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Originally posted by: Agrata23

Why kuhu is insecure abt the haar she was given more than this at the time of her haldi..In every family when nayi bahu comes they will give them some gifts and wanted to make them feel special didnot meenu make kuhu feel special during her shaddi?? though she was faking 😆 here naanu said "special bahu" he just want to apply some medicine on her fresh wounds dont you all think how much mishti faced becoz of his daughter she made her life hell😡 and his grandson brokeup with her without letting her know the reason behind the breakup (though mishti too at fault) she was insulted time and again by kunal 😲 she simply forgets everything happened to mishti and how much she struggled during this period becoz of RJv parivaar only "special bahu" made her insecure.abir went to take the pics its ketu who told kuhu to take pics becoz she thinks she is best!!whenever they say kuhu was the best in everything she was ok with them and was enjoying now what happened becoz mishti is there it makes her feel insecure

When she told kunal No one loved her in RV House I have never seen such a ungrateful person..she got more recognition love and support from Rajvansh than mah

Every person in RJV family loved her whole heartedly including meenu..dont she think making her independent is bigger than the haar..Rjv family supported her in standing on her own leg.

Abir always stood behind her in every aspect even against kunal and also supporting her business. when kunal gave divorce notice to kuhu he was the one who gave her much needed support ..even today he was the one who understood her and stood behind her(though I dont like that)did she ever think abt abir if she hurt mishti.abir will be the one who will hurt more

This is the reason I have never liked kuhu and cant connect with her she never thinks abt what she have her constant thinking is what mishti has.

I dont know how people call it insecure why she is insecure??

comapring Mishti kuhu is lucky she lives in her own house unlike mishti that too she was remainded time and again she is an outsider by kuhu and jas😈

Unlike mishti kuhu has her own parents though varsha is a step mother she never treated kuhu like her step daughter

No one expect kuhu to be perfect but everyone expects mishti to be perfect def it will put more pressure on mishti may be that is the reason she sometimes unable to take stand on right things

Even meenu did planning and plotting in kuku shaadi, once the marriage was done she accepted her as her bahu unlike mishti and treated her like her own daughter

Only one thing mishti has fairytale love story unlike kuhu but did mishti got her fairytale without any struggle..was it a cake walk for mishti???

I dont like people justify kuhu jealousy as insecurity and if we get jealous def we loose our piece of mind..everyone is giving justification for kuhu behaviour..In human life emotions plays vital role for good and bad doings def we should have control over our emotions.

behind every crime there will be some emotional mess will we justify all the crimes??

P.s sorry guys I want to put my thoughts dont know i have made sense or not pls bear with me

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Yaar I dnt knw abt Kuhu but generally we tend to compare or become insecure when other people get more attention ad we get ignored. But then with Kuhu she is already pissed at mishti because she thinks she is getting attention from maheswaris and now the RJVs have also started giving attention to mishti instead of giving it to her solely. She is actually in her divorce zone shayad isliye she is more sensitive.

Aah anyways its very childish and petty. Maybe thats why many ppl are not able to relate to Kuhu excluding some rare instances because her hatred of Mishti seem exaggerated and the reason also seems stupid. Because as far as I see family never neglected her and even if they have unintentionally then she has varsha who gives her sole attention and prioritizes her over everyone.

Bold - Well put. 👍🏼And I agree, the expectation from mishti to be perfect gets on my nerves.

In conclusion what I feel is Kuhu's character is poorly written. She would have been relatable if she didn't blame mishti for each and everything and spewed nonsense at her. People would have actually sympathized😆

Writers have failed to convey any valid reason for her extreme jealousy/resentment when in reality she is at a better place than mishti. And also the funny fact she is the one who is easily liked by people unlike Mishti who has always struggled to get accepted.😆

