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Originally posted by: Chaitu.V

Totally agree! Ma ,beta are best at self victimising and manipulation! What a crap man, I know he is feeling bad that Abhir rejected to even address him as dadda, but kids cannot be forced.

reply: and when did he actually forced abhir. If he wanted he could have forced abhir with him cause he won the custody but he didn't. He let him go. Now he is feeling pain so he is crying. As far as I know he didn't even know today that abhir has came. He thought it was a dream.

Furthermore can't a man cry if he feels the pain.

It should happen organically and it will happen. He can still visit Abhir on weekends and also bring him to BH and spend time with him.But he wants to die 🤡what happened when he n his Ma snatched the kid from his parents ignoring their pain and the kids too?

He didn't snatched. He was said that if only he wins the custody,abhir would be told truth. what was he supposed to do?? When Mj is concerned for her grown up son and still controls him what’s wrong when a 6yr old wants his mom? Can’t he his his mom? Why didn’t Mj send her some with Harsh then ? Sorry I forgot she also let poor Neil to get abused all his life by his own papa. And now why r they behaving as if it end of the world , this is the reason I always say Mr.self centred Birla is always me ,myself n can’t see anything above that. He can never be happy with what he have ,or he can handle relationships.Ma ,beta used Ruhi all these yrs to heal Mr.Birla’s pain and now he don’t really care for her who he used to claim his jaan and nothing is imp to him than her.

Ruhi is not something to heal his pain . Ruhi is his responsibility. Idk why things are forgettem in itv as per convenience but as you remember dying Neil took promise from both ak and abhi to take care of his baby but only abhi did and ak...I don't think even she remembers.

Chi shame on him , that cutie pie Ruhi was comforting him hugging and kissing and aslo giving him hope and strength but he least cares about her.

Even today in the hospital Arohi asked if Ma,Ruhi n all other family members doesn’t matter ,but he least a cares,he only wants his blood..this is the exact reason I like Abhinav Sharma and Navbhir ,I love this spl bond they share ,this man truly n heart fully accepted Abhir as his own, he doesn’t care about blood relations. I felt a bit bad for AbM when Abhir rejected to call dadda but not anymore , remember how he ignored poor Ruhi in that family summer camp ,she felt left out and this selfish ,useless man is doing the same again. Kitna bhi white washing karne ka koshish kare can’t connect to his pain.

Parents have 2 kids and they take care of both just as abhi doing. Atleast give credit to him . The way he let ruhi and abhir develop the bond. If he would be like the way you are saying he would have easily left ruhi and had gone all length for abhir without caring for an ounce about ruhi. He wasn't needed to make patch up between them.
Ak didn’t reveal the truth and she is the reason for his pain ,so he should be mad at Ak but nah later he will shamelessly run behind her and beg her to be back into his life am sure Ma bhi aa jayegi , for once I want to see him to reject Ak and find some other girl for him but nahi hoga.
Why is Ak still calling Mj as Ma ? 🤡 Stop calling her Ma or just stay away. Why do u want to be in everyone’s good books lady!

Time doesn't defines love,

Abhi didn’t return Abhir after Abhir ran away, when he heard Akshara was sick in Kasauli - he already planned to returned Abhir- he even prepares himself that Abhir might not return from Kasauli when he takes him there.
Also, Abhi didn’t blame alone it on kismatZ Abhi legit while he was outside Birla house in yesterday’s episode, he legit goes like I try not hurt people but I end up hurting them- that alone is him admitting he knows it’s his fault.
During Kairav and Muskaan’s wedding, he also admits that he lost his love cause of his own faults. He even says it in front of Akshara.
Okay now Abhi has given up Abhir, keeping his distance from Sharma family, but apparently he is not allowed to be sad- he should be happy with what he has. He legit told Akshara I will be fine, I just have to give myself some time. He didn’t tell her to come outside neither did he display his pain in front of any of them. No one asked Sharma family to cheer him up, they are planning on doing that out of their own will.

All three parents went ahead with custody battle.
Abhir called him to come to Birla house- I think any parent who didn’t know about their kid ( who they always wanted) for 6 years and gets to spend time with him- would gladly take it . He took Abhir over when Akshara passed law exam, he was okay with Abhinav coming to school meeting, he discussed things with Akshara regarding Abhir and told her to call him also- told them they are always his parents, even tried to have Abhir to talk to understand why he didn’t want to meet his parents. Sharma family had weekends to meet Abhir, Abhi never stopped that- it was Manjiri behind his back and when Abhi found out- he canceled the order right away and ran to Goenka house to tell them, called Sharma couple many times- they didn’t pick up so he again went to Goenka house, and then planned on going to Kasauli himself with Abhir.

