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Originally posted by: SheThought

If Kuhu felt insecure in RV family with those 2 instances, Mishti should just hide in her room and never come out as she has not only been made to feel, but verbally told on a daily bases in her "own" house how she does not belong to the family, how it was a mistake to bring her home and how she needs to just disappear!

I thought Kuhu will sympathize with Mishti the most today after getting the taste of her own medicine.

lol Pali kuhu should be the last one to feel insecure regarding rv house... they cant give importance to her always... kuhu n sympathizing with mish is next to impossible.. mish character is like that she faces everything with grace, she doesnt care for priority or anything... she finds happiness in smallest of appreciation... kuhu gets everything but she needs that all the time thats the problem, i understand her state in mah house ok as mish had lot of trouble the focus was on her n both parents gave priority to their own kid n with jas presents her jealous increased but in rjv its ridiculous she saying the family not being fair to her... the whole family including meenu depends on her, follows her, loves her so much n one day incident everything is forgotten... ketu particularly mentioned kuhu bhabhi takes best photo wasnt that a compliment,.. Nannu said special bahu mainly to compensate for maami asking why cant she get the haar... its all simple yaar she herself is complicating it n creating problems..

Guys ,forget about Kuhu's insecurities for some time and enjoy Abir's haldi ceremony.

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Originally posted by: Npdeepa

Gals, In any family, elder son and DIL gets everything more than then the rest of sons. This tradition is still followed in villages of India and in families who haven’t adopted to Morden ways. Those days, in joint families, it is the responsibility of the elder son to take the lead after his parents and they expect his wife to follow/ support him as well. Added to that they need to take care of the siblings as well. It is not just Mishti, whoever is the eldest bahu of RV parivaar, she will get it. They didn’t gave it to Nidhi because her husband though being actual RV is not capable of leading the family. So here comes MR. Here BB being the eldest the heir haar is been given to Abir’s wife. That’s it. Kuhu character is like ‘if she has to lose one eye then Mishti should lose both her eyes’. It is pure jealousy.
to me KuKu are spoiled brats with too pampering from the families.
I think more than Varsha, Jas is responsible for Kuhu basic characterisation. shauriya rightly said today that it is not good for RV’s if Jas creates rift between Kuhu and Mishti. Varsha is right ‘it is husband who is the bridge between his wife and his family’. the bridge should be strong enough to balance that is all that matters.

true the haar thing jealous is ridiculous yaar... the family has done so much more for her than the simple haar... why forget everything n focus on only this particular thing... if they treated her indifferently from start then ok but she was like a queen in that house n suddenly blaming them is not acceptable...

@bold - totally agreed... jas is the main problem for kuhu jealousy n no one did anything to stop jas too... its all in kunal hand now to bring back kuhu in track.. but also it can happen only when kuhu is ready to listen to him...

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

lol Pali kuhu should be the last one to feel insecure regarding rv house... they cant give importance to her always... kuhu n sympathizing with mish is next to impossible.. mish character is like that she faces everything with grace, she doesnt care for priority or anything... she finds happiness in smallest of appreciation... kuhu gets everything but she needs that all the time thats the problem, i understand her state in mah house ok as mish had lot of trouble the focus was on her n both parents gave priority to their own kid n with jas presents her jealous increased but in rjv its ridiculous she saying the family not being fair to her... the whole family including meenu depends on her, follows her, loves her so much n one day incident everything is forgotten... ketu particularly mentioned kuhu bhabhi takes best photo wasnt that a compliment,.. Nannu said special bahu mainly to compensate for maami asking why cant she get the haar... its all simple yaar she herself is complicating it n creating problems..

Kuhu ka complexity ko chod do..yaar after all it is Mishbir Shaadi..Kuhu mde her destiny of loving Kunal marrying him etc etc..I don't want to explore her character now..btw did u see the new segment there is one Kuhu and meenu talk coming up..both of them r planning or plotting something yaar🤗🤗

Originally posted by: Agrata23

Diyu I can understand she is frustrated as now becoz of kunal

I never liked kuhu character yaar her character has no depth makers used her character according to their convience..she dont have any constant character traits.

I really dont feel any sympathy for her divorce becoz whatever happened in her life its becoz of her if she should hate the person in her life that should be kunal she is ok with him she only feels all the emotions for mishti.

Parenting I agree its parents duty to make feel children secure but i think children should also share everything(if not eveything atleast important issues)with parents..then only they can guide..I dont blame varsha becoz kuhu is comfortable to confide her mom to take part in her planning and plotting to seperate mishbir then why cant she share her worries and fears with her mom..after marriage too varsha asked her so many times is everything ok between you and kunal she pretended like they are happy couples moreover according to family they marriage was love marriage

Her hatred towards mishti not letting her to think wise and take responsibility of her wrong decision.

Its pure jealousy!! jealous is very dangerous it will spoil the person whoever it is

diyu I hope you know tamil

பொறாமை உடை‌யவரைத் துன்புறுத்த அவரிடம் உள்ள பொறாமைக் குணம் ஒன்றே போதும். பகைவர் தீங்கு செய்யத் தவறினாலும் அப்பொறாமை அவர்க்குத் தவறாது தீமை செய்துவிடும்.

i understand her geethu but never justified her at some points she might be right but not always as she keeps oscillating... i understand what you said yaar i have heard alot about it,.. jealous can make a person do anything... its the most dangerous emotion yaar more than love, pain, anger, anything jealous is dangerous... kuhu is becoming more venomous bcoz of that only...

