Yeh Rishtey Hai Pyaar Ke Live Updates/EDT 24 Aug 2020 - Page 5

Originally posted by: angelfire78

True that he used to leave the house to avoid family getting affected, and also they are mother and son so their equation is different and they is always that underlying love. But...Kuhu and Mishti also come together when needed, why is that being ignored? There are more than enough examples. They don't need to best friends to come together against a common enemy. So sometimes they fight about ridiculous things?

Everyone deals with clashes differently. He may not think it's a big deal to give in when he fights with Meenu, but it's really not the same to expect Mishti to give in to Kuhu. I think he does understand that, and he thinks Mishti is pretending to resolve things because she fears Abir will leave her or BP/BM ehsaan but this time it is the pressure from Meenu too na? That probably hurt, but Mishti clearly told him this can't be resolved overnight and obviously she's not the only one involved, I don't even know why they're talking about the baby thing now.

Like Viji was saying, no one is wrong, but this rush to resolve issues is not helping anyone.

Agreed daya

Sometimes I wonder it's not the rush actually, its thr result of delay over the years and everyone is at fault for the delay ....it's now the need of the hour to resolve the issues...

The drama is building up. But I want a Kunal- Kuhu confrontation or conversation, just like Abir- mishti had today. Both are wrong, hence the responsibility to correct the situation should be on both, not only on Mishti. Why build pressure on Mishti alone? That isn’t fair! Being sensible and understanding doesn’t mean, you need to take the responsibility of the world. And being childish doesn’t mean, you have the license to make mistakes n times. Bade papa came to Mishti to tell to solve the issue. Why haven’t Varsha spoken to Kuhu to solve the issue, what ever it is, and whoever mistake it is?

I think it’s high time, Mishti lands up in hospital with all the pressure mounted on her and everything taking toll on her !

abir was highly pissed off today! He is right in getting pissed off! I don’t blame him. But he forgot that him getting pissed off, is only going to increase Mishti’s problems!

I liked that Today Mishti asked her doubt of Starting family atleast to BM! The motivation was thrashed , all thanks to next round of fight!

In all this Abir forgot one thing- he wanted to check if they really sorted out their issue, he is right! But he did not see the similarity in Kuhu’s behavior now and then when Abir came to know about coffee pills fiasco! Both the times, Mishti did not tell anything to Abir! Abir came to know by himself or by some other means, but Kuhu blames Mishti in both the Scenarios! He needs to weigh, in whose side the fault exactly is! Why he did not ask Kuhu - what’s wrong in Mishti sharing the incident with Abir after all he is her husband!

Someone have to make kuhu understand that her committing whatever mistake it is, the reason whatever it be, the intention is always to hurt Mishti! And she should realise that truth always comes out in open some day or other! That doesn’t mean, if you have asked sorry for your mistake, doesn’t mean, the weight of the mistake won’t chase you. Did Mishti’s being Naman’s daughter ever left her?

Most entertaining part was Meenu trolling #together! 😆

Special mention to dil ko choo jaane vali line by BM to mishti when she shares her dilemma with BM on starting a family

God me Santan aane Se hi ladki Maa nahi banti.

Mann Me Mamta Aane Se Maa Banti Hai

Zabardasti psychological issues cannot be solved. Both girls need Family therapy.
Abir clearly told Mishti today that if she stayed quiet when Kuhu abused her then wo Chhoti nahin ho jayegi- matlab ke she should just become Meena Kumari in Main Chup Rahungi- the typical all suffering bahu who keeps quiet and puts up with all abuses and attacks!

Abir triggered Kuhu to attack Mishti today and Mishti didn’t even fight back so why is he berating Mishti?

Mishti is genuinely trying to patch up with Kuhu, she always extends the olive branch first and Abir knows this! But still he’s blaming Mishti?

Zabardasti pyaar nahin hota, dosti bhi zabardadti nahin hoti, what do Abir and BP expect, within a day the girls are going to resolve 10 years of conflict?

The girls need to consult a family counselor or therapist who can help resolve their decade old angst and resentment

Way to go, Abir, throwing Mishti’s deep seated fears on her face, her fear of being abandoned and paying her debts for BP BM’s big ehsaan!

