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No one kicked out Akshara, they divorced and she left. Which shouldn’t have happened and I agree Abhi was very inhumane for that.

Abhi won custody and then Abhir called him to pick him up because Akshnav decided to break his heart. Abhi even said to her why couldn’t you call me and we could have handled it like three parents. Abhi was even seen waiting for their call and he didn’t call cause he knew this would be a tough time in Sharma+Goenka house. I would have thought for their kid they would fix miscommunication but I was expecting too much from both of them.

Manjiri terminated visitations rights- Abhi didn’t, Manjiri started to blame Akshara but Abhi didn’t care that Akshara met Abhir in school, he doesn’t care what Akshara said and did, Manjiri has no right to cancel the weekend visits. Abhi called to cancel it. Abhi said initially to Akshara that she is going to be insecure and you guys will continue to argue. But when he found out about visits being terminated, he argued with Manjiri and said she can’t decide to do that. You stated it like Abhi also terminated the visits.

Also, when you said they emerged as the most wronged party- I had assumed you meant everyone on the show believed their pain was bigger compared to Akshara’s.
I read it wrong this why I asked for examples 😅.

Originally posted by: Noorain13

Kicking out Akshara in the most vulnerable state when they were hurt themselves.

Taking Abhir away from his parents when Abhi apparently didn’t want to.

Terminating visitation rights because Manjari was insecure but Abhi considered the insecurity valid.

Originally posted by: Jenakt17

No one kicked out Akshara, they divorced and she left. Which shouldn’t have happened and I agree Abhi was very inhumane for that.

Abhi won custody and then Abhir called him to pick him up because Akshnav decided to break his heart. Abhi even said to her why couldn’t you call me and we could have handled it like three parents. Abhi was even seen waiting for their call and he didn’t call cause he knew this would be a tough time in Sharma+Goenka house. I would have thought for their kid they would fix miscommunication but I was expecting too much from both of them.

Manjiri terminated visitations rights- Abhi didn’t, Manjiri started to home Akshara but Abhi didn’t care that Akshara met Abhir in school, he doesn’t care what Akshara said and did, Manjiri has no right to cancel the weekend visits. Abhi called to cancel it. Abhi said initially to Akshara that she is going to be insecure and you guys will continue to argue. But when he found out about visits being terminated, he argued with Manjiri and said she can’t decide to do that. You stated it like Abhi also terminated the visits.

Also, when you said they emerged as the most wronged party- I had assumed you meant everyone on the show believed their pain was bigger compared to Akshara’s.
I read it wrong this why I asked for examples 😅.

That wasn’t my post I just gave examples because I had them lol. And the examples I gave were where abhi and manjari were hurt themselves but ended up hurting others in their acts.

Originally posted by: Noorain13

I want no police court because imagine Akshara fighting for Abhi 😂 the judge will be so confused 😂

Originally posted by: R.G.C

Arrey haan, Akshara ke legal career ka inception ho sakta hai ye🤣

Without any experience she’ll fight a death penalty case and win but poor girl wasn’t given a custody case 😂
Not sure if India has the death penalty so please don’t come at me but just saying lol.

Originally posted by: Aashiqanafan

A married man has to be wiser than that. You have to handle both Mom and wife sensibly. otherwise it is a failure of the relationship.And he even did not try to fix things in the next 7 months long time period.

@bold Agreed.

But AB's unhealthy codependency with his mother & him being a bad husband are established narratives in the show.. So I wasn't much surprised with him choosing his mum repeatedly over AK.

My concern is what was the need to play victim in front of the family of that very ex-wife whom he himself divorced saying their relationship is a catastrophe. Whom he blamed for multiple deaths.

His behavioural trait of being a perpetual victim in front of everyone like his mother is detestable!!

Originally posted by: Noorain13

Without any experience she’ll fight a death penalty case and win but poor girl wasn’t given a custody case 😂
Not sure if India has the death penalty so please don’t come at me but just saying lol.

