What world do the makers live in? - Page 6

Totally agree with you! Wonderful post.

Unfortunately some members would rather laugh at posts than actually engage in discussion.

And people still justifying Manjari is beyond me lmao, she's a disgusting and vile character. If the FL did the things she did, then people here would be criticizing AK...but because it's the ML's mom she gets a pass because every single thing she does is out of concern for her dear son. No matter how toxic it is.

She is feeling her son is getting in a loveless marriage only when there is a child involved,why didnot she ask these questions to Akshara when pregnancy news had not come.

It's bcoz their target audience is still people who haven't moved on with times. And it's not just hindi tv drama. My friend who lives in London is willing to put her life at risk to get pregnant even when the doctor has warned her. I suggested adoption and she wasn't willing to even think of bringing 'someone else's child' in her life!!

I had watched a japanese drama where the couple is very much in love, the husband is a grown up man who doesn't live with his parents. His parents know their limit and do not interfere in his married life. They love their DIL a lot. But the wife can't get pregnant.

The couple goes for medical treatment and it's the woman who needs treatment so she starts taking all the meds and precautions. They change their lifestyle just so that they can have a baby. All their romantic conversation is gone and it's all about baby baby.

At no point does anyone suggest surrogacy or adoption. I got so irritated but kept on watching bcoz the acting was superb.

Akshara is to be blamed as well. Doesn't she know what kind of a person Manjri is? Doesn't she know that Abhi hasn't grown up and can't live without his mommy? Akshu chose to marry him again knowing fully well how toxic the environment will become the moment someone doesn't obey Manjri.

I would love to see Akshu order Abhi to leave his family after marriage just like Akshu. Then we'll see fireworks. People who claim themselves as modern will show their hypocrisy and call her a home wrecker. But Akshu-Abhi will actually have a good, peaceful life. Abhi is willing to be a man and accept the baby, so marry him and create your own home with him.

My question is why does someone have to marry to take care of their kid/kids. Aren't there single mothers in the world??

What I have problem is that

a)she is moving on so fast to what she preaches that she can't love anyone else other than abhinav.

b) she is getting into a marriage for a kid who was literally brainwashed by her family

c) her family things that women without husbands needs a life partner. Why? Can't you live for yourself and slowly get out of the grief. Why marry her off to someone before giving her chance to grieve her late husband that too a grand event???

D) my main problem: Akshara going back to the same toxic family with abhimnayu and manjari who are ready to throw her out based on their whims. Abhimnayu divorced her twice and manjiri accused her serrval time before and after leap. Also what guarantee that they wouldn't do this again but no there is abhir too in the equation. Also what is manjiri asked/forced Akshara to get abortion after marriage then what?? And Akshara is still trying to work things out with abhimnayu knowing that his mother is against this baby and abhimnayu is always be stuck between his mother and Akshara. Why go through this hassle and give yourself more stress??

Originally posted by: Sayanti94

She is feeling her son is getting in a loveless marriage only when there is a child involved,why didnot she ask these questions to Akshara when pregnancy news had not come.

She did ask Akshara few episodes back and ask her to not bring Abhinav in between her and Abhimanyu’s married life!

She was more accepting when Akshara said she will give her 100% to this marriage but after pregnancy she feels it would be all the more difficult for her to move on and seeing that it took 7 years for her last time, she doesn’t want her son to hope for something that may or may not happen and if happens no idea of when! Her suggestion of abortion was wrong but her concerns about Abhimanyu’s happiness if they get together aren’t misplaced or unreasonable!

It’s Abhimanyu’s right as an individual to let go of or sacrifice his own happiness, but it’s Manjiri’s right as a mom to be worried for him!

Originally posted by: Sayanti94

She is feeling her son is getting in a loveless marriage only when there is a child involved,why didnot she ask these questions to Akshara when pregnancy news had not come.

Exactly. N I don't understand the issue with akshnavs baby AT ALL.

dr and akshara have a son together . Abhir.