Come on Mishti, you should know your aukaat! Everyone expects YOU to be magnanimous and sacrifice your dignity, your self worth and be Kuhu’s punching bag! Nobody expects Kuhu to change, to stop her unfounded attacks on you, just be silent and accept all her crap for peace in Ashanti sadan! 🤪

It cracks me up how suddenly RJV pagalkhana is being portrayed as Shanti Sadan as if we all have amnesia and forget the daily drama that goes on there

Yeah Kuhu should be Ben Ba and keep Mishti under her feet like BB does to Parul! That will maintain balance in the madhouse!

And yes Abir, if Mishti isn’t mature enough to have a baby then you have to postpone it! Mishti has doubts about being a mother because her own mother never cared for her! But I suspect she’s already pregnant so you’re going to regret your words soon!

https://twitter.com/lostAngelzx/status/1297720841816293376

Rasode mein aaj kuhu thi 🤣🤣🤣

Juicer mein oranges daal diye aur abir ke saamne drama pakda gaya pakda gaya

Vo kuhu thi 🤣

Gusse mein ice cubes tod diye aur abir ke saamne drama pakda gaya pakda gaya

Wait I need to write a full version today 🤣

Originally posted by: angelfire78

True that he used to leave the house to avoid family getting affected, and also they are mother and son so their equation is different and they is always that underlying love. But...Kuhu and Mishti also come together when needed, why is that being ignored? There are more than enough examples. They don't need to best friends to come together against a common enemy. So sometimes they fight about ridiculous things?

Everyone deals with clashes differently. He may not think it's a big deal to give in when he fights with Meenu, but it's really not the same to expect Mishti to give in to Kuhu. I think he does understand that, and he thinks Mishti is pretending to resolve things because she fears Abir will leave her or BP/BM ehsaan but this time it is the pressure from Meenu too na? That probably hurt, but Mishti clearly told him this can't be resolved overnight and obviously she's not the only one involved, I don't even know why they're talking about the baby thing now.

Like Viji was saying, no one is wrong, but this rush to resolve issues is not helping anyone.

Ok even abir too said to bm that they come together at time of need... All he said is deal in calm way, have a cordial relationship atleast if you can support each other at time of need why can't you atleast be cordial...

He himself said he doesn't expect her to give in but he also wants them to resolve for how many days will they stretch it... How many days will they pretend.. he clearly said Meenu to not involve but we can't stop her, when he gets to know this don't know what will happen...

But they all aee missing out the important thing that is the main reason they can't even be cordial is the lack of trust on each other... They need to talk to girls to understand this...

And the babies yaar that was so not good... But then I get an idea why they are bringing this up...

See mishku problem is from their childhood n they have first hand experience on how it affected their childhood n also now... How the bad influence around them has affected them n how it has intensified now... So if someone clearly talks about all this now they will understand no one will want their kid to go through what they had... Kids gets influenced by both positive n negative around them be it abinal love or mishku difference.. so it's like trying to relive their childhood n seeing where they both stand what's the problem n they can find a permanent closure...

And just like Meenu n Abir even abir n his kid can have difference of opinion that's natural Meenu n Abir understand the others mindset n they move on too but if their kids fight n get influenced by mishku fight over everything there won't be any love between them history will repeat.. this can be a reality check to girls...

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Zabardasti psychological issues cannot be solved. Both girls need Family therapy.
Abir clearly told Mishti today that if she stayed quiet when Kuhu abused her then wo Chhoti nahin ho jayegi- matlab ke she should just become Meena Kumari in Main Chup Rahungi- the typical all suffering bahu who keeps quiet and puts up with all abuses and attacks!

Abir triggered Kuhu to attack Mishti today and Mishti didn’t even fight back so why is he berating Mishti?

Mishti is genuinely trying to patch up with Kuhu, she always extends the olive branch first and Abir knows this! But still he’s blaming Mishti?

Zabardasti pyaar nahin hota, dosti bhi zabardadti nahin hoti, what do Abir and BP expect, within a day the girls are going to resolve 10 years of conflict?

