I am jealous to get that.

the bg music is beautoful nd the song just gets stuck in your head. A brilliant amalgamation with scenes.


Tomorrow should pass soon with that horrific turning point scene. Painful and annoying to see. Not looking forward I guess.

Originally posted by: BlackStar.

Watching now, and I'm in serious mode of wanting to kill Khalil 🤢 Ullu ka patha badtameez.

Call me Sana btw.

Originally posted by: The.Patthaaka.

I read some spoiler in there! 😡 But oh well,I should've known! Fareeda,u 🤬

Thats a very well written analysis,Payal.

A few words on what u said,although I agree it would've made more sense to just actually "communicate". But how often do we do that? When it comes to ego,none of us bend. Moreso with men. We women tend to have a softer side,thus ego ko bolein chal bhaad mein,but with men its not the case.

Its always said,that post break up,the man shows plain anger,while the woman is more sulky and emotional with the obvious crying and stuff. But with time,a woman learns to deal with it. But with a man,its the exact opposite,just after the break up,a man almost always shows that he will most definitely deal with it. He's frustrated,but not broken unlike the woman. But with time,his condition worsens,it hits him slowly what has happened and he suffers later. For a longer period,the pain becoming worse day by day.

Im not sure what happens with HS later,but lets see. I feel Khirad would grow stronger post the years,while Asher becomes weaker. Or hanst he already? What he believes is strength,is actually his weakness? Hmm.

Originally posted by: The.Patthaaka.

Aww,ur too kind Payal. 🤗 I'll try to come here surely babe.

Man,Im already sad there is going to be a sunday in between,so how humsafar. what eees the helll. How am I gonna wait till monday?

Originally posted by: The.Patthaaka.

Aww,ur too kind Payal. 🤗 I'll try to come here surely babe.

Man,Im already sad there is going to be a sunday in between,so how humsafar. what eees the helll. How am I gonna wait till monday?

Originally posted by: The.Patthaaka.

Another point I would like to mention,I read in many reviews I read on other sites and some even here which kept telling about khirad being young and naive,so she doesnt know how to handle it. She needs experience and stuff. I find that a bit hard to digest.

What could she have done differently? and what does experience mean exactly? First love wouldnt be first love,if you had an experience with someone else before. It would be ur second then.

And when ur in love for the first time,u go all out. U invest in that person completely. Unless u know what heartbreak could be like,how would u know where to draw the line?

And Khirad u stupid girl,why havent u told him ur pregnant yet? 😡 But now when I see her procrastinating,well,lady,if u had watched some saas bahu shows,you would've known that taking so long to disclose this matter would obviously cost u in the end.

Here she could've used some experience I think,not on being preggo,but on saas bahu shows 😆

But i guess when people say experience,I guess u mean with experience she could've have been a better judge of a person? She could've known what Khizar was really upto or what was bothering Asher?

Well,she does know whats bothering Asher deep down,but she's refusing to believe it,isnt she? Everytime Khizer crossed the line,Khirad most definitely noticed Asher's changing expression.

This Khizer and Sarah are a pain in the you-know-what. God!