Originally posted by: AvantikaP
Abhimanyu Birla had the guts to do what Mr and Mrs Sharma could not.
If Abhimanyu Birla wanted he could have fought the whole world for his son. But he only listened to his son, he could not fight with his 6 year old son.
I am glad Abhir Sharma rejected Abhimanyu. He does not deserve a father like Abhimanyu.
I am glad Abhinav Sharma is going to his parents and Goenkas and I hope his mum and he never look back at Abhi.
It is better to be alone in the world then to be with a wife and son such as AK and Abhir who only called Abhi when they need something out of Abhi.
AK aAbhir and Gonekas please step aside and let Abhi live peacefully. Don't care about Goenkas and Sharma, I will watch YRKKH for Abhi.
Red: Mr and Mrs Sharma had already tore their heart in half and sent their son to live with the Birlas after the court decision. They have already shown twice the guts that Mr. Birla could ever muster. As far as Akshara's visits to the Birla house are concerned, it is well within her purview to make sure her son is doing okay in a new environment.
Green: He only listened to his son after he had no other option. Abhir was clearly miserable at the Birla house for the entire time he was there. He made it clearly known that he would only consider Abhinav Sharma as his father. But still, Abhimanyu Birla made no move to help his son, or clear his misunderstanding that his parents don't love him. The kid literally had to run away from home, battle strangers and possible life-threatening situations for Abhimanyu to even consider it. In fact, Abhir had to clearly ASK to return to Kasauli with his parents before the "great Mr. Birla" made a decision to let go of him. Even then, he couldn't make the decision before ten minutes of bickering from all the irrelevant people in the life.
When it comes to a child's happiness, no good parent would take over two weeks to make a decision. My parents once found out that I was in a depressive episode during college. Overnight, they sent me tickets, called me home, and encouraged me to take a semester off to recuperate. They didn't care about their money being spent, my courses being incomplete, or what the world or society would say. And they certainly didn't take two weeks to make a decision about my health. They took less than two minutes to decide to do everything in their power to help me recover.
Blue: You're right. Abhir doesn't deserve a father like Abhimanyu Birla. Even Roohi doesn't honestly. They both deserve so much better. I was watching a previous episode today and I provide one of Abhimanyu's quotes: "Mujhe Abhir aur Roohi dono chahiye. Dono isi ghar mein rahenge." (I want Abhir and Roohi both, in this house).
The problem is that Abhimanyu looks at the kids like his "right" or "haq." That should be the last thing a parent thinks about. Being a parent is the most important and toughest job in this world. The biggest requirement is that you always and always think about the child first. If you want to be a parent, you give up your own desires and wishes in order to make the best possible decisions for the children. That is the deal.
Abhimanyu CHOSE to be Roohi's "Poppy." He CHOSE to be Abhir's "Dada." That means, none of the decisions of Roohi and Abhir's lives should be about Abhimanyu's WANTS. It should be about the children's NEEDS.
Also, I'm anticipating counter-arguments about Akshara not putting Abhir first, so let me put that to rest too. After the kind of treatment she had witnessed and experienced at the Birla house, I am so glad she let Abhinav raise Abhir instead of Abhimanyu. She didn't "hide" him away, but even if she did, I'd 100% support it. Also, if your counter-argument about one character's actions is to bring up another character's actions, then you've clearly lost the argument.
Bold: Akshara is not Abhimanyu's wife. She's been Abhimanyu's wife for much much less time than she has been Abhinav's wife. Her marriage to Abhimanyu lasted at most 3 years, in which they were separated once and divorced twice. Her marriage to Abhinav has lasted a stable 7 years.
As far as Abhir is concerned, he's a six year old child. You cannot expect him to be "mature" or "selfless" to accommodate Abhimanyu. Abhir is the actual child. Not Abhimanyu (despite how much everyone coddles him as a man-child).
Also, both Akshara and Abhir have gone above and beyond their limits to accommodate Abhimanyu when they were related to him. Akshara did so when she was married to Abhimanyu many times. After being divorced, she didn't owe him anything. Even Abhir held a heavy heart and did everything in this power to stay at the Birla house and keep his "Dada" happy. He said so himself. He apologized to Abhimanyu today for breaking his heart and not being adjust to the Birla house. A literal six year old has to apologize and tiptoe around this man child.
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