The girls need to consult a family counselor or therapist who can help resolve their decade old angst and resentment

Way to go, Abir, throwing Mishti’s deep seated fears on her face, her fear of being abandoned and paying her debts for BP BM’s big ehsaan!

Come on Mishti, you should know your aukaat! Everyone expects YOU to be magnanimous and sacrifice your dignity, your self worth and be Kuhu’s punching bag! Nobody expects Kuhu to change, to stop her unfounded attacks on you, just be silent and accept all her crap for peace in Ashanti sadan! 🤪

It cracks me up how suddenly RJV pagalkhana is being portrayed as Shanti Sadan as if we all have amnesia and forget the daily drama that goes on there

Yeah Kuhu should be Ben Ba and keep Mishti under her feet like BB does to Parul! That will maintain balance in the madhouse!

And yes Abir, if Mishti isn’t mature enough to have a baby then you have to postpone it! Mishti has doubts about being a mother because her own mother never cared for her! But I suspect she’s already pregnant so you’re going to regret your words soon!

I agree zabardasti issues can't be resolved. Abir was telling her to ignore Kuhu's rantings, that's different from being all-suffering. He does have more patience and expects her to be similar. maybe not possible, but you can expect your spouse to do something similar to what you would have done na? What's wrong with that?

He is upset with Mishti because she tried to lie to him, and she did not try to genuinely patch things up this time but just put a hold on their fighting.

I also agree that things can't be resolved immediately, but the urgency to resolve things immediately is not coming from him. He clearly told Mishti it's OK if she doesn't want to talk to Kuhu, but he's not coming back.

He was most definitely not throwing her fears in her face. He was asking her if she still believes he will abandon her and that BM/BP have done ehsaan since she still feels the need to pretend.

Oh most definitely Abir forgot his own words about drama with food every day 😆.

Gusse mein I'm sure it hurt, but the underlying point was correct na? Bringing a baby into this environment would not be good.

https://twitter.com/1__Ishika/status/1297726825892687873

The moment mishti realises the sister drama act is caught by abir 😆😆

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

Ok even abir too said to bm that they come together at time of need... All he said is deal in calm way, have a cordial relationship atleast if you can support each other at time of need why can't you atleast be cordial...

He himself said he doesn't expect her to give in but he also wants them to resolve for how many days will they stretch it... How many days will they pretend.. he clearly said Meenu to not involve but we can't stop her, when he gets to know this don't know what will happen...

But they all aee missing out the important thing that is the main reason they can't even be cordial is the lack of trust on each other... They need to talk to girls to understand this...

And the babies yaar that was so not good... But then I get an idea why they are bringing this up...

See mishku problem is from their childhood n they have first hand experience on how it affected their childhood n also now... How the bad influence around them has affected them n how it has intensified now... So if someone clearly talks about all this now they will understand no one will want their kid to go through what they had... Kids gets influenced by both positive n negative around them be it abinal love or mishku difference.. so it's like trying to relive their childhood n seeing where they both stand what's the problem n they can find a permanent closure...

And just like Meenu n Abir even abir n his kid can have difference of opinion that's natural Meenu n Abir understand the others mindset n they move on too but if their kids fight n get influenced by mishku fight over everything there won't be any love between them history will repeat.. this can be a reality check to girls...

I agree with what Abir is asking them to do, but the time and guilt pressure created by others is unnecessary I feel.

Oh I totally get what he meant about the baby thing. Ignoring the angry words, the underlying sentiment was correct. But I was wondering why they were talking about baby in the midst of this nonsense, but now as I'm writing I think it is to reiterate the importance of resolving this issue.

Originally posted by: Onyourface

https://twitter.com/lostAngelzx/status/1297720841816293376

Rasode mein aaj kuhu thi 🤣🤣🤣

Juicer mein oranges daal diye aur abir ke saamne drama pakda gaya pakda gaya

Vo kuhu thi 🤣

Gusse mein ice cubes tod diye aur abir ke saamne drama pakda gaya pakda gaya

Wait I need to write a full version today 🤣