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Originally posted by: DevilsHeart

Wow! So the abuser has been doing the slightest at every turn - saving Abhinav’s life in Kasauli, offering free surgery to Abhir(when he didn’t know the truth), helping in Muskan’s wedding - none of which he was expected to do nor he rubbed it in anyone’s face.

But the great Mr Sharma who agreed to a loveless marriage because he probably couldn’t find a partner for himself and got a family. Took free help from Birlas while Abhimanyu always paid for their services - be it cab or homestay! And still had the audacity to hide the truth about Abhir! Even after it was out, he recounted it as a favor!!! If this is the difference between Achha and “abuser”, I am definitely gonna choose “abuser” always!

Atleast he waited for acceptance from his wife not like someone forced her to accept him

Akshara couldn’t handle not even a couple of minutes, she broke down in the court itself. Did Akshara not break down outside the courthouse on the floor the day the custody decision was made by the judge? Did she not hallucinate and imagine Abhir? All her rights weren’t taken away, she had weekend visitations and she was still his mom.
Also that same day, she believed she was going to win and told Abhi- you can visit once a month and on holidays- this less than the weekends visits the court gave her. Then she was like I will tell Abhir the truth about being you being his dad but in Kasuali she was worried more about Abhinav knowing the truth about Abhir knowing bio dad and even told Abhinav if you don’t want, we will never tell Abhir his biological dad is Abhi. Then she told Abhi in court that whatever decision the court makes is Kanaji’s wish and they should accept it- but that was for Abhi because she expected to win. When she didn’t win, she turned her back on Kanaji and said Kanaji doesn’t want her happiness.

Originally posted by: verve

This is the exact reason I stopped sympathizing at all with AB after custody. The guy can't handle one day of losing Abhir, but when he won custody he was like "I went to court so that Akshnav can win".. Lol lol lol.

I'd written it back then too that AB's ckt graph just makes him come across as someone who either doesn't have full grasp of potential consequences or no will to face the consequences.

Him & his mother have the worst combination of traits - Hypocrisy & Victim playing.

There's no winning with such people. They'll always come off as the more wronged party and the other side will always end up as the aggressor or perpetrator even when that's not the case.

Let go the adults even Abhir didn't behave this way on bring separated from his parents & home. The way even a 7 yr old kid isn't spared from feeling such guilty and burden for breaking Dr. Birla's golden heart only bcos he stated his heart's genuine wish Good luck to the kid & Akshara when they'll return to this guy n his mum.

Originally posted by: Aashiqanafan

There is no parallel between AK and Abhim. A mother losing custody of the child she raised from birth and child getting uprooted from his home is not at all comparable to AbhiM losing a chance to spend days 7 days a week with his son whom he knows for a mere couple of months and has not yet build any significant attachment.The reaction was super ott and and that combined with the dialogues that he has nothing to live for only reiterates the belief of some audience who thinks that he does not give importance to the people who are already part of his life ( read Ruhi) and just thinks about me and myself. I never used that phrase but cant help it today.

Time doesn't defines a relationship. When ak was enjoying the childhood of abhir, abhi was drowning in pain of his lost twins. It's not just a matter of couple of days but it's the matter of years of longing. Ak got separated not lost abhir,but abhimanyu has lost his kid totally. Ak was and will always be abhir's mom but abhimanyu won't be.

Definitely a mother loves a child the most but a father also loves the child equally. And about ruhi,I have clarified in my above post, tired of writing the same.

Originally posted by: Jenakt17

How did he guilt trip them? He was drunk in his own house, didn’t know they were coming. In his drunk mode thought he was their imagination. Didn’t even say anything hurtful. So you can’t use a world like guilt trip- that would be done intentionally.

Originally posted by: Noorain13

I want no police court because imagine Akshara fighting for Abhi 😂 the judge will be so confused 😂

Originally posted by: verve

@bold Agreed.

But AB's unhealthy codependency with his mother & him being a bad husband are established narratives in the show.. So I wasn't much surprised with him choosing his mum repeatedly over AK.

My concern is what was the need to play victim in front of the family of that very ex-wife whom he himself divorced saying their relationship is a catastrophe. Whom he blamed for multiple deaths.

His behavioural trait of being a perpetual victim in front of everyone like his mother is detestable!!

So a son is not supposed to take care of his mother when he gets a wife?

Abhi, the one who supported his wife in her career, fought with his own family for it.

Wife who on every difference of opinion would go and sit in her mayka, wife who vanished on surgery day without a trace and after reconciling didn’t bother to check how he was during that time. He still cared for her without playing victim until the dreadful WD where he lost his brother and his babies because of his wife’s impulsive unthoughtful actions.

Originally posted by: bips

... Abhimanyu being completely drunk in front of abhir.... **slow claps **.... Father of the year

Itna saach bolna allowed nahi hai yaha 🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Deltablues

Yeah a doctor drinking in the middle of the day when two other children were awake and about in his house is comparable to Abhinav getting drunk at midnight. Not that using alchohol to deal with sadness is ever okay

Doctor drinking in the morning, afternoon or night doesn't make any difference. ,The argument that someone is better because he was drinking at night and other one was drinking in the day time, was Abhinav drinking after Abhir's bedtime? Abhir can't sleep without hugging Abhinav so how come a father getting drunk when his son is so dependent on him that he can't sleep without him, in the night time better than a doctor drinking outside the house when kids will be in school and wouldn't need him? Why didn't great parents remove Abhir from vicinity of a drunk man?

Originally posted by: Deltablues

Yeah, but a six y/o still did not see Abhinav drunk in the middle of the day. :)

Nor did any other children.

None of them had to hear his woe-be-me spiel either.

Are you even watching the episodes???

Giving wrong references of some shitty movie!!!

If he is drinking on his own, sabko takleef kyun ho Rahi hai??? Did he trouble anyone?? Did he bother the famous sharma couple??

He didn't operate on people getting drunk!!! So please stop saying that a doctor got drunk and stop giving irrelevant examples.

Originally posted by: India_TV

Tis rejection was due....

Mahadev had been really very kind to abhi in granting custody...(again I fnd it very fishy that court gives a sole custody to a father with whom the kiid had never stayed and even cancels the visitations rights for his mamma.....but let that b)

What did abhi do with this? When people were blaming him for destroying the cake, abhi, without talkin to him, asked him to apologise....aise bahut incidents hue hain......and he has been shown more concerned by his mom's insecurities that for abhir...agar use concern hota, he should have been stern with his mom and ensured that abhir is happy....but he did not....he was basking in his victory...and dared to ask the heartbroken akshu...whethe she has apologized to his mom....

bhai banda hai ki kya???? No empathy at allll.....akshu ka beta usse door ho gaya hai and yeh mahashay is concerned whether akshu has said sorry to manjari??? for what????kis lite sorry? 😂I ME MYSELH MAMMA ke alawa kuch nahi aata bande ko.....

If Abhimanyu’s rejection was due from Abhir then Akshara’s happy family destruction is also due with Abhinav’s exit!!! If Abhimanyu deserves this then Akshara totally deserves that.