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

haha ok now i understand the desperation yes its all like its happening now so lets chilll before there were alot of problem naa but now they are not much concerned about problem, only when there will come some jatka naa you will see desperation just wait for the divorce truth to come out then the desperation will come back 😆

actually naanu didnt intend to say that i saw the epi again he just wanted to give haar but maami interrupted n he said you are one in million so haar was not needed but this is for special bahu mishti, it was intended to make maami better but kuhu felt bad for it... the photo ketu particularly said kuhu bhabhi takes the best pic so let her do it... they always come to kuhu for everything so family cant be blamed for kuhu being insecure just today she is feeling left out when in their own kids are neglected n kuhu was given more importance no kid felt left out... they know that family loves them n its the other persons day so they are given importance, kuhu is not able to understand that bcoz of her dislike for mishti... isnt it wrong that kuhu said family is not being fair with her always, its her anger on kunal n divorce that she is blaming family now...

her own parents were present n they saw kuhu feeling bad but they didnt do anything about it, didnt try talking to kuhu.. so what about people who were obvious about it...

🤣🤣I might be only person who is waiting for them to show some desperation.

Divorce drama aane do......they will again be desperate😆

Diyaaa.....I was not talking abt Kuhu specifically .......it was generic. Anyone can feel bad, especially when you are at your low point. Kuhu was already sensitive because of Kunal and his neglect so when these situations happened her mind went in a direction which was more against herself than a blame aginst mishti. She was putting herself down because she is been made to feel worthless by Kunal.

Otherwise it was nothing to make a big deal abt. Its kind of similar to the hospital scene where Kuhu was upset and the family called up and asked abt Mishti.

Bold - 😆😆This was the lamest thing abt the whole scenario. 😆Jasmeet had time to bitch but couldn't she have tried to make Kuhu feel included??😆😆Sab ke sab khud pade the foto lene keliye......aur smile bhi kar raha thaa.......aur uske baad bitch bhi kar raha hain😆

Originally posted by: Agrata23

Exactly yaar👍🏼 this is why i never sympathise with kuhu for her married life not only kunal she is also respnsible..why blaming kunal😆

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Welcone to kyunki SaaS bhi kabhi bahu thi reloaded

It's an out and out family drama Shadowed by a love story so that we just feel it's a love story but actually it's a family drama ....

Actually the AM scene was a bit pheeka for me , mostly because they aren't shown having a heart to heart conversation, they aren't really given effective dialogues , it looked like a time pass scene actually.... or may be it's my fault , I was expecting more ...anyways I am happy that there is no tension between them Time pass hi sahi , both are happy and comfortable with each other ....easy breezy hai atleast hard hitting conversations nahi hai and for a change they aren't discussing kuku It's about them , they were teasing each other

Now coming to the whole drama part , what to say .... I loved the surprise actually, they all tried to go down the memory lane , it was kind a sweet actually, but again the impact was missing.... the execution was super fast , its like makers se raha nahi jaa raha Bring kuhu in the forefront and start the drama

What RVs did was actually very much normal, new addition in the family is being welcomed with gifts n all , so what , given the kind of insults mishti had received from RvS ( mostly from kunal and meenu ) , they are making extra efforts to make up for it !! For a change it was nice, I have only seen RVs pampering kunal Now its mishti Good for a change !! Plus no one's intention was to make kuhu feel left out , yeh baat alag hai that she felt that , its her fault there completely ! Don't remember but kya kuhu ko gift nahi mila tha shaadi pe ?

I feel meenu is purposely playing the divide and rule game , from fixing marriage date , to making that will to giving jewellery to mishti , when someone is trying to be extra sweet to you , be careful ..... people like meenu have hidden motives !! Meenu sach mein akshardham jaaye toh naanu mein Sorry to say sasuma pe ek rupee ka bharosa nahi mujhe .... she is using mishti's emotions once again ...

Good to see a proper badi maa abir scene after a long time

Coming to the part of the episode that I actually liked

Whatever frustration kuhu has , be it out of anger , jealousy, insecurity, divorce thing coming up , whatever it was , this time she chose the right person to let it all out to , kunal ..... finally the cat is out of the bag , she spoke what she wanted to ..... and decided to leave.... I will stick to the opinion that I had given some days back, more than mishti getting married or anything, divorce is the main thing she is upset with and mostly because her facade is going to come out , this is not the justification that I am giving for her ,but I feel this is where she is coming from ...