You all writing as if Abhi invited Sharma couple over to Birla house today so he can display his pain and they can feel guilty.

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Today's episode just reiterated what I have always said about Abhimanyu in all my posts and threads about him. That Abhimanyu himself is the greatest villain of his life and every suffering of his has always been the direct consequence of his own impulsive,intentional and ridiculously thoughtless actions.

How does one 40 year old think his 6 year old could live without his mother when he cannot at his age, how does a 40 year old think his 6 year would choose him over the parents who raised him. To thoughtlessly keep a child separate from his parents.. ofcourse he would be taught a lesson. Ofcourse his biological son would reject these notions and wake him up from these delusions. This was Abhimanyu's lesson : Even with LEGAL HAQ you cannot force your biological son to consider you a father.

All his HAQ went to the dumps.

This is also his punishment for listening and going with every single one of his mother's vile plans to keep Abhir as a prize for show in the Birla House when it was crystal clear,with literally the rest of members of the house telling him every other day, that Abhir was unhappy staying in Birla House and he was yearning for his mother, his parents. A lesson for despicable Manjiri as well : You cannot consider a human being, a little kid a land to conquer, a land you can forcefully stomp your feet on, KABZA on.

Abhir rejected the HAQ and KABZA and freed himself from these two's clutches and thats essentially why Abhimanyu today is off his rockers,intoxicated and hallucinating on the streets.

When he is stumbling and wobbling on the street he says 'I failed to become a good Dadda to you, Abhir'.. if I am paraphrasing this correct, he is absolutely RIGHT. And that is where he loses any semblance of sympathy from me.

If he was a good father, he wouldnt have separated Abhir from his parents when he KNEW how much his parents meant to him.

If he was a good father, he wouldnt have waited till Abhir literally had to run away from BH and from him for his mother and then say ' I am unhappy and I wanna go to my parents' to let go of him. He was so blindsided by his own selfish needs to be a father that he simply ignored what was right infront of him for weeks : An unhappy Abhir missing his parents. His own needs blinded him to take care of sons's.

So ofcourse he has to suffer now. Because he made his biological son suffer from seperation from his parents.

In the past Abhimanyu has conveniently blamed Akshara, Shivji, Kanhaji and now its suddenly QISMAT.. when all along it was ALL HIM. White day and whatever ensued as a consequence, separating Abhir from his parents, Abhir running away from BH and now Abhir rejecting him for his parents and taking back the faux father epithet Dadda respectively... ALL OF IT was and is ABHIMANYU's fault alone.

The day he finally accepts his faults without instant whitewashing and playing the victim card is the day he would be actually deserving of some sympathy. Because how does one with even sympathize now when all he's getting back is KARMA, which its completely deserving.

Originally posted by: abhirafan.5

Completely Agree. I think Abhimanyu will realize when Nav dies because of him. He will understand what kind of pain Akshara went through all her life and is going because of Aarohi and Birla Family. How it will be when someone calls you a murderer without your mistake. and regarding Manjari I can’t even, she deserves hell for cursing Akshara always for all the mistakes of Abhimanyu. They expect a 6 year old to be happy with a stranger whom he just met few months back and forget his own mother and father who raised in a happy and healthy environment all his life. Abhimanyu always has everyone to console him but Akshara has none. I don’t understand why can’t he be happy that his son is happy with his parents. He is selfish af. He deserves all the blames and more when Nav dies because of him.

What else should abhimanyu realize ? . He did realise. He has been punished already. But you people are expecting his trauma to increase all the time.

Last time also it was Akshara who took Neil ( great she was selfless) but knowingly or unknowingly she was the reason for the death. Now she is the one who is gonna do something for Abhimanyu in the name of picnic and may be it will be a death where Abhi would have no role but will get blamed and end up in jail. Wherever Aksahra goes it is problem only. She gives trauma. She is selfish only about her family

He has given away Abhir , now why Sharmas are doing Dola re dola to GH and BH to prove they are good souls and mahan. Abhimanyu went to a bar. he did not go to GH na. Why cant that female be away from him. What is Sharma ji saying. hum bhi uss dard se guzre hain....Koun sa dard se ? what has he ever faced in life...

He himself told Abhimanyu...kismath ne mujhe akshara ji ko diya....sab free mein mil gaya..tho ab Kasauli jao na...idhar kyon baite ho..Why the hell are u sitting in UD, bakhi time tho bagthe hain Kasauli. On top of it why do u call Majari MAA...What nonsense....

Who invited her to console Abhimanyu. Did she get invitation from BH ?

Chodo na yaar Akshara Sharma

Live and Let Live and Please Leave Abhimanyu and his family....

