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It's an out and out family drama Shadowed by a love story so that we just feel it's a love story but actually it's a family drama ....

Actually the AM scene was a bit pheeka for me , mostly because they aren't shown having a heart to heart conversation, they aren't really given effective dialogues , it looked like a time pass scene actually.... or may be it's my fault , I was expecting more ...anyways I am happy that there is no tension between them Time pass hi sahi , both are happy and comfortable with each other ....easy breezy hai atleast hard hitting conversations nahi hai and for a change they aren't discussing kuku It's about them , they were teasing each other

Now coming to the whole drama part , what to say .... I loved the surprise actually, they all tried to go down the memory lane , it was kind a sweet actually, but again the impact was missing.... the execution was super fast , its like makers se raha nahi jaa raha Bring kuhu in the forefront and start the drama

What RVs did was actually very much normal, new addition in the family is being welcomed with gifts n all , so what , given the kind of insults mishti had received from RvS ( mostly from kunal and meenu ) , they are making extra efforts to make up for it !! For a change it was nice, I have only seen RVs pampering kunal Now its mishti Good for a change !! Plus no one's intention was to make kuhu feel left out , yeh baat alag hai that she felt that , its her fault there completely ! Don't remember but kya kuhu ko gift nahi mila tha shaadi pe ?

I feel meenu is purposely playing the divide and rule game , from fixing marriage date , to making that will to giving jewellery to mishti , when someone is trying to be extra sweet to you , be careful ..... people like meenu have hidden motives !! Meenu sach mein akshardham jaaye toh naanu mein Sorry to say sasuma pe ek rupee ka bharosa nahi mujhe .... she is using mishti's emotions once again ...

Good to see a proper badi maa abir scene after a long time

Coming to the part of the episode that I actually liked

Whatever frustration kuhu has , be it out of anger , jealousy, insecurity, divorce thing coming up , whatever it was , this time she chose the right person to let it all out to , kunal ..... finally the cat is out of the bag , she spoke what she wanted to ..... and decided to leave.... I will stick to the opinion that I had given some days back, more than mishti getting married or anything, divorce is the main thing she is upset with and mostly because her facade is going to come out , this is not the justification that I am giving for her ,but I feel this is where she is coming from ...

I am happy it wasn't mishti but abir who heard that conversation, because more than mishti I trust abir when it comes to handling all these things in a proper manner , abir very well understands kunal and also kuhu tries to listen to abir, so if abir tells something to her , she will atleast try to pay some attention... what little maturity kuhu had shown post leap , was because of the influential words abir told her once that she should try to be a stronger person ... so yeah many brownie points to makers for actually making abir the one mediator this time

Can I say maheshwari family is a dysfunctional family with a lot of group ism going on within the family.... when you try to create a family within a family , that's when a joint family starts breaking , jas needs a time off badly , if she is not liking it, varsha should actually advise her to take a time off and leave, much better than ranting about mishti here and there ... go to London and get some fresh air

I know makers have created a beautiful abinal bond for a purpose, usually what I have seen is there are fights between the two bahus and somewhere they fight extends to their respective husbands also But here I can guarantee abinal are not going to fight because of mishku who knows badi maa ki baat sach ho jaaye , actually with time RV family can make the girls feel that they are "apni" in the family....

All I want to say is , mishbir jaise bhi ho shaadi kar hi lena , bhaag ke shaadi is still on the cards , that's what I feel

Chalo ,

Kal hai abir aur mishti ki pyaari si haldi

Pata nahi abir ko kis(s) baat hi hai itni jaldi ?

Benba yun achanak kaise badli?

Kuku ki story hai jalebi ki tarah siddhi!

Originally posted by: AreYaar

Kunal's behavior alone is not enough justification for Kuhu to act so petulant. Basically it just shows that she will always be immature underneath all the so called "maturity" she was showing in the early parts of the leap and in trying to "help" Abir gatecrash NishMish ki shaadi.

She is exactly like a child....unless she has everyone's attention constantly trained on her, unless she is constantly being pampered, she will sit and cry. In one moment, she forgot all the times she was treated like a Queen Bee by the RVs and constantly given importance for every function in the house.

She needs that constant attention to feel a sense of importance and validation in her life.....without it, she feels empty.....that is why she lashes out so much the moment she sees Mishti getting any happiness or attention. I'm truly amazed by her ability to be so petty even after seeing Mishti go through so much pain and now managing to get some happiness.

