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Originally posted by: Onyourface

Unpopular opinion cuz mein majority mai aati hi nahi hun kabhi 😆

The episode was extremely interesting ,.clash of all perspectives !! Watch it again if you are just here to support only one character because everyone seems to be right and wrong at their places

1. The video call convo and the last mishbir convo was done to the T ...loved the way abir and mishti came out and told what they genuinely felt without putting any cover ups or hiding stuff or pretending...they said what they felt....now that's some real couple convo ...I would any day prefer mishbir saying what they genuinely feel rather than buttering up each other...haa mein haa nahi mila rahe , vo bol rahe hai jo dono genuinely feel karte hai

Mishri was right that issues can't be sorted overnight and abir made it messier by coming to mahs

Abir counter attacked her saying you can't do sisters bonding drama for life, life is not a play

Mishti says we can't be best friends like abinal...abir says no one expects you to be so , we expect cordial relationships cuz he doesn't want today's fight to be passed on to next generation

Mishti says you left me , abir says if you still think I can leave you and BP BM love seems to be a favour to you , then you really have to be a kid for thinking this and I guess we have to postpone our plan to be parents

Abir wants mishku to talk it out while mishti has no idea how to resolve the issue ....she knows just talking it out will not solve the purpose

2. Will give some brownie points to abir for targeting on kuhu's insecurities so easily in order to make her speak and end the lovey dovey drama ...he clearly knows kuhu is the weak link here....but I will take all those brownie points back for under estimating benba and not handling her properly 😆😆 some brownie points to kunal for not giving ittu sa bhi bhaav to kuhu and acknowledging his bhabhi as the intelligent one along with kuhu to shut up jas 😆

3. BP playing victim , saying it's all his fault , he couldn't pay attention to this toxic relationship and the girls are so shameless that even when it comes to respect of the eldest member of the family , these girls will still keep fighting ...good BP , you mentioned both mishku and not just mishti 😃

4. Big ben all excited to welcome her sons back but will be given a good shock 😎🤣 In turn she will give shock to the girls 🤪

So girls are asked to leave mahs , girls are asked to leave RVs ...sansaar mein in dono behno ka ab koi bhi nahi bacha ...arey re re re 🤪🤪 Ab kya karengi yeh sisters ....

I am really looking forward to see how will the issue get resolved 😆

Wow guruji early morning 🤗🤗

Superb analysis yaar... Asusual we are on same boat... Everyone are right in their place now this is interesting...

Bp talking in common is good but expecting them to resolve on own??? Someone needs to talk to girls naa so that they understand what to do, all they have did till now is act infront of family they don't have any other idea, they need someone to guide..

Yaar bb involvement is so fun poor sasuma wanted her son back but big poppat 😆 abh no one can escape 🤣

I feel when abir knows this maa aur bete ki beech kuch hoga.. 😆

In all this biggest saving grace everything is out in open n everyone are talking no hide n seek or secrets or drama... Hope we n girls get a permanent closure to this.. 😆

Originally posted by: angelfire78

I agree zabardasti issues can't be resolved. Abir was telling her to ignore Kuhu's rantings, that's different from being all-suffering. He does have more patience and expects her to be similar. maybe not possible, but you can expect your spouse to do something similar to what you would have done na? What's wrong with that?

He is upset with Mishti because she tried to lie to him, and she did not try to genuinely patch things up this time but just put a hold on their fighting.

I also agree that things can't be resolved immediately, but the urgency to resolve things immediately is not coming from him. He clearly told Mishti it's OK if she doesn't want to talk to Kuhu, but he's not coming back.

He was most definitely not throwing her fears in her face. He was asking her if she still believes he will abandon her and that BM/BP have done ehsaan since she still feels the need to pretend.

Oh most definitely Abir forgot his own words about drama with food every day 😆.

Gusse mein I'm sure it hurt, but the underlying point was correct na? Bringing a baby into this environment would not be good.

Definitely it’s the wrong time for a baby then why throw it in her face that she’s too immature to have a baby?

Abir is not blind, he can see everytime Kuhu attacks Mishti and 80% of the time Mishti tries to take the high road or she just defends herself like any Normal person would do!

He also knows Mishti really cares about Kuhu (all her efforts and sacrifice to get KuKu married) and he knows all the kaands Kuhu has done against Mishti and still she forgave Kuhu!

What exactly does he expect Mishti to do? Fall at Kuhu’s feet and beg for mercy even when Kuhu attacks? It makes no sense! It’s not possible to reason with an Egotist like Kuhu, she will never accept Mishti from her heart!

Originally posted by: angelfire78

I agree, the RVs would be much better at resolving this without involving the Mahs. Kunal bhi baat kar raha hai na. I think they will show tomorrow, but Varsha's focus seems to be different. She seems more stuck on appearances. Even holi time when Kuhu wouldn't come down, she didn't care about Kuhu's issues and seemed to focus on how it would look to Meenu if she didn't come down. So I don't think we'll see anything else on that front.

