Why they are soo much negativity for Misthi..... - Page 3

Originally posted by: yyyy

I am referring to Ketki’a disappointment and expecting family to be understanding of Mishti’s weird behavior when you they are not sharing anything .From neutral viewer perspective, it’s unfair as no family can be so understanding when your own brother cares a damn about his sisters wedding .

Out of all the worst one is a new character like Nirmal taunting Mishti as if she has some grudge against her for years .It looks forced as if Jasmeet was not available so let’s butcher the new character to serve our purpose

Oh I agree the family is very confused because they are not really sharing anything. Ketki's disappointment is also understandable. But it's also very realistic that the bahu will be blamed for everything, even if the son is the one who does things. Mishti had no clue about the Bangalore trip. It was all Abir's idea, but everyone in the family is still blaming Mishti. From personal experience, this does happen. It is more likely that the DIL will be blamed for most things that happen, even if they are trying to help. They do not need to understand or even agree, but what is the need to share this information with a would-be samdhan? Couldn't they have covered it up and shown their dislike for what is happening internally? They haven't done that and instead they have clearly shown their dislike for their bahu and shared not just this but her background and everything about her. Unfortunately, this is the sad reality in our society. It would be nice to show some progressive thoughts in the show, but what they are showing could very well happen in reality. The idea that SIL and SIL's parents can say just about anything and get away with it is also very real in our society.

Really it's getting repetitive ,same jaap Mishti ki wajah se

In today's epi big Ben says not all are good bahu like herself and varuns mom.

First of all big Ben is staying in her dad's house,what good bahu she is talking about.😆

Originally posted by: Lee_14

Really it's getting repetitive ,same jaap Mishti ki wajah se

In today's epi big Ben says not all are good bahu like herself and varuns mom.

First of all big Ben is staying in her dad's house,what good bahu she is talking about.😆

It's kyuki saas bhi kabhi bahu thi 🤣

Originally posted by: yyyy

In short , to gain sympathy for the FL . Every character is portrayed as a villain including the new characters .Their genuine issue is portrayed as insensitive comments to hurt Mishti

Is there any character left by the Cvs to show in bad light .

the writing & execution of this track sucks big time, the mental health part, the murder in self-defense, the eve-teasing, everything is so irresponsibly handled that I seriously think that they should add the disclaimer in the starting of the episode

and now that Abir & Mishti can be clearly convicted of committing the crime of killing a person in self defense & running away from the scene without informing cops & hiding this for 3 months, there is clearly little the writers can do to maintain the sympathy level of audience for Mishti

so they are making everyone call her out with ott dialogues, even though their intent is completely justified because they dont know about the incidence & her PTSD condition like the viewers do (though all of them have asked about it plenty of times but they never got any reasonable answer) & so the viewers will automatically feel bad & sympathetic for her

Originally posted by: angelfire78

Oh I agree the family is very confused because they are not really sharing anything. Ketki's disappointment is also understandable. But it's also very realistic that the bahu will be blamed for everything, even if the son is the one who does things. Mishti had no clue about the Bangalore trip. It was all Abir's idea, but everyone in the family is still blaming Mishti. From personal experience, this does happen. It is more likely that the DIL will be blamed for most things that happen, even if they are trying to help. They do not need to understand or even agree, but what is the need to share this information with a would-be samdhan? Couldn't they have covered it up and shown their dislike for what is happening internally? They haven't done that and instead they have clearly shown their dislike for their bahu and shared not just this but her background and everything about her. Unfortunately, this is the sad reality in our society. It would be nice to show some progressive thoughts in the show, but what they are showing could very well happen in reality. The idea that SIL and SIL's parents can say just about anything and get away with it is also very real in our society.

I completely agree that even today it’s the DIL who gets blamed for her husband’s decisions but the way it was portrayed was too dramatic and unrealistic. It’s natural for Nirmal and family to raise questions if bride’s brother is leaving the wedding in the middle especially when they see Mishti hale and healthy because MiShbir haven’t spoken about mental illness . My issue is why is that concern shown in a bad light by making Nirmal and whole family gang up against Mishti .It looks so unrealistic to see Nirmal going on and on about Mishti’s upbringing and rest of the family being mute .In reality , relatives don’t attack someone so directly and the message is conveyed very diplomatically through taunts and other means .