Mishti always rejoices in her happiness....but Kuhu can't wait to always stamp all over whatever little happiness also Mishti gets....I can't recall a moment where she was genuinely happy for Mishti as an individual....unless she herself is getting equal or more attention than Mishti, she doesn't care for Mishti's happiness.

True

She really needs to work upon her insecurities they're baseless, I hate it whenever she accuses anyone when she's at fault

Originally posted by: Agrata23

Vaishu during Kuhu shaadi time pe bhi eveyone was appreciating her RJV family made her feel like a princess except kunal she was such a dump and immature to notice his #husband of the year beheaviour..even that time she was content she felt very happy becoz she won over mishti.

Naanu just said that becoz mishti went through so much pain and the struggle to become the bahu of their house unlike kuhu, and all are worried abt mishti future becoz meenu name ki sword hanging on her head😆

Agree Yaar, first she makes false hopes and when they don't get fulfilled, she feels frustrated and accuse everyone

I am not saying Nanu said wrong, he was absolutely right at his place, I was just saying ki agar kuhu ko bura laga bhi to wo direct baat Kar sakti hai instead of assuming that no one loves her

Originally posted by: Agrata23

Why kuhu is insecure abt the haar she was given more than this at the time of her haldi..In every family when nayi bahu comes they will give them some gifts and wanted to make them feel special didnot meenu make kuhu feel special during her shaddi?? though she was faking 😆 here naanu said "special bahu" he just want to apply some medicine on her fresh wounds dont you all think how much mishti faced becoz of his daughter she made her life hell😡 and his grandson brokeup with her without letting her know the reason behind the breakup (though mishti too at fault) she was insulted time and again by kunal 😲 she simply forgets everything happened to mishti and how much she struggled during this period becoz of RJv parivaar only "special bahu" made her insecure.abir went to take the pics its ketu who told kuhu to take pics becoz she thinks she is best!!whenever they say kuhu was the best in everything she was ok with them and was enjoying now what happened becoz mishti is there it makes her feel insecure

When she told kunal No one loved her in RV House I have never seen such a ungrateful person..she got more recognition love and support from Rajvansh than mah

Every person in RJV family loved her whole heartedly including meenu..dont she think making her independent is bigger than the haar..Rjv family supported her in standing on her own leg.

Abir always stood behind her in every aspect even against kunal and also supporting her business. when kunal gave divorce notice to kuhu he was the one who gave her much needed support ..even today he was the one who understood her and stood behind her(though I dont like that)did she ever think abt abir if she hurt mishti.abir will be the one who will hurt more

This is the reason I have never liked kuhu and cant connect with her she never thinks abt what she have her constant thinking is what mishti has.

I dont know how people call it insecure why she is insecure??

comapring Mishti kuhu is lucky she lives in her own house unlike mishti that too she was remainded time and again she is an outsider by kuhu and jas😈

Unlike mishti kuhu has her own parents though varsha is a step mother she never treated kuhu like her step daughter

No one expect kuhu to be perfect but everyone expects mishti to be perfect def it will put more pressure on mishti may be that is the reason she sometimes unable to take stand on right things

Even meenu did planning and plotting in kuku shaadi, once the marriage was done she accepted her as her bahu unlike mishti and treated her like her own daughter

Only one thing mishti has fairytale love story unlike kuhu but did mishti got her fairytale without any struggle..was it a cake walk for mishti???

I dont like people justify kuhu jealousy as insecurity and if we get jealous def we loose our piece of mind..everyone is giving justification for kuhu behaviour..In human life emotions plays vital role for good and bad doings def we should have control over our emotions.

behind every crime there will be some emotional mess will we justify all the crimes??

P.s sorry guys I want to put my thoughts dont know i have made sense or not pls bear with me

This is a well thought brilliant post geethu 🤗🤗

Instead of valuing the things we have today , people tend to seek out for things that others have , sad !

Jealusoy as an emotion may come to people , that's natural , when you see someone trying to take the attention that you feel you deserved , jealousy comes...but Intentionally hurting others be it emotionally, mentally, physically ..... to what extent is that right ?