I am happy it wasn't mishti but abir who heard that conversation, because more than mishti I trust abir when it comes to handling all these things in a proper manner , abir very well understands kunal and also kuhu tries to listen to abir, so if abir tells something to her , she will atleast try to pay some attention... what little maturity kuhu had shown post leap , was because of the influential words abir told her once that she should try to be a stronger person ... so yeah many brownie points to makers for actually making abir the one mediator this time

Can I say maheshwari family is a dysfunctional family with a lot of group ism going on within the family.... when you try to create a family within a family , that's when a joint family starts breaking , jas needs a time off badly , if she is not liking it, varsha should actually advise her to take a time off and leave, much better than ranting about mishti here and there ... go to London and get some fresh air

I know makers have created a beautiful abinal bond for a purpose, usually what I have seen is there are fights between the two bahus and somewhere they fight extends to their respective husbands also But here I can guarantee abinal are not going to fight because of mishku who knows badi maa ki baat sach ho jaaye , actually with time RV family can make the girls feel that they are "apni" in the family....

All I want to say is , mishbir jaise bhi ho shaadi kar hi lena , bhaag ke shaadi is still on the cards , that's what I feel

Chalo ,

Kal hai abir aur mishti ki pyaari si haldi

Pata nahi abir ko kis(s) baat hi hai itni jaldi ?

Benba yun achanak kaise badli?

Kuku ki story hai jalebi ki tarah siddhi!

Bold - 🤣🤣I agree.....this is an outright family drama😆Romance is sidelined😆

Yaar......You have put everything beautifully. And I kinda of agree with your thoughts especially abt Kuhu and mah fam. And I am also glad that Abir was the one who heard the convo....mishti should stay 100 miles away from this drama😆

Regarding AM scenes my mind is on a different tangent...so its a toss whether I will actually enjoy their scenes or not. But I kinda liked one of their dialogues .....mishti saying who will run away with him other than her. It was kinda cute

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

oh yes yes great idea👍🏼🤗

Afterall shaadi is the celebration of uniting families as well as the couple. And the new relations building between MIL-SIL is so precious, to ensure the future married life and maintaining core relations are soo soo important🤗

Do add the pics in the shaadi thread😊 BM and Abir are such goals

Nandu updated dear do check it and give your two cents about their bond 🤗

Originally posted by: Agrata23

Thank you Uru🤗

Uru I agree jealous is a common trait for human but we should have control over it..otherwise that emotion will spoil us beyond repair that is what happening with kuhu..becoz of jealous she fail to understand the actual situation.

I totally agree with you , she needs to grow up above her own insecurities and jealusoy , she understood nannu's heartbreak...good ...show some compassion towards mishti also ... if nannu suffered, then mishti also suffered na ... it's not that difficult to understand this , but her grudges that she has against mishti will not make her think that way... infact she should be happy , she didn't want the roses and orchids to go together right? So actually she should be happy for nannu that he was spared of being in a loveless marriage 😛😆....

Now she is jealous because mishti is getting all the limelight, mishti's dreams are turning into reality and kuhu's reality is going to be a nightmare.... but what she failed to understand is that mishti also had to go through a lot of struggles to be where she is right now, its not like she was served everything on a platter ....

Ok I understand, going through a divorce is not an easy thing , plus her story with kunal has always been very messy , it will be difficult for her to face her own family after all this ..

Everytime kuhu gets frustrated , she chooses an easy way to let it all out on mishti .... so this time for a change she let it out on kunal....which was actually nice ! More nice cuz abir got to hear all that .... at least abinal got to know what's the actual thing that's going on in her mind.... this actually changed the game actually

So if tomorrow kuhu tries to do something drastic against mishti , abinal would know kuhu did it .... !!