Originally posted by: Jenakt17

the bold part- how do they end up emerging as the most wronged party- like I need an example.

I already mentioned the biggest one.. Making the family of the ex-wife believe that she gave divorce and left when it was entirely the other way around.

Making a 7 yr old feel so bad & guilty for asking something as basic as letting him stay with his parents in his own home.. when the man himself can't stay apart from his mother.

When did Abhi make her family believe she is the one who divorced? He came down and announced they divorced and right away Manish and Swarna knew it was Abhi who did it, they even said we already know when he is angry, he doesn’t think at all.

Originally posted by: verve

I already mentioned the biggest one.. Making the family of the ex-wife believe that she gave divorce and left when it was entirely the other way around.

Making a 7 yr old feel so bad & guilty for asking something as basic as letting him stay with his parents in his own home.. when the man himself can't stay apart from his mother.

Originally posted by: Ekahriz

The victim card game has started. Like always Abhimanyu Birla has started playing his victim card. The kid wants to stay with his parents. Abhimanyu to start with the victim card gives the kid to his parents. So, Ruhi doesn't matter to him? All that matters to him is a kid with his blood running in them calling him papa. In that sense, Abhinav is a much better father.

Also, even Sharma's didn't do these much over drama after losing Abhir's custody and they have raised him for 6 years. I could feel Akshara's pain, but this guy like what even is this?!

And again, this Abhimanyu never had a grown up life or what? I mean who controls their almost middle aged son like this? Manjari needs to know where he is at almost all the time. She weeps like she lost something because her grown ass son comes home drunk one day? Imagine living with a mother like that for all your life. With her breathing down your neck, nudging you towards all what she decides for you. It is definitely a very unhealthy co-dependent relationship. Also, Manjari at the same time expected Akshara to stay away from her 6 year old son? What is this woman even?

Oh God! I can't even talk about Abhimanyu's drama. He hasn't gone through an ounce of pain Akshara went through, throughout her life. How do we even compare her situation when she was thrown out of her house by this same dude who's crying like he lost his favourite toy. There wasn't half the sympathy for her.

I think it should be in the Manjari's side of genes. Mother-son duo is definitely good at playing victim cards.

Also, Manjari has the audacity to say "You know only to give pain, Akshara". Seriously, woman? What have you and your son given her? Bucketful of rainbows and cotton candy? Lol. Yeh mother - son.

I am also hating this track where they are trying so hard to whitewash Abhimanyu without really making him apologise to the shit he put Akshara through.

Also, hate Akshara and Abhinav for starting the jaap Abhimanyu is an better/amazing person than us. What the hell has he done? Let his son go because the said son is not happy with him? Isn't that basic decent thing a human being/parent can do? I can't even.

Exactly.....We could feel akshu's pain....Abhi was all OTT....abhi to Abhi ne kuch face hi nahi kiya hai..and he wants to die....😂 I m happy makers r planning to show the mirror to abhi...😂

Abhi to sif abhimanyu ka woh beta door gaya hai...jise abhi ne kuch maheenon se jaana hai...and he was totally oblivious to the pain and unhappineed abhir was in...while in BH.

Akshu ko to he divorced at a time where she was mentally, phycically and emotionally the weakest in her life...and did not bother to even take her calls....

He has no realisation of what he has done...till now....

And on top of that...he dared to tell akshu that he won abhir because of his mom..and was more worried and concerend about the insecurities of his mom...a dadi...compared to akshu..the mom...

he had the audacity to ask akshu in that state whether she said sorry to his mom...

Kaisa banda hai bhai...Bilkul bhi empathy naam ki cheez nahi hai...

and here sarak per sharaab pii kar fijul mein drama kar raha hai.....All OTT drama.....koi feel nahi hai uske dukh ka....

yahan to uske paas uski family hai...akshu has suffered so much more all alone...and then too she never thought of taking her life...that's a strong character!!!

... Abhimanyu being completely drunk in front of abhir.... **slow claps **.... Father of the year