Since jealusoy is a natural trait and can't take it out from anyone , it is what it is , but instead to trying to cut someone's line , why can't we try to extend our own line.... That is what kuhu needs to learn actually, trying to cut mishti's line by assuming that mishti's presence is bringing troubles for her is not going to do anything for kuhu , why can't kuhu , for a change try to be a better person and increase the length of her own line !!

Originally posted by: Thimag1314

Uru kahaan hey?

Idhar idhar 😆

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Welcone to kyunki SaaS bhi kabhi bahu thi reloaded

It's an out and out family drama Shadowed by a love story so that we just feel it's a love story but actually it's a family drama ....

Actually the AM scene was a bit pheeka for me , mostly because they aren't shown having a heart to heart conversation, they aren't really given effective dialogues , it looked like a time pass scene actually.... or may be it's my fault , I was expecting more ...anyways I am happy that there is no tension between them Time pass hi sahi , both are happy and comfortable with each other ....easy breezy hai atleast hard hitting conversations nahi hai and for a change they aren't discussing kuku It's about them , they were teasing each other

Now coming to the whole drama part , what to say .... I loved the surprise actually, they all tried to go down the memory lane , it was kind a sweet actually, but again the impact was missing.... the execution was super fast , its like makers se raha nahi jaa raha Bring kuhu in the forefront and start the drama

What RVs did was actually very much normal, new addition in the family is being welcomed with gifts n all , so what , given the kind of insults mishti had received from RvS ( mostly from kunal and meenu ) , they are making extra efforts to make up for it !! For a change it was nice, I have only seen RVs pampering kunal Now its mishti Good for a change !! Plus no one's intention was to make kuhu feel left out , yeh baat alag hai that she felt that , its her fault there completely ! Don't remember but kya kuhu ko gift nahi mila tha shaadi pe ?

I feel meenu is purposely playing the divide and rule game , from fixing marriage date , to making thst will to giving jewellery to mishti , when someone is trying to be extra sweet to you , be careful ..... people like meenu have hidden motives !! Meenu sach mein akshardham jaaye toh naanu mein Sorry to say sasuma pe ek rupee ka bharosa nahi mujhe .... she is using mishti's emotions once again ...

Good to see a proper badi maa abir scene after a long time

Coming to the part of the episode that I actually liked

Whatever frustration kuhu has , be it out of anger , jealousy, insecurity, divorce thing coming up , whatever it was , this time she chose the right person to let it all out to , kunal ..... finally the cat is out of the bag , she spoke what she wanted to ..... and decided to leave.... I will stick to the opinion that I had given some days back, more than mishti getting married or anything, divorce is the main thing she is upset with and mostly because her facade is going to come out , this is not the justification that I am giving for her ,but I feel this is where she is coming from ...

I am happy it wasn't mishti but abir who heard that conversation, because more than mishti I trust abir when it comes to handling all these things in a proper manner , abir very well understands kunal and also kuhu tries to listen to abir, so if abir tells something to her , she will atleast try to pay some attention... what little maturity kuhu had shown post leap , was because of the influential words abir told her once that she should try to be a stronger person ... so yeah many brownie points to makers for actually making abir the one mediator this time

Can I say maheshwari family is a dysfunctional family with a lot of group ism going on within the family.... when you try to create a family within a family , that's when a joint family starts breaking , jas needs a time off badly , if she is not liking it, varsha should actually advice her to take a time off and leave, much better than ranting about mishti here and there ... go to London and get some fresh air

I know makers have created a beautiful abinal bind for a purpose, usually what I have seen is there are fights between the two bahus and somewhere they fight extends to their respective husbands also But here I can guarantee abinal are not going to fight because of mishku who knows badi maa ki baat sach ho jaaye , actually with time , RV family may make the girls feel that they are "apni" in the family....

All I want to say is , mishbir jaise bhi ho shaadi kar hi lena , bhaag ke shaadi is still on the cards , that's what I feel

Chalo ,

Kal hai abir aur mishti ki pyaari si haldi

Pata nahi abir ko kis(s) baat hi hai itni jaldi ?

Benba yun achanak kaise badli?

Kuku ki story hai jalebi ki tarah siddhi!

