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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Aashiqanafan

Wanted to share my opinions on the 2 topics (colored red/green) and also about the temple incident.

Temple incident :I actually do not despise AbhiManyu for pouring his heart out in the temple.Remember he has been shown orginally as madly in love with AK. So keeping in mind that it makes complete sense that he wants to be with her again. As a truely in love character he should not be looked down upon to try one more time to get his soulmate back. I liked that he wanted to talk to AK and reveal his current feelings.But the treatment could have been better. He should have just shared what his heart wants but should have asked what really AK feels and if she is really happy with her current happy. I know that he has seen happy Sharma fam in Kasauli but it is wise and smart to have a direct heart to heart talk with AK nevertheless.

Red : I never expected AbhiM's this reaction on hearing about his son for the first time. Instead of having sympathy for him missing out on the initial formative years of his son, this "HAQ,HAQ" screaming and not understanding how much pain AK went through and what a disaster he created just left a very bad taste on the character.

Green: I think Abhir wanted to call him Docman again as he cherished his relationship till he was Docman to him and could share his heart with Docman. Whereas the Dadda days for Abhir is associated with nothing but pain . So he wants to go back to his happy relation that will not remind him of the chaos that ensued after he became Dadda.

I agree.


1. The temple setting actually made it very indecent and wrong from an ITV POV. It was screaming 'this is wrong;. Asking a sindoor wearing woman to leave her husband and child to come back to him infront of God. Especially in the context of thinking her as his 'cheez'- the way he referred to her while talking to Abhinav. But at the same time, the same temple setting made the scene even more impactful when Akshara called their marriage Umar Qaid and runs to solace and freedom in Abhinav's arms. It felt like DIVINE INTERVENTION. The scene enhanced further by Abhinav's beautiful monologue about love being freedom without any shackles.


I wasnt surprised by the content of Abhimanyu's confession. I was more suprised by his audacity to say what he said even after everything he did to her. But then he has always been impulsive and destructive in love. Glad he was put in place by Akshara.


2. I truly thought his redemption arc would begin there. Alas... not only did it not begin then.. its didnt even properly begin...at all lol. His pattern thereafter started to be : do mistakes, face the consequences and then play victim. Rinse and repeat till Abhir finally put him in place today.


3. Yes. Docman was someone Abhimanyu cultivated through time and effort, trust and love. Thats the relationship Abhir cherishes with him and is comfortable in that space. Dadda was forced on him. He did not accept Abhimanyu as the other father. Simply cause he already has one. This switch back also has an ulterior motive though. After Abhinav's exit, it opens doors for Abhimanyu to go from Docman to Papa easily when Abhir finally accepts him. So this regression serves two purposes.

Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Chaitu.V

I guess Abhinav can get the custody if the kid wants to stay with Abhinav. Because he is the one who raised Abhir from his birth and kid will be given a choice.

Tagging someone who can help us with the laws

I read somewhere the children's wish is taken into account in India only if he is above a certain age (12/13). And if Abhir's wish is not listened to and he stays unhappy in BH, he will not grow up as a happy successful kid.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Aashiqanafan

I read somewhere the children's wish is taken into account in India only if he is above a certain age (12/13). And if Abhir's wish is not listened to and he stays unhappy in BH, he will not grow up as a happy successful kid.

9 years actually. They can state their preference to the court from age 9. It would be taken into primary consideration along with other things like safety and finances. At 13 is when their choice would be the final say.


But this would be special case since the mother's gone. Abhir's mental health and stability would be primary focus. Kids this age are usually given a counsellor to ascertain their needs in case of a custody battle.


The interesting part is not just Abhinav as adoptive father, even the Goenkas can file for custody if they deem Abhimanyu unfit as sole custodian if Akshara ever cliffs.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Beautiful post

A rejection from Abhir serves them " right:

Finally his Docman Dada understood " Love and passion " can't be forced esp on children and Abhir is just like him staying away from mother is difficult @

Like father like son ....

Loved the episode , AnhiN will disappear but after marking as one " of the best Cameo appearance " on ITV

Well done AbhiN , he never once hurt Akshara, nor any one !

