Humsafar Discussion Thread - Page 72

Originally posted by: mary78613

I felt bad for her in the beginning but now she is annoying. The guy is married now and she really needs to move on.

I think an individual's perception matters way too much here. Some people can accept that their beloved cannot be theirs anymore and some simply cannot. Sara is just one of those characters you cannot disregard because she's annoying because it's not without history, just without cause.

Originally posted by: The.Patthaaka.

Payal,knowing you,I can surely tell that I too would like the latter half. I smell tragedy. Haha.

I would define Sara in jst one line *As few days back we discussed Sara in detail !! *

"She Love Asher But She dont know How to Love " Love is about sacrifice , Its not about getting ! Love is to happy in the happiness of the Beloved ! U cnt get Love by Fighting , If U are destined to be together , No force in this Universe will stop tht to happen !
Just Like Asher-Khirad !

after all the discussion in here frm few days ! I have another point fr HS as msg !
"AK married eachother listening (in respect) of their Parents & In the End they lived Happily , Sara on the Other Hand didnt hear her Mother Advise & keep on running behind the thing which she wont ever get , Spoil her Life (Lost her Life) Leaving behind just Pain & Sorrow fr her Mother *

though Zarina wsnt best of Mom , Bt still she tried to stop her !

Originally posted by: epiphany.

I think an individual's perception matters way too much here. Some people can accept that their beloved cannot be theirs anymore and some simply cannot. Sara is just one of those characters you cannot disregard because she's annoying because it's not without history, just without cause.

This also reminds me of some the best poets and shayars who started writing because they couldn't get their love(again one-sided),,even they could also not move on,hence resorted themselves to writing.So yeah it can be difficult for people to move on but even then I do not feel too bad for Sara maybe because what she did to Khirad-Asher.Had she been harmless to them I may have empathized with her.

Originally posted by: pinkeye

@epiphany, I loved how you put Sara state by saying she was programmed to l8ve asher. Yes her mind was conditioned like that she would be partner for life for Asher the perfect man. She invested way too much emotions unknowingly that what the man himself thinks. As some one here said on first epi, it shows bad parenting that how children shoul nt ve fed with false hopes from young age that later it becomes detrimental.

I know she did many things which loojed campush, looked too negative but somehow I cnt just think about hating her. I cnt. And Asher mom used her very cleverly to throw Khorad put, it was never about Sara for her too, she wanted to settle score for her insult by Baseerat.

Sara 's boggest flaw was she was way too impulsive and was never in cobtrol 9f her emotions as an individual. Love at the expense of self respect is suicidal imo and she failed to understand that till the ladt day. She just refused to move on woth an hope of illusion that the man will be hers which was timely indulged by peopke surrounding her including Asher in the early says of his marriage. So I do feel of asher khirad wete victimised, Sara was as victimised like them and though her deeds were wrong but I do sympathise with her.

#1 Thank you, I have a way with words which unfortunately comes out best when I am discussing conflicted and tragedy-stricken fictional people.

#2 I agree with you, this is really bad parenting and just the pathetic practice of making people believe they are born to marry so and so person one day. For, the most interesting thing to notice here is that Asher was never interested in Sara, even when Khirad was out of the picture. He didn't marry her or even get engaged when Khirad was gone. He simply never saw her in that light. And because of all that she was conditioned to believe, she could never once give a fair bit of thought to his feelings.

fr my previous comment , Ok Sorry I wrote a full para in the name of one line 😆

Originally posted by: mary78613

Even I loved the latter half. It was so intense and engaging. I am sure you will love it.

Right now, its just the romance, more things will follow the romance and you will be hooked.

+1

Originally posted by: epiphany.

Shit, I didn't realize you haven't actually watched the whole show. 😛

Yes, she's gonna be around and she is not psychotic. Put your feet in her shoes and try to imagine your predicament if a guy you've wanted to marry for almost as long as you have lived is now absolutely and permanently taken. It is in your very psyche to love him and want him, what would you do?

The Best thing abt HS was !
U dnt hate anybody at the end , Evn Not Fareeda !
Everyone here felt bad fr Sara & thts wht tht Sarmad & Naveen said in Special Live transnission !

Originally posted by: MamuKiBhanji

I would define Sara in jst one line *As few days back we discussed Sara in detail !! *

"She Love Asher But She dont know How to Love " Love is about sacrifice , Its not about getting ! Love is to happy in the happiness of the Beloved ! U cnt get Love by Fighting , If U are destined to be together , No force in this Universe will stop tht to happen !
Just Like Asher-Khirad !

after all the discussion in here frm few days ! I have another point fr HS as msg !
"AK married eachother listening (in respect) of their Parents & In the End they lived Happily , Sara on the Other Hand didnt hear her Mother Advise & keep on running behind the thing which she wont ever get , Spoil her Life (Lost her Life) Leaving behind just Pain & Sorrow fr her Mother *

though Zarina wsnt best of Mom , Bt still she tried to stop her !

Listening to your parents isn't always heavenly in the end. It can go both ways. And while I admire Asher and Khirad together, I feel sorry for Sara and feel like she needs to be defended even after the blunders she made. For, literally everyone on the show, Asher included, is flawed. Khirad is way too not flawed, yes. But the others are and Sara deserves to not be hated just as much as the next person. Khizar can also not be entirely hated, that's the sad point in here.