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Originally posted by: Lee_14

haha yes let's hope kuhu sab bol hi de 😆

Yup 🤣

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

True i too liked it mainly for this reason... they are having like a mature husband wife talk...

@bold - this i totally agree.. i said in my post too that he is going on about handling kuhu with kids gloves but havent realized how he is not able to see his wife issue in this... good that she opened up about it... now he should realize where he went wrong...

and about kuhu my main question is when he can confront kunal for spiking nannu drink out in open infront of family, that too after that incident happened long time before... why not kuhu... i understand family blah blah but why different rules for both... once did he thought of how kunal is before confronting him now why thinking of kuhu n her immaturity...

yaar mish too brushes off things under rug... she confronts people fights but she too doesnt bring things infront of family until they ask her after knowing things... she was the one who didnt want to bring out nannu drink being spiked by kunal... she never said anything about kuhu out in open...

the main problem is most of things stay in between these four only mishbir n kuku n things bought infront of family is less...

both their way of handling things are not good... they need to find a middle ground... mish way of impulsive handling is wrong, abir suppressing things for family n not being hard is also wrong.. they need to together handle things more maturely...

Totally agree.....both of them have different flaws in their approaches. But there is a slight difference....so far, Mishti's suppressing of Kuhu's truth has mainly only hurt her in silence....it never really came down to her having to choose between supporting Abir or Kuhu....she always chose Abir. The other times she hid stuff was because of Meenu, but there also she ultimately chose to PROTECT Abir, even if she made mistakes.

Here, it's seeming as if Abir is dismissing Mishti's POV in order to treat Kuhu with kid gloves....he is choosing his bro over his wife.....yes, he may not be realizing it, he may not have meant the line about Mishti fighting all the time....but at the end of the day, a wife craves support from her husband.....and sadly, Abir who is otherwise so supportive of Mishti, in this one moment is choosing Kuhu over her simply to be able to "keep shaanti with Nanko and Maa". Just imagine how it would feel to hear this for a moment as a wife....your husband telling you ki bas chup raho, sach mat bolo even if someone mistreats you cuz mere bhai ko bura lag jaayega, phir woh kaise react karega🤔....

Originally posted by: MishBirStruck

Ruhi I am saying like galti se 🤣

Kuhu ko pata nahi hai mishti and abir ke beech kya baat Hui hai

Agar she thought ki mish ne ye bataya ki kuhu ne mish ko harm karne ki koshish ki and she blurt out the same in front of abir, to 🤣

Originally posted by: ruhi19

chalo dekte hain .... humari kissmat mein kya hain?

Yup 🤣

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Totally agree.....both of them have different flaws in their approaches. But there is a slight difference....so far, Mishti's suppressing of Kuhu's truth has mainly only hurt her in silence....it never really came down to her having to choose between supporting Abir or Kuhu....she always chose Abir. The other times she hid stuff was because of Meenu, but there also she ultimately chose to PROTECT Abir, even if she made mistakes.

Here, it's seeming as if Abir is dismissing Mishti's POV in order to treat Kuhu with kid gloves....he is choosing his bro over his wife.....yes, he may not be realizing it, he may not have meant the line about Mishti fighting all the time....but at the end of the day, a wife craves support from her husband.....and sadly, Abir who is otherwise so supportive of Mishti, in this one moment is choosing Kuhu over her simply to be able to "keep shaanti with Nanko and Maa". Just imagine how it would feel to hear this for a moment as a wife....your husband telling you ki bas chup raho, sach mat bolo even if someone mistreats you cuz mere bhai ko bura lag jaayega, phir woh kaise react karega🤔....

Bold - 😒😒😒😒😒

It was heartbreaking what abir tells mishti.

It is so wromg to say mishti fights, when she has over compromised for selfish kuhu.

Abir could have acknowledged all that.

Kuhu is childish is not an excuse, a +20 year old go is big enough to get married is not childish but selfish and vindictive.

Sh loves no one but herself, kuhu’s character is very realistic.

But it is so true in real life.

Post marriage few months is the most difficult time to adjust for a girls in a new famiky.

Most if the times the husband does get fed up the way abir got.

But a marriage will only be a success if husband supports his wife.

Very difficukt to live in a joint family.

The first 2 years decide if the marriage wikl survive or not.

If this was real life, mishti would have been happiest with nannu, loving separate away from all inlaws nad kitschen politics.

But this is drama, so they will show conflict.

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Totally agree.....both of them have different flaws in their approaches. But there is a slight difference....so far, Mishti's suppressing of Kuhu's truth has mainly only hurt her in silence....it never really came down to her having to choose between supporting Abir or Kuhu....she always chose Abir. The other times she hid stuff was because of Meenu, but there also she ultimately chose to PROTECT Abir, even if she made mistakes.