Originally posted by: Ekahriz

Yeah. Because she went through a difficult pregnancy and gave birth to her son and raised him for 6 years. Of course she will be shattered. Abhir stayed with Abhimanyu for two weeks and his mom spread enough venom against Akshara that Abhir had to run away.

They didn't show up to Birla house to show their Mahaanta, they did that because Abhir asked his mom to take him there so he can give the card.

If it is about number of years people knowing each other then Ak knew Abhi for about 2-3 years and Abhi knew Neil for 20+ years so Abhi losing Neil was more painful than Ak losing her husband and since her kids were just foetus, we won't even count it because it is the time one spends with someone which matters. Accepting your theory, it was in post leap episodes that Abhi was mourning death of his twins so the connection with Abhir wasn't of 2 weeks but of 6 years. Parents are distraught when they lose their 1 day old baby

Originally posted by: JustaFan13

Playing victim is Akshara and Abhinav's forte, not Abhi's.

Akshara couldn't take the defeat and the very same day landed in BH after custody with that stupid hichki connection!!! She was the one who barged into BH every day and screamed and yelled at abhi and Manju.

Abhi did none of these. He is grieving in his own way!!! He didn't ask the Sharma's to be the audience. He has dignity, he didn't even bother abhir, just kept the luggage and went away!!!

It's the Sharma's who are yet again showing up at BH to show how mahaan they are, after abhi gave up on Abhir who was rightfully his!!!

Akshara didn't even had to fight for it!!! Khairat mein mil gayi usse!!!

So spare abhi!!!

Because she's the kid's mother....and the court ruling in favour of Abhimanyu didn't make much sense tbh. And, the screaming and yelling she did was very well-deserved imo, she just dropped truth bombs on them. Or should she just be constantly screamed at and blamed by the mother-son duo? I guess no one is allowed to answer back to Birla crap?

Originally posted by: Kabhi18

Because she's the kid's mother....and the court ruling in favour of Abhimanyu didn't make much sense tbh. And, the screaming and yelling she did was very well-deserved imo, she just dropped truth bombs on them. Or should she just be constantly screamed at and blamed by the mother-son duo? I guess no one is allowed to answer back to Birla crap?

She also manhandled abhi physically. But just because she is FL ,she should be forgiven. If she screams ,it's her right and if abhi does he is monster. Furthermore what happened in past is past. Let's talk about present,as far as I see abhi don't scream ,shout he changed. Now what else??

Originally posted by: Rosh4rose

Any one should take charge of their life ,do it is better for AbhiM to fo so at least now!

we should not expect any thing back from our children

About " gas lighting" I really agree now his behaviour gas lighting his child !

I am the victim ... roll and cry

I am sick of it. Did he cried in front of abhir. What he is doing in his own house how does it matter to someone else. Did he knew abhir is going to come meet him. If this is gaslighting where the man literally didn't even know that the son is coming to meet him, neither he is going to meet him then what was ak doing. She literally was coming to b house every now and then. Was it gaslighting.

Now someone can't even cry in his own house??

Originally posted by: Harry-potter

I am sick of it. Did he cried in front of abhir. What he is doing in his own house how does it matter to someone else. Did he knew abhir is going to come meet him. If this is gaslighting where the man literally didn't even know that the son is coming to meet him, neither he is going to meet him then what was ak doing. She literally was coming to b house every now and then. Was it gaslighting.

Now someone can't even cry in his own house??

He can cry any where ! In the hospital or on the street on road tell his " the ultimate victim story"

Up to him !

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Originally posted by: lagjagale

I didn't make fun of Abhinav for crying because he is a man, but because that scene was kinda funny with him putting water over himself. My comment and I think a lot of comments was about that scene, not about why he is crying for something. It wasn't to invalidate whatever pain Nav felt. And that's my point, why make a post just to invalidate a character's pain and say it's not real? There is no evidence for why it's not real.

Seriously, the Manjari-Abhi relationship is special and beautiful. I am not saying Manjari isn't a crazy person cause she is and does crazy stuff all the time. But she alone loves her son, and no one in the show is shown to love him selflessly. Everyone else has some use for him, and then they drop him when he needs them. So showing his mother in his corner and growing increasingly crazy trying to protect his emotions makes sense.

And btw Manjari apologized for her mistake of keeping Ak from Abhir already, so what is the point of bringing that up again and again?

Her apology is like katapaa asking sorry from bahubali after stabbing him….it makes nosense at all

His son, who he mourned for 6 years, the one he fought hard to be acknowledged as father of, started calling him dadda and then went back to docman. He won the legal custody to live with his son but gave it away for his happiness. And it has been one day since then. Is Abhimanyu not allowed to be sad about it either!

So he should just pretend and behave like nothing happened, its all normal!