If there is another baby whose father is dead & abhim takes over the responsibility willingly , exactly what problem will they face in future ? 🤔

Akshara is moving on , that too , willingly , the couple in question & their families know their history. There have been blunders from.both sides in the past. None can take the moral high ground ...

If manjari is worried that akshara might never love abhim n only mourn abhin (which she proved she is incapable of doing, she even didn't respect his death) that was true if there was no pregnancy. Taking promises is not like signing on stamp paper. There is no guarantee of future.

Originally posted by: napster

It's bcoz their target audience is still people who haven't moved on with times. And it's not just hindi tv drama. My friend who lives in London is willing to put her life at risk to get pregnant even when the doctor has warned her. I suggested adoption and she wasn't willing to even think of bringing 'someone else's child' in her life!!

I had watched a japanese drama where the couple is very much in love, the husband is a grown up man who doesn't live with his parents. His parents know their limit and do not interfere in his married life. They love their DIL a lot. But the wife can't get pregnant.

The couple goes for medical treatment and it's the woman who needs treatment so she starts taking all the meds and precautions. They change their lifestyle just so that they can have a baby. All their romantic conversation is gone and it's all about baby baby.

At no point does anyone suggest surrogacy or adoption. I got so irritated but kept on watching bcoz the acting was superb.

I think..its a personal thing to want a baby or not..I have seen my friends in depression for not being able to conceive . Not everyone can raise other kids as their own . Adoption isn't easy either.. nor is surrogacy & ivf is also expensive treatment .

But in aksharas case, its her choice to move on but moving backwards with the same man who threw her out of his life like garbage is sheer foolishness . Going by her child's whims , listening to her dumb family all the time , and then going through the same cycle of expectations , falling short of those expectations , facing accusations , abuse , therez nobody to blame but herself. She's as pathetic as her ex .

Originally posted by: Krinya

Exactly. N I don't understand the issue with akshnavs baby AT ALL.

dr and akshara have a son together . Abhir.

If there is another baby whose father is dead & abhim takes over the responsibility willingly , exactly what problem will they face in future ? 🤔

Akshara is moving on , that too , willingly , the couple in question & their families know their history. There have been blunders from.both sides in the past. None can take the moral high ground ...

If manjari is worried that akshara might never love abhim n only mourn abhin (which she proved she is incapable of doing, she even didn't respect his death) that was true if there was no pregnancy. Taking promises is not like signing on stamp paper. There is no guarantee of future.

You should see the episode everyone from all sides are pressurising her to marry him and also her guilt of if she break of from the promise that's all it's not that she forgot her dead husband or something.

If people can justify Manjari asking Akshara to get rid of un born baby for the happiness of her son, Abhimanyu, (Manjari is doing everything what she feels right for the love of her son) people should also be ready to accept Akshara doing things for the sake of love for her kids (Abhir and new baby). Both are mothers and both are doing whatever they feel is right for their kids, isn't it?

Why only Manjari is justified and Akshara is blamed? (Manjari and Akshara has similar behaviour traits, both did similar mistakes and are continuing the same)

Why can't Manjari let her son take his life's decisions on his own? Does she think he is not capable of deciding what makes him happy?

He is not a child like Abhir that someone has to guide him, right?

If Manjari thinks Abhimanyu is blind in his love for AK (he is an obsessed lover), does she think staying away from Ak will keep him happy? He was not happy in both the leap and she knows that well. If marrying AK with both the kids makes him happy, why can't she allow him to be happy? Is it basically that he will not be happy or Manjari will not be happy seeing Abhinav-Akshara's child around?

Or does she think, AK will eventually agree to get rid of baby (but in her own words, AK still loves Abhinav, not Abhi) and thats why she will start manipulating Abhir?

Why this marriage for love (with no one's nishani) was not applied while Abhi-Arohi was being forced to marry some time back?