Haan kids should share i agree... i understood this until the sister truth was hidden i'm not talking about divorce bcoz thats a separate thing.... i said about mish kuhu relationship., even after knowing the difference between sisters they never tried talking to them on what happened, the girls obviously wont come n say i dont like her but isnt it parents responsibility to keep kids away from such difference... take RJV even when kunal slapped atul, they immediately talked it out, whenever there is a difference with AbiNal they talk out the issue n they take care of brothers being together without any jealous or anything.... here Jas keeps on filling kuhu mind against mish n varsha doesnt stop her... if this sister issue was taken care of naa then the problem would've reduced to some extend... about divorce yes that i agree kuku never said anything out n keep within n suffering... its not the parents problem as everyone should take responsibility of taking wrong decision in life... both kuhu n kunal are responsible for where they are today...

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

hayeee Nandu a parallel is a must for this n today scene will post it in shaadi thread what say 😉

oh yes yes great idea👍🏼🤗

Afterall shaadi is the celebration of uniting families as well as the couple. And the new relations building between MIL-SIL is so precious, to ensure the future married life and maintaining core relations are soo soo important🤗

Do add the pics in the shaadi thread😊 BM and Abir are such goals

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

i understand her geethu but never justified her at some points she might be right but not always as she keeps oscillating... i understand what you said yaar i have heard alot about it,.. jealous can make a person do anything... its the most dangerous emotion yaar more than love, pain, anger, anything jealous is dangerous... kuhu is becoming more venomous bcoz of that only...

Haan kids should share i agree... i understood this until the sister truth was hidden i'm not talking about divorce bcoz thats a separate thing.... i said about mish kuhu relationship., even after knowing the difference between sisters they never tried talking to them on what happened, the girls obviously wont come n say i dont like her but isnt it parents responsibility to keep kids away from such difference... take RJV even when kunal slapped atul, they immediately talked it out, whenever there is a difference with AbiNal they talk out the issue n they take care of brothers being together without any jealous or anything.... here Jas keeps on filling kuhu mind against mish n varsha doesnt stop her... if this sister issue was taken care of naa then the problem would've reduced to some extend... about divorce yes that i agree kuku never said anything out n keep within n suffering... its not the parents problem as everyone should take responsibility of taking wrong decision in life... both kuhu n kunal are responsible for where they are today...

Yaar Girls issue i think untill jas is there in mah sadan they cant solve..before I was blaming Bp and BM for not taking stand for mishti against jas and kuhu then realized after jas taught when they brought mishti in this house we lost our freedom of speech we have to think twice before saying anything this is the reason sometime Bp and BM ignores their taunts if everytime they interfere then the family members will think they are biased or their hatred will be increased for mishti instead they made mishti confident enough to face the reality..this is helps mishti where as in kuhu she never faced any struggle varsha was there always to take care of her..so varsha could have try to solve kuhu problems..yes are they always ignorant abt the girls even the girls hide so many things with family

Yeah diyu comparing mah RJV family far better..they too have their problems but they know how to handle it they support each other during all situation either its good or bad

Originally posted by: Jayati321

Guys ,forget about Kuhu's insecurities for some time and enjoy Abir's haldi ceremony.

https://www.instagram.com/p/B8dNZOZhbPr/

JAYUU! thankyou so much for sharing this positive note🥳🥳

Everyone has been deeply sucked into a serious mode today, but I understand why and I do have my own irritations . But let's not forget the main objective here is mishbir ki shaadi😃

hayeee, all these clips of Abir's haldi just looks like offscreen real masti. It's like Shah's really getting married😳😆 The rv family bond when Abir is happy is just soo endearing and infectious❤️ Look at all those laughs, smiles and mazaak🥳

Shah's cutely anxious expressions when Sangeeta mam and parul are applying haldi😆 his face scrunches up unsure of how much haldi they're putting on him🤣

Then naanu's very sweet gesture of patting Shah's head, like a real blessing from an a wise elder❤️

Then at the end, Jugnu restraining Ritivk for everyone to attack with haldi🤣😆

hayee all this makes me want to have or at least go to a real north indian wedding to experience all this🥳😃

Thank Suta and Diyu for the written updates. I really don't know where the story is moving.I just want MishBir to get married this time. Rest i don't care.😃

But i have a request. 24/7 #chant....what does it mean? Makers,can you please give KUHU some proper dialogues without many hastags. Is it so difficult to say a proper sentence without using hastags. It's really annoying. I am not able to understand what is she saying these days,forget about sympathizing with her.

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

JAYUU! thankyou so much for sharing this positive note🥳🥳

Everyone has been deeply sucked into a serious mode today, but I understand why and I do have my own irritations . But let's not forget the main objective here is mishbir ki shaadi😃

hayeee, all these clips of Abir's haldi just looks like offscreen real masti. It's like Shah's really getting married😳😆 The rv family bond when Abir is happy is just soo endearing and infectious❤️ Look at all those laughs, smiles and mazaak🥳

Shah's cutely anxious expressions when Sangeeta mam and parul are applying haldi😆 his face scrunches up unsure of how much haldi they're putting on him🤣

Then naanu's very sweet gesture of patting Shah's head, like a real blessing from an a wise elder❤️

Then at the end, Jugnu restraining Ritivk for everyone to attack with haldi🤣😆

hayee all this makes me want to have or at least go to a real north indian wedding to experience all this🥳😃

Nandu🤗

You don't have to thank me .

I can understand the situation here.😆Even i have my reasons from restraining myself from the heavy discussions.😃Life mei peace chahiye. You know there is one more video where BB and Kuhu were talking something. I didn't post that video purposely.😆

By the way Congratulations for your brother's marriage. Hope you will have a blast.😊