YES YES YES!! 😃 Guruji put it here... a big hifi and jhappi to you🤗

You've literally pulled out the words out of my mind and mouth👏 How do you do it? that's why your are guruji👏🤗

I agree single thing you've so beautifully pointed out👍🏼 No objections at all - on the same page, same line and same word😆👏

@bold: honestly mujhe bhi yaad nahi yaar. But I do know she was welcomed very grandly and with open arms by everyone in the RV family (even Meenu). I don't remember seeing a special haar/jewellery for Kuhu, but she did get a special saree from Meenakshi during the shaadi functions.

haha beautiful poetry guruji. Summed up the current situation perfectly👍🏼👏 Kuku's lovestory definitely is a huge twisted jalebi but appears seedhi from the outside to other family members.

Originally posted by: Jayati321

Nandu🤗

You don't have to thank me .

I can understand the situation here.😆Even i have my reasons from restraining myself from the heavy discussions.😃Life mei peace chahiye. You know there is one more video where BB and Kuhu were talking something. I didn't post that video purposely.😆

By the way Congratulations for your brother's marriage. Hope you will have a blast.😊

🤗 No worries. I just had to appreciate the way your explained your thoughts out👍🏼 So nice to see, similar thought processes to mine😊

oohh another bts video? haha good idea. Probably not the best to share that now, when there's lots of unsteady fierce atmosphere. Besides any spoilers/segments create unnecessary tension, expectations and predictions before the episode plays out. So sometimes it better to just ignore the videos.👍🏼

aww thanks yaar. Yes it's super busy right now. Aunts and uncles arriving from India for the marriage😃Becoming a full house soon😆 Shaadi atmosphere is contagious through the screen🤗

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

YES YES YES!! 😃 Guruji put it here... a big hifi and jhappi to you🤗

You've literally pulled out the words out of my mind and mouth👏 How do you do it? that's why your are guruji👏🤗

I agree single thing you've so beautifully pointed out👍🏼 No objections at all - on the same page, same line and same word😆👏

@bold: honestly mujhe bhi yaad nahi yaar. But I do know she was welcomed very grandly and with open arms by everyone in the RV family (even Meenu). I don't remember seeing a special haar/jewellery for Kuhu, but she did get a special saree from Meenakshi during the shaadi functions.

haha beautiful poetry guruji. Summed up the current situation perfectly👍🏼👏 Kuku's lovestory definitely is a huge twisted jalebi but appears seedhi from the outside to other family members.

Awwwww nandu 🤗🤗🤗🤗 m glad we are still on the same page dear ❤️❤️....I don't know how many people with agree , but I am glad you are one of them 🤗🤗🤗 thanks guruji 2.0 .... 😃

Ah , Haha guruji for a reason 😆😆

You know sometimes we don't value the things we have , instead we always seek out for what we couldn't have , kuhu is one of them , see she is frustrated and when you are in frustration even little little things start bothering you and they get in your head in a wrong way ....🤔

There is nothing wrong to feel jealous, I have no problem in accepting it that sometimes I get jealous too with my friends with my colleagues and contemporaries 😆😆 but I don't try to cut their line , given the competitive person that I am 😎 , I always try to increase the length of my own line instead of cutting anyone's line this is called the concept of healthy jealousy.... I don't know if you will understand it or not, thoda twisted hai .... 😛 kuhu should learn this ....because jealousy in a natural trait to be honest, you can't stop feeling jealous but you can definitely learn to divert it in a healthy manner by working on yourself and being a better person

But I am still not sure that is it only jealusoy? I think it has more to do with her divorce than anything...or a combination of many factors ...

Glad abir will be taking the charge now 😎

Originally posted by: Onyourface

This is a well thought brilliant post geethu 🤗🤗

Instead of valuing the things we have today , people tend to seek out for things that others have , sad !

Jealusoy as an emotion may come to people , that's natural , when you see someone trying to take the attention that you feel you deserved , jealousy comes...but Intentionally hurting others be it emotionally, mentally, physically ..... to what extent is that right ?

Since jealusoy is a natural trait and can't take it out from anyone , it is what it is , but instead to trying to cut someone's line , why can't we try to extend our own line.... That is what kuhu needs to learn actually, trying to cut mishti's line by assuming that mishti's presence is bringing troubles for her is not going to do anything for kuhu , why can't kuhu , for a change try to be a better person and increase the length of her own line !!

