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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Aishu13


This may be me looking too much into it, but Abir does not know that the coffee was for Mishti all he knows is that the victim in this situation is him. Very honestly, I felt Abir was right, if this had come out today, the issue would be much more magnanimous. As much as I hate what Kuhu has done up to now, if this comes out now, it will be bigger as Parul was already blamed. As he said, the time in which this truth should have come out is over, if it was out sooner there is a chance that people will accept that it is an accident. But now, even Mishti will be blamed on why she hid the issue in hand, and the drunk love we saw will backfire, as people will say she did it too protect her sister.


The issue isn't about whether the coffee was for Mishti. What's obvious is that Kuhu has lied since many days now, let others take the blame for her deeds, especially Parul.


Abir claims to be very concerned about Parul maasi but doesn't feel the need to clear up her honor cuz Kuhu may be exposed and that would then impact his Nanko. That is where his approach is wrong.....he is enabling wrong behavior.


Mishti was right to point out that Kuhu will never learn unless a price is paid for such acts....she continues to blame others and gets away with it because there is no accountability. But Abir basically told Mishti, he doesn't want to bring Kuhu's actions to justice cuz it would impact Kunal and Meenu.


So Mishti was right to feel hurt over the lack of support from Abir there.

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: AreYaar


Totally agree.....both of them have different flaws in their approaches. But there is a slight difference....so far, Mishti's suppressing of Kuhu's truth has mainly only hurt her in silence....it never really came down to her having to choose between supporting Abir or Kuhu....she always chose Abir. The other times she hid stuff was because of Meenu, but there also she ultimately chose to PROTECT Abir, even if she made mistakes.


Here, it's seeming as if Abir is dismissing Mishti's POV in order to treat Kuhu with kid gloves....he is choosing his bro over his wife.....yes, he may not be realizing it, he may not have meant the line about Mishti fighting all the time....but at the end of the day, a wife craves support from her husband.....and sadly, Abir who is otherwise so supportive of Mishti, in this one moment is choosing Kuhu over her simply to be able to "keep shaanti with Nanko and Maa". Just imagine how it would feel to hear this for a moment as a wife....your husband telling you ki bas chup raho, sach mat bolo even if someone mistreats you cuz mere bhai ko bura lag jaayega, phir woh kaise react karega🤔....

i agree... but all this is needed naa... mish cant keep hiding n get hurt in silence she has communication issue making her open up about herself, about how hurt she is, and also mainly she needs to learn she cant handle everything single handedly which has only resulted in her getting hurt... now only one issue came infront of abir about her broken family issue... without her opening up abir cant talk to her properly its good he said it as he needs to know to balance... i agree he neglected mish pov n like komal said we do say things in moment what we kept hearing.... this also gave opportunity for both to know where things went wrong.. i want to see how abir is gonna react to this n how he handles both kuhu n how he is gonna rectify himself with mishti...

leaving house is the best option as of now as he heard from kuhu too she cant live in same house as mishti... he wanted to protect mish from meenu now kuhu too added... he needs to think about all this from mish pov n about mishti... like you said once he chose kuhu in the moment but he needs to take care of mishti...

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

true no more silence from abir side is gonna work...

i'm having high hopes on this vaishu... i hope abir takes a wise decision..

diya. Always the positive light bearer
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Posted: 5 years ago

Good morning

Aaj toh party banati.... 🥳

Meenu ne dragon saas ka badal liya kuhu se..

Mishbir romance..

Mishbir fight

Kuhu ka sach

Aur kya chaiye episode mein😆

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

true no more silence from abir side is gonna work...

i'm having high hopes on this vaishu... i hope abir takes a wise decision..

Im not at all hoping anything.. when it comes to Kuhu,Abir has the habit of disappointing me..will Abir say anything..I watched today's episode again,I felt Abir was ryt..the consequences will be very high..but will Abir say something to Kuhu tommorow..or will he say that I understand,u r ryt..it's abt mishti yaar..will all this lead to Abir and Mishti leaving the house.. honestly I'm little worried abt Abir's reaction,and what will happen to mishtu..I am really very tensed abt this..🤗🤗

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Koms9

If Kuhu really thinks mishti has lied to abir or has exaggerated details then plz kuhu, tell abir all the simple truths about how u plotted and got their affair out in front of bade papa so they have to break up.

How you tried to hurt mishti during janmashtami.

How you took their mandap and wished they can not marry.

How you tore her necklace and then spiked the coffee just coz u wanted to take her haq.

As it is abir already knows abt her email fiasco, slap and the false divorce blame on mishti


I still can’t believe, Kuhu thinks Abir will support her against his Mish? I mean seriously?

I know Abir supports Kuhu way too much, which am sure is gonna end soon! But still, can’t believe It, lol!


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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: -Viji-


I still can’t believe, Kuhu thinks Abir will support her against his Mish? I mean seriously?

I know Abir supports Kuhu way too much, which am sure is gonna end soon! But still, can’t believe It, lol!


Kuhu ka sabse bada delusion 🤣

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: AreYaar


Exactly. Suppressing issues is never the solution to anything. They only fester over time and grow into much bigger problems.


Someone needs to point out to Abir that his approach of dabaa ke rakho, bachpane ko jaane do is not keeping any family peace and is only creating bigger long term issues, possibly damaging his own relationship with his wife😕


Kuhu ke guts toh legendary hain, man....lol she can dare to do anything cuz conscience and self-awareness is zero no matter how big her kaands😆


Ab let's see if Abir can follow his own approach and keep mum as Kuhu badmouths his Mishti right to his face😛

thats what happens. If u dont shut them up, they only do bigger kaands. Coz like mishti said, if no punishment then no repentance.
Edited by Koms9 - 5 years ago
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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: MishBirStruck

Yup ab saari ummedein abir se hai, hope he'll not disappointed us

every time for every situation it ends up at Abir and for him to fix things 😋
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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Koms9

every time for every situation it ends up at Abir and for him to fix things 😋

True but ab Kar bhi kya sakte hai, he's only one on whom whole fandom relies on 🤣

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