My point is Ketki’s disappointment , Nirmal’s questions are natural and they don’t need be portrayed as villains by making everything dramatic

Originally posted by: peacenfun

the writing & execution of this track sucks big time, the mental health part, the murder in self-defense, the eve-teasing, everything is so irresponsibly handled that I seriously think that they should add the disclaimer in the starting of the episode

and now that Abir & Mishti can be clearly convicted of committing the crime of killing a person in self defense & running away from the scene without informing cops & hiding this for 3 months, there is clearly little the writers can do to maintain the sympathy level of audience for Mishti

so they are making everyone call her out with ott dialogues, even though their intent is completely justified because they dont know about the incidence & her PTSD condition (though all of them have asked about it plenty of times but they never got any reasonable answer) like the viewers do & so the viewers will automatically feel bad & sympathetic for her

Exactly you said it all . No matter what the situation was in the eyes of law Mishti and Abir have committed a crime by running away .

Every character is made to mouth horrible dialogues to divert the attention of the audience

Originally posted by: yyyy

I completely agree that even today it’s the DIL who gets blamed for her husband’s decisions but the way it was portrayed was too dramatic and unrealistic. It’s natural for Nirmal and family to raise questions if bride’s brother is leaving the wedding in the middle especially when they see Mishti hale and healthy because MiShbir haven’t spoken about mental illness . My issue is why is that concern shown in a bad light by making Nirmal and whole family gang up against Mishti .It looks so unrealistic to see Nirmal going on and on about Mishti’s upbringing and rest of the family being mute .In reality , relatives don’t attack someone so directly and the message is conveyed very diplomatically through taunts and other means .

My point is Ketki’s disappointment , Nirmal’s questions are natural and they don’t need be portrayed as villains by making everything dramatic

Nirmala could have asked Mishti in natural way too ..but pointing towards background and family pe jane ki kya zaarurat hai ..she is just samdhan 😈

Originally posted by: LiNdASoUmZ

Mental illness is not something we can openly speak about its something that inside us ..and we look happy outside

Nirmala could have asked Mishti in natural way too ..but pointing towards background and family pe jane ki kya zaarurat hai ..she is just samdhan 😈

That’s exactly what I am saying .No relative will talk to the DIL of the house the way Nirmala did .Felt like due to lockdown Jasmeet could t make it so her atma went inside Nirmala . In all this drama ,other character’s genuine concern was overlooked

Originally posted by: yyyy

That’s exactly what I am saying .No relative will talk to the DIL of the house the way Nirmala did .Felt like due to lockdown Jasmeet could t make it so her atma went inside Nirmala . In all this drama ,other character’s genuine concern was overlooked

Nirmala is someone not really related to RV family And if Ketu get married also she don't have any rights to speak in others family matters😡 I don't really like that Meenakshi told all those things to Nirmala to make Mishti horrible she really wants Mishbir to leave that house 😔

Originally posted by: peacenfun

the writing & execution of this track sucks big time, the mental health part, the murder in self-defense, the eve-teasing, everything is so irresponsibly handled that I seriously think that they should add the disclaimer in the starting of the episode

and now that Abir & Mishti can be clearly convicted of committing the crime of killing a person in self defense & running away from the scene without informing cops & hiding this for 3 months, there is clearly little the writers can do to maintain the sympathy level of audience for Mishti

so they are making everyone call her out with ott dialogues, even though their intent is completely justified because they dont know about the incidence & her PTSD condition like the viewers do (though all of them have asked about it plenty of times but they never got any reasonable answer) & so the viewers will automatically feel bad & sympathetic for her

How can abir be convicted of d crime 🤔🤔 did he tampered with d evidence, no I guess. Did he try to astray d police, nope. Dan how can he be convicted??. When their is accident in road sometimes we see lot of ppl don't want to help d victim because dey fear if dey take them to d hospital Dan dey huv to answer d police regarding d accident.R all those ppl convicted of running away from d accident site?? Rest some one huv explained in other post u can see it der

Coming to mishti, according to police post mortem report he died due to over dose of alcohol . Until n unless she confess der is no such proof against her. Than also she will be acquitted with self defense one. 🤷‍♀

Coming to sympathy one, well I would really like d writer to add more 1kg to 2kg sympathy for mishbir.give full sympathy to them after alll it's itv. Aur itv mein toh lead ko sympathy diya jata hain. Hamara show konsa Netflix mein aata hain😌😌