Also I forgot to add...if MishBir leave the house and live separately then that is equal to ghar todna...and Mish will be blamed about not being able to live with her devar devrani so what everyone says about ghasr jodna nahin todna aata hai will be true and Abir is trying his best to make sure she doesn't get accused of ghar todna and learns how to live with anyone.
So isn't that what a true life partner should do...
Why should he even explain anything to anyone else..upar upar we whatever rishta there may be...his sabse gehra rishta is with Mish and he only wants her to understand
Its like a scene in chak de India...this girl fights with the rickshaw driver and her grandma asks her to calm down and have water and the girl says why aren't you telling this rickshaw wala and the grandma goes is he my puttar or are you my puttar.
So by that logic..is Mish Abir's sab kuch or is anyone else that? So obviously he will say what he wants to his sab kuch.