They were drinking. They resolved their differences, and things got better though.

Exactly varsha is more focused on appearance n with jas with her it's definitely not good if they talk to kuhu...

Hopefully kunal will talk yaar... He is more practical n he has more knowledge of girls issue too, and he needs to handle it calmly too...

Uff that's good let's get the girls too locked in a room then😆

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Unpopular opinion cuz mein majority mai aati hi nahi hun kabhi 😆

The episode was extremely interesting ,.clash of all perspectives !! Watch it again if you are just here to support only one character because everyone seems to be right and wrong at their places

1. The video call convo and the last mishbir convo was done to the T ...loved the way abir and mishti came out and told what they genuinely felt without putting any cover ups or hiding stuff or pretending...they said what they felt....now that's some real couple convo ...I would any day prefer mishbir saying what they genuinely feel rather than buttering up each other...haa mein haa nahi mila rahe , vo bol rahe hai jo dono genuinely feel karte hai

Mishri was right that issues can't be sorted overnight and abir made it messier by coming to mahs

Abir counter attacked her saying you can't do sisters bonding drama for life, life is not a play

Mishti says we can't be best friends like abinal...abir says no one expects you to be so , we expect cordial relationships cuz he doesn't want today's fight to be passed on to next generation

Mishti says you left me , abir says if you still think I can leave you and BP BM love seems to be a favour to you , then you really have to be a kid for thinking this and I guess we have to postpone our plan to be parents

Abir wants mishku to talk it out while mishti has no idea how to resolve the issue ....she knows just talking it out will not solve the purpose

2. Will give some brownie points to abir for targeting on kuhu's insecurities so easily in order to make her speak and end the lovey dovey drama ...he clearly knows kuhu is the weak link here....but I will take all those brownie points back for under estimating benba and not handling her properly 😆😆 some brownie points to kunal for not giving ittu sa bhi bhaav to kuhu and acknowledging his bhabhi as the intelligent one along with kuhu to shut up jas 😆

3. BP playing victim , saying it's all his fault , he couldn't pay attention to this toxic relationship and the girls are so shameless that even when it comes to respect of the eldest member of the family , these girls will still keep fighting ...good BP , you mentioned both mishku and not just mishti 😃

4. Big ben all excited to welcome her sons back but will be given a good shock 😎🤣 In turn she will give shock to the girls 🤪

So girls are asked to leave mahs , girls are asked to leave RVs ...sansaar mein in dono behno ka ab koi bhi nahi bacha ...arey re re re 🤪🤪 Ab kya karengi yeh sisters ....

I am really looking forward to see how will the issue get resolved 😆

Agree, one of those things where everyone is right in their place.

1. Loved both their conversations. I'm so glad they can be truthful and also fight - Mish came to fight with him for outing them in front of the family 😆

2. Yeah BB ka beta hai na 🤣 BB's reaction was similar when they were acting all lovey-dovey 😆.

3. It's true, but would have been better if he had spoken spoken to both of them about this before.

@bold - jinko notice karna tha notice kiya kya?

4. Girls ko shock pe shock!

Yes, would love to see that too. Got a little sad after seeing the episode, but after all this discussion I am definitely forward to see what happens!!

Mish Ku have their suitcases packed and thrown out of RJV. This is the time to go on a vacation together, not very far because of the current situation, maybe to a Yoga retreat! They will be fine when nobody is with them. Yoga will calm their minds and they just might resolve their issues.

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

I'm loving all the mature, sensible and interesting discussions happening here in the LU today.

👍🏼👏

This particular topic of the sister's relationship is one that has been talked on and off for a long time over the show's first year. Finally they are trying to get to the depths of the issue.

Like many are saying,

every character is both right and wrong in their own stance.

This is honestly so fascinating to watch and also read as people from various experiences in life, are giving their opinions and viewpoints on what each character should and should not do. This situation and the sister's deep-rooted issues are so complicated over the years, it's simply not applicable to keep one or two people responsible, neither is it valid to say one must fix it. It just doesn't work that way. When you're in a family, joint family like so, and the dynamics are so complex, it is not easy to pick sides, who is right and who is wrong definitively.

I'm enjoying the clash of opinions between Mishti and Abir👍🏼. But at the same time, these topics need to be discussed between the two sisters and the mah family. It cannot be solved just by Mishti and Kuhu and their husbands.

I'm trying to ignore the pregnancy...and what not as much as I can, but the makers are leaving no chance at deliberately injecting 'baby talk' in every episode🤔 hailaa! focus on ONE problem at a time. These writers are just tooo busy in making poor kichidi every single time

Nandu panda 🤗 aagaye meri jaan...

Totally I love all this discussion, I feel our show is yet again giving some amazing episodes with some reality n message... And focusing on important things... Ofcourse we like always have issue with execution with bby thing mix up... But over all this is so good...