Here, it's seeming as if Abir is dismissing Mishti's POV in order to treat Kuhu with kid gloves....he is choosing his bro over his wife.....yes, he may not be realizing it, he may not have meant the line about Mishti fighting all the time....but at the end of the day, a wife craves support from her husband.....and sadly, Abir who is otherwise so supportive of Mishti, in this one moment is choosing Kuhu over her simply to be able to "keep shaanti with Nanko and Maa". Just imagine how it would feel to hear this for a moment as a wife....your husband telling you ki bas chup raho, sach mat bolo even if someone mistreats you cuz mere bhai ko bura lag jaayega, phir woh kaise react karega🤔....

Like how Kuhu dared to badmouth Mishti in front of Abir. Gutsy haan. Ek to chori upar se seenazori

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Totally agree.....both of them have different flaws in their approaches. But there is a slight difference....so far, Mishti's suppressing of Kuhu's truth has mainly only hurt her in silence....it never really came down to her having to choose between supporting Abir or Kuhu....she always chose Abir. The other times she hid stuff was because of Meenu, but there also she ultimately chose to PROTECT Abir, even if she made mistakes.

Here, it's seeming as if Abir is dismissing Mishti's POV in order to treat Kuhu with kid gloves....he is choosing his bro over his wife.....yes, he may not be realizing it, he may not have meant the line about Mishti fighting all the time....but at the end of the day, a wife craves support from her husband.....and sadly, Abir who is otherwise so supportive of Mishti, in this one moment is choosing Kuhu over her simply to be able to "keep shaanti with Nanko and Maa". Just imagine how it would feel to hear this for a moment as a wife....your husband telling you ki bas chup raho, sach mat bolo even if someone mistreats you cuz mere bhai ko bura lag jaayega, phir woh kaise react karega🤔....

This may be me looking too much into it, but Abir does not know that the coffee was for Mishti all he knows is that the victim in this situation is him. Very honestly, I felt Abir was right, if this had come out today, the issue would be much more magnanimous. As much as I hate what Kuhu has done up to now, if this comes out now, it will be bigger as Parul was already blamed. As he said, the time in which this truth should have come out is over, if it was out sooner there is a chance that people will accept that it is an accident. But now, even Mishti will be blamed on why she hid the issue in hand, and the drunk love we saw will backfire, as people will say she did it too protect her sister.

Originally posted by: MishBirStruck

Their scenes were sweet yet hawt 😆

Mishti Yaar Kyu bande ko frustrate Kar rahi ho 🤣 , jab mishti shower se bhaagi the frustration of abir was so visible Miishtiiiii 🤣

OK its only my pov, I really don't know if anyone will agree with it or not, but kubir, there's no bond like kubir in our show, their relationship has no substance at all. For kunal abir begged in front of mahs in Mandir And asked Kuhu's hand and also promised them that he'll take care of her as his bro. He sees her as his responsibility. He's not very involved in this relationship like he's involved with kunal or mishti, they are with each other for the sake of family. Kunal ne kuhu ke saath galat kiya to abir is there for her but he don't know how to handle the complex side of her because they're not close at all.

Mishti I think was scared that no one will believe her as she has no proves against kuhu, aaj to proof tha fir bhi her own husband didn't questioned kuhu so how could she expect any one to believe her words. But apart from it, I think it was her insecurities, especially the home breaker tag, ghar mein jhagda karane waali tag, all these things made her hide the truth

Bold - this I doubt, after all it's itv 🤣

haha the end frustration was so good yaar... loved loved abir reaction in that scene 🤣🤣

Ok ok i agree to it partly... kubir bond is actually like stranger, or what to say i dont know... like they say keep it separate,... he doesnt knew about her deeply n never tried to know too... he is just there when she needs support but doesnt dig deep... he thinks of kunal more when it comes to kuku relationship n he did most of it for him... but this time too for his brother n wife he needs to do something regarding kuhu...

Proof yaar what proof does she need.. she heard it from kuhu herself, she would've easily said to abir.. and she didnt say the truth mainly bcoz its the sisters habit mish hiding about what kuhu does n also already with tension in family she doesnt want both girls to create more problem.. she didnt think of abir questioning kuhu bcoz she knew abir will believe her but her worry was not to bring more tension in family n also the bros she kept saying to kuhu you did this to your bro, all mixed she didnt say the truth before... just my opinion...

i too doubt it yaar but have to wait n see how much mish hears n what abir says 🤣

Originally posted by: Aishu13

This may be me looking too much into it, but Abir does not know that the coffee was for Mishti all he knows is that the victim in this situation is him. Very honestly, I felt Abir was right, if this had come out today, the issue would be much more magnanimous. As much as I hate what Kuhu has done up to now, if this comes out now, it will be bigger as Parul was already blamed. As he said, the time in which this truth should have come out is over, if it was out sooner there is a chance that people will accept that it is an accident. But now, even Mishti will be blamed on why she hid the issue in hand, and the drunk love we saw will backfire, as people will say she did it too protect her sister.

Wow it's actually true, this could be more disastrous, as not only kuhu but mishti will be blamed too