Originally posted by: Agrata23

Yaar Girls issue i think untill jas is there in mah sadan they cant solve..before I was blaming Bp and BM for not taking stand for mishti against jas and kuhu then realized after jas taught when they brought mishti in this house we lost our freedom of speech we have to think twice before saying anything this is the reason sometime Bp and BM ignores their taunts if everytime they interfere then the family members will think they are biased or their hatred will be increased for mishti instead they made mishti confident enough to face the reality..this is helps mishti where as in kuhu she never faced any struggle varsha was there always to take care of her..so varsha could have try to solve kuhu problems..yes are they always ignorant abt the girls even the girls hide so many things with family

Yeah diyu comparing mah RJV family far better..they too have their problems but they know how to handle it they support each other during all situation either its good or bad

wow geethu what you said is true yaar,... i never thought deeply of it but what you said is right bp/bm being the head adopted mish but have to adjust with family too so it makes sense of why they dont say anything,... 👍🏼

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

JAYUU! thankyou so much for sharing this positive note🥳🥳

Everyone has been deeply sucked into a serious mode today, but I understand why and I do have my own irritations . But let's not forget the main objective here is mishbir ki shaadi😃

hayeee, all these clips of Abir's haldi just looks like offscreen real masti. It's like Shah's really getting married😳😆 The rv family bond when Abir is happy is just soo endearing and infectious❤️ Look at all those laughs, smiles and mazaak🥳

Shah's cutely anxious expressions when Sangeeta mam and parul are applying haldi😆 his face scrunches up unsure of how much haldi they're putting on him🤣

Then naanu's very sweet gesture of patting Shah's head, like a real blessing from an a wise elder❤️

Then at the end, Jugnu restraining Ritivk for everyone to attack with haldi🤣😆

hayee all this makes me want to have or at least go to a real north indian wedding to experience all this🥳😃

True nandhu, it’s mishbir shaadi so let’s enjoy. Baki Sab baath mein deklege.

Rithvik was trying to apply haldi in shah’s chest I thInk and shah’s crossed his hands on the chest😆

Originally posted by: Mimzy

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Yaar I dnt knw abt Kuhu but generally we tend to compare or become insecure when other people get more attention ad we get ignored. But then with Kuhu she is already pissed at mishti because she thinks she is getting attention from maheswaris and now the RJVs have also started giving attention to mishti instead of giving it to her solely. She is actually in her divorce zone shayad isliye she is more sensitive.

Aah anyways its very childish and petty. Maybe thats why many ppl are not able to relate to Kuhu excluding some rare instances because her hatred of Mishti seem exaggerated and the reason also seems stupid. Because as far as I see family never neglected her and even if they have unintentionally then she has varsha who gives her sole attention and prioritizes her over everyone.

Bold - Well put. 👍🏼And I agree, the expectation from mishti to be perfect gets on my nerves.

In conclusion what I feel is Kuhu's character is poorly written. She would have been relatable if she didn't blame mishti for each and everything and spewed nonsense at her. People would have actually sympathized😆

Writers haailed to convey any valid reason for her extreme jealousy/resentment when in reality she is at a better place than mishti. And also the funny fact she is the one who is easily liked by people unlike Mishti who has always struggled to get accepted.😆

MIni sorry if I have hurt you 🤗this post is not meant for you yaar..i am very much frustrated with the justification in the forum for kuhu jealousy..and mostly all are saying its most reletable charcter in the showe..she is such a stupid and childish character how can we relate with her in real life yaar.

@bold 100%true yaar👍🏼

Originally posted by: Agrata23

As usual excelent post yaar👍🏼..we have put everything.🤗

Am scene did not make any sense..it not even gave the satisfaction of lolipop..I dont know why makers kept that scene

My fav part also BM and abir scenes longing for their scenes atleast that way I am satisfied❤️

Kuku I never gave attention to them though I liked their issue will be handled by Abir not mishti👏

@bold Mishti was given only one haar.😆.Meenu gave so many jewellery for kuhu on her haldi😆

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Haha...it was a lollipop scene only 😆 Makers were like dekho mishbir fans , thoda tumhare liye ...khush ho jao😛😆

Mine too ❤️ Badi maa ke determination dekh ke lagta hai she really wants to make abir a ghar jamai😆

Haa abir has better leadership qualities than mishti 😛 , he knows how to deal with different people, plus he shares a healthy bond with kunal and kuhu both ...

Bold -Lol 🤣🤣🤣 as I said , people don't value what they have 😆