But nandu involving mah family is not good I feel... See kuhu gets liverage as she has support there n mish guilt trip with bp/bm... Like Abir said she will only think of bp/bm ehsaan, varsha jas like Meenu said to influence kuhu...

Rjv can handle this alone n better way, they won't be biased like how Meenu pointed even abir was in picture which kuhu seems to forget everytime... To see whole picture n hear them both out without bias rjv must only be involved..

And about bby I have written something in pg 6 see it... Hope I made sense...

Mishbir fight ka scene kitna tha???? 🙄🙄🙄

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Agreed daya

Sometimes I wonder it's not the rush actually, its thr result of delay over the years and everyone is at fault for the delay ....it's now the need of the hour to resolve the issues...

Totally this is need of hour they can keep pushing it for years... Like Abir asked if this is thge situation over small thing what will happen when something big happens... N everyone have other things to do they have to move on in life going in circle is not gonna help...

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Definitely it’s the wrong time for a baby then why throw it in her face that she’s too immature to have a baby?

Abir is not blind, he can see everytime Kuhu attacks Mishti and 80% of the time Mishti tries to take the high road or she just defends herself like any Normal person would do!

He also knows Mishti really cares about Kuhu (all her efforts and sacrifice to get KuKu married) and he knows all the kaands Kuhu has done against Mishti and still she forgave Kuhu!

What exactly does he expect Mishti to do? Fall at Kuhu’s feet and beg for mercy even when Kuhu attacks? It makes no sense! It’s not possible to reason with an Egotist like Kuhu, she will never accept Mishti from her heart!

Bola na maine, gussa tha. Sometimes we say words in anger we don't exactly mean. I'm sure all of us have done that.

Abir has also seen Mishti wanting to bring out coffee mein pills, fighting at the resort, and the again that she started the second fight about the magazine cover. There are other things between MishKu he is unaware of.

He expects Mishti to talk to Kuhu and figure out what the problem is and try to resolve it. Mishti asks once in a while wha Kuhu's problem is, but I don't think she's ever tried to listen and understand from Kuhu's perspective. This is also needed if you want to try and resolve things.

In all this I'm not saying the issue can be resolved by Mishti alone, I'm just talking about what Abir would have expected from Mishti. If she could come back and say, see here are her issues with me and I have no idea how to even go about resolving them, then maybe reaction would be different. How would he not be mad at this pretence? They've been doing it for years with the Mahs.

Really, no one is wrong here. I'm just mentioning Abir's reasoning, but everyone is right and this is exciting to watch!

Originally posted by: abhilashasharma

The drama is building up. But I want a Kunal- Kuhu confrontation or conversation, just like Abir- mishti had today. Both are wrong, hence the responsibility to correct the situation should be on both, not only on Mishti. Why build pressure on Mishti alone? That isn’t fair! Being sensible and understanding doesn’t mean, you need to take the responsibility of the world. And being childish doesn’t mean, you have the license to make mistakes n times. Bade papa came to Mishti to tell to solve the issue. Why haven’t Varsha spoken to Kuhu to solve the issue, what ever it is, and whoever mistake it is?

I think it’s high time, Mishti lands up in hospital with all the pressure mounted on her and everything taking toll on her !

abir was highly pissed off today! He is right in getting pissed off! I don’t blame him. But he forgot that him getting pissed off, is only going to increase Mishti’s problems!

I liked that Today Mishti asked her doubt of Starting family atleast to BM! The motivation was thrashed , all thanks to next round of fight!

In all this Abir forgot one thing- he wanted to check if they really sorted out their issue, he is right! But he did not see the similarity in Kuhu’s behavior now and then when Abir came to know about coffee pills fiasco! Both the times, Mishti did not tell anything to Abir! Abir came to know by himself or by some other means, but Kuhu blames Mishti in both the Scenarios! He needs to weigh, in whose side the fault exactly is! Why he did not ask Kuhu - what’s wrong in Mishti sharing the incident with Abir after all he is her husband!

Someone have to make kuhu understand that her committing whatever mistake it is, the reason whatever it be, the intention is always to hurt Mishti! And she should realise that truth always comes out in open some day or other! That doesn’t mean, if you have asked sorry for your mistake, doesn’t mean, the weight of the mistake won’t chase you. Did Mishti’s being Naman’s daughter ever left her?

Most entertaining part was Meenu trolling #together! 😆

Totally abby...

You are right... Even I'm wondering why no one talking to kuhu.. we can't expect abir to take up that responsibility too, he does understand how kuhu is, he clearly said before lockdown to kuhu do you understand what mistake you are doing...

Someone from family n her husband kunal has to talk to her... And bp/bm has to take some responsibility as grandparents rather than just parents of mishti by putting pressure on her... Trusting varsha to handle is not doing any good...

Firstly jas should be given a earful 🤣 Meenu easily understood this but mah fam