Thank you Uru🤗

Uru I agree jealous is a common trait for human but we should have control over it..otherwise that emotion will spoil us beyond repair that is what happening with kuhu..becoz of jealous she fail to understand the actual situation.

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Welcone to kyunki SaaS bhi kabhi bahu thi reloaded

It's an out and out family drama Shadowed by a love story so that we just feel it's a love story but actually it's a family drama ....

Actually the AM scene was a bit pheeka for me , mostly because they aren't shown having a heart to heart conversation, they aren't really given effective dialogues , it looked like a time pass scene actually.... or may be it's my fault , I was expecting more ...anyways I am happy that there is no tension between them Time pass hi sahi , both are happy and comfortable with each other ....easy breezy hai atleast hard hitting conversations nahi hai and for a change they aren't discussing kuku It's about them , they were teasing each other

Now coming to the whole drama part , what to say .... I loved the surprise actually, they all tried to go down the memory lane , it was kind a sweet actually, but again the impact was missing.... the execution was super fast , its like makers se raha nahi jaa raha Bring kuhu in the forefront and start the drama

What RVs did was actually very much normal, new addition in the family is being welcomed with gifts n all , so what , given the kind of insults mishti had received from RvS ( mostly from kunal and meenu ) , they are making extra efforts to make up for it !! For a change it was nice, I have only seen RVs pampering kunal Now its mishti Good for a change !! Plus no one's intention was to make kuhu feel left out , yeh baat alag hai that she felt that , its her fault there completely ! Don't remember but kya kuhu ko gift nahi mila tha shaadi pe ?

I feel meenu is purposely playing the divide and rule game , from fixing marriage date , to making thst will to giving jewellery to mishti , when someone is trying to be extra sweet to you , be careful ..... people like meenu have hidden motives !! Meenu sach mein akshardham jaaye toh naanu mein Sorry to say sasuma pe ek rupee ka bharosa nahi mujhe .... she is using mishti's emotions once again ...

Good to see a proper badi maa abir scene after a long time

Coming to the part of the episode that I actually liked

Whatever frustration kuhu has , be it out of anger , jealousy, insecurity, divorce thing coming up , whatever it was , this time she chose the right person to let it all out to , kunal ..... finally the cat is out of the bag , she spoke what she wanted to ..... and decided to leave.... I will stick to the opinion that I had given some days back, more than mishti getting married or anything, divorce is the main thing she is upset with and mostly because her facade is going to come out , this is not the justification that I am giving for her ,but I feel this is where she is coming from ...

I am happy it wasn't mishti but abir who heard that conversation, because more than mishti I trust abir when it comes to handling all these things in a proper manner , abir very well understands kunal and also kuhu tries to listen to abir, so if abir tells something to her , she will atleast try to pay some attention... what little maturity kuhu had shown post leap , was because of the influential words abir told her once that she should try to be a stronger person ... so yeah many brownie points to makers for actually making abir the one mediator this time

Can I say maheshwari family is a dysfunctional family with a lot of group ism going on within the family.... when you try to create a family within a family , that's when a joint family starts breaking , jas needs a time off badly , if she is not liking it, varsha should actually advice her to take a time off and leave, much better than ranting about mishti here and there ... go to London and get some fresh air

I know makers have created a beautiful abinal bind for a purpose, usually what I have seen is there are fights between the two bahus and somewhere they fight extends to their respective husbands also But here I can guarantee abinal are not going to fight because of mishku who knows badi maa ki baat sach ho jaaye , actually with time , RV family may make the girls feel that they are "apni" in the family....

All I want to say is , mishbir jaise bhi ho shaadi kar hi lena , bhaag ke shaadi is still on the cards , that's what I feel

Chalo ,

Kal hai abir aur mishti ki pyaari si haldi

Pata nahi abir ko kis(s) baat hi hai itni jaldi ?

Benba yun achanak kaise badli?

Kuku ki story hai jalebi ki tarah siddhi!

As usual excelent post yaar👍🏼..we have put everything.🤗

Am scene did not make any sense..it not even gave the satisfaction of lolipop..I dont know why makers kept that scene

My fav part also BM and abir scenes longing for their scenes atleast that way I am satisfied❤️

Kuku I never gave attention to them though I liked their issue will be handled by Abir not mishti👏

@bold Mishti was given only one haar.😆.Meenu gave so many jewellery for kuhu on her haldi😆