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rosh4rose

Beautiful post

A rejection from Abhir serves them " right:

Finally his Docman Dada understood " Love and passion " can't be forced esp on children and Abhir is just like him staying away from mother is difficult @

Like father like son ....

Loved the episode , AnhiN will disappear but after marking as one " of the best Cameo appearance " on ITV

Well done AbhiN , he never once hurt Akshara, nor any one !


He will go as his karma throwing on real fathers face that he is his son again and again and saying whatever he did on his face ,till the time he did ,without bragging or announcing on ones face what all he did,that would be real AA ,the day he emotional manipulation starts when he every time says it on face counting it,his ulta karma starts

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Deltablues

Bruh, so he just got his miscarrying wife to sign divorce papers and get out of her marital home without filing the papers for six years? Lolololol

What the truamatized wife must make out of the situation , go back and get more insult !

🤣Or ask whether divorce legalised or not !

6 yrs .. he waited 🤣

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Difference between Abhimanyu and Akshara-Abhinav as a parent was clear today!

While the Sharmas broke Abhir’s heart to comply with the court orders, Abhimanyu trashed the court’s order for Abhir’s happiness.. Thats the man he is and this gesture will always remain a slap on the hypocrisy of Goenkas and Sharmas! And I am glad that Abhir too knows that no one can care about his feelings and happiness more than his Docman - thats why he comes to his Docman not his mumma papa with his wishes - he knows his Docman will do anything for him!

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: sweta2005


He will go as his karma throwing on real fathers face that he is his son again and again and saying whatever he did on his face ,till the time he did ,without bragging or announcing on ones face what all he did,that would be real AA ,the day he emotional manipulation starts when he every time says it on face counting it,his ulta karma starts

I can't grasp what you are telling

He means who?

Whose karma !

Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: DevilsHeart

Difference between Abhimanyu and Akshara-Abhinav as a parent was clear today!

While the Sharmas broke Abhir’s heart to comply with the court orders, Abhimanyu trashed the court’s order for Abhir’s happiness.. Thats the man he is and this gesture will always remain a slap on the hypocrisy of Goenkas and Sharmas! And I am glad that Abhir too knows that no one can care about his feelings and happiness more than his Docman - thats why he comes to his Docman not his mumma papa with his wishes - he knows his Docman will do anything for him!

Everyone here knows very well that his wish to stay with his parents cannot be granted by his parents. The court took away that authority from them. So being a smart child Abhir asked the correct person who had the authority.

Abhir's heart would have been broken that day no matter what . The Sharmas actually chose to become guilty and spared AbhiM and ManjuMatta to appear as the guilty. Manjumaata was on the verge of coming to GH and pull Abhir out. Though I do not support this step of the Sharmas.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: DevilsHeart

Difference between Abhimanyu and Akshara-Abhinav as a parent was clear today!

While the Sharmas broke Abhir’s heart to comply with the court orders, Abhimanyu trashed the court’s order for Abhir’s happiness.. Thats the man he is and this gesture will always remain a slap on the hypocrisy of Goenkas and Sharmas! And I am glad that Abhir too knows that no one can care about his feelings and happiness more than his Docman - thats why he comes to his Docman not his mumma papa with his wishes - he knows his Docman will do anything for him!

Oh please akshnav had to comply with court orders if not it could get worse for them. They didn’t have a choice. They had to send the kid to him. yes they broke the kids heart with a lie which was stupid but they had no choice but to send him.

AbiM had custody so he has a choice to abide by it or choose his sons happiness. Which btw he only did after his son explicitly asked him to? It’s not like he understood without abhir asking, then whatever you said I could agree. He saw his son suffer and chose to ignore it till his son had to beg him. Today what he did is the wisest decision.

if docman really knew abhir he would have never filed for custody , he wouldn’t want to uproot his kid from his mother, if he really knew abhir he would have put a stop to manjiri and BP ka madness with custody challenge and just asked akshnav to let abhir know that he is the father and let him make the choice.

A child had to apologise to a grown up adult for wanting to be with his parents.





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