And we can see why Akshara was afraid…

Abhir who had never shown this kind of anger before is also marred.

Shivu is a full on bully.

Even Ruhi has shown that she was spoilt.

It looks like Akshara’s fear was valid. She was afraid of Birlas affecting her child in a bad way and that is exactly what is happening. And Birlas parenting is not working out. There is Manjari who wants to take away Abhinav and somewhat Akshara away from his life, people who are part of Abhir’s life since the inception. There is Mahima who will clearly side with her bully grandson in the future. There is Abhimanyu who all of a sudden has become too busy (although I appreciate the fact that writers ko yaad aaya that he has a job to do, lol😆), not to mention who does not have guts to call out his mum giving her the leeway to act how she is acting. There is Parth who is an abuser and Shefali who can’t even stand upto her abuser. And there is Anand who is rarely visible. There is nobody to give love to the child and understand him. Only person among the adults right now who can still reach him seems to be Arohi, that too indirectly through Ruhi, but with time it’s highly possible that Ruhi and Abhir also grow apart.

In Sharma household, baki sab kitna bhi jhooth dikhe sabko, at least Abhir ki khushi genuine hua karti thi.

Kasauli track 1

Abhir has shown similar behaviour before too, he had vandalized police vehicle too and Abhimanyu was arrested

https://youtu.be/aQV7aF1yrp8

A kid doing mischief is different from a kid acting out in anger. Definitely Abhir’s behaviour back then could have landed him in trouble but the two incidents are not comparable because this time the kid is actually going through anger issues and its not just part of a mischief. And anger issues can be quite hazardous to a person’s mental health.

Originally posted by: NoraSM

Kasauli track 1

Abhir has shown similar behaviour before too, he had vandalized police vehicle too and Abhimanyu was arrested

https://youtu.be/aQV7aF1yrp8

Angry on abhinav for not getting a personal room.

Hitting abhi with dirty ball.

Writing on abhi mirror in kasauli hotel.

Thought abhi nuisance until returned money. Which as a kid he shouldn't have interfered in elders business.

What sort of influence did he have then in kasauli to be angry and do all these. Fact is abhir has abhi ka traits which can't go away with giving him in nav hands and making nav father. It's as parents abhira responsibility to set kid and make him understand it's effects and consequences. Hiding him in a no problem place won't change anything.

If not for birlas his school, work place anything would affect him one day and get his og traits out any day.

Originally posted by: R.G.C

A kid doing mischief is different from a kid acting out in anger. Definitely Abhir’s behaviour back then could have landed him in trouble but the two incidents are not comparable because this time the kid is actually going through anger issues and its not just part of a mischief.

Attacking strangers is not mischief. He was acting out of anger only to avenge his father, he wasn't pulling a prank on Abhimanyu.

Originally posted by: hari15

Angry on abhinav for not getting a personal room.

Hitting abhi with dirty ball.

Writing on abhi mirror in kasauli hotel.

Thought abhi nuisance until returned money. Which as a kid he shouldn't have interfered in elders business.

What sort of influence did he have then in kasauli to be angry and do all these. Fact is abhir has abhi ka traits which can't go away with giving him in nav hands and making nav father. It's as parents abhira responsibility to set kid and make him understand it's effects and consequences. Hiding him in a no problem place won't change anything.

If not for birlas his school, work place anything would affect him one day and get his og traits out any day.

Exactly

Abhir has shown these traits since beginning, this was his character introduction. He is a kid like Shivu is a kid and Ruhi is a kid

Kids do make mistakes

Originally posted by: R.G.C

Abhir who had never shown this kind of anger before is also marred.

Shivu is a full on bully.

Even Ruhi has shown that she was spoilt.

It looks like Akshara’s fear was valid. She was afraid of Birlas affecting her child in a bad way and that is exactly what is happening. And Birlas parenting is not working out. There is Manjari who wants to take away Abhinav and somewhat Akshara away from his life, people who are part of Abhir’s life since the inception. There is Mahima who will clearly side with her bully grandson in the future. There is Abhimanyu who all of a sudden has become too busy (although I appreciate the fact that writers ko yaad aaya that he has a job to do, lol😆), not to mention who does not have guts to call out his mum giving her the leeway to act how she is acting. There is Parth who is an abuser and Shefali who can’t even stand upto her abuser. And there is Anand who is rarely visible. There is nobody to give love to the child and understand him. Only person among the adults right now who can still reach him seems to be Arohi, that too indirectly through Ruhi, but with time it’s highly possible that Ruhi and Abhir also grow apart.

In Sharma household, baki sab kitna bhi jhooth dikhe sabko, at least Abhir ki khushi genuine hua karti thi.

If anyone has to be blamed for how abhir is now, it's his parents, abhinav and Akshara. They have made him weak. They have taught him to hide his pain, his health condition.

All this happened in Kasauli.

He found a friend in abhi and used to share with him!!!

But after the custody case, he isn't opening up to abhi as well.

Because now, abhi is his parent too and like before he is hiding everything with his 3rd parent as well.

That is not mischief. He was angry at Abhi for not returning his fathers money and so he did that to Abhi - that’s acting out in anger. Also, Abhir’s behavior did land him in trouble with the police remember he broke a car window glass- Abhi got in between and took over the blame this why Abhir got out of trouble. What Abhir did in these scenes were not some mischief funny pranks, if Abhi hadn’t stepped in then there would have been some serious consequences.

Also in todays episode, his anger emotion is justified- Shivu keeps provoking him and saying hurtful things. Abhir is allowed to get angry when is he getting bullied, which kid wouldn’t ? I would be more worried if Abhir just accepted Shivu’s bullying and didn’t get angry. What was not right was him ruining Shivu’s cake.

Originally posted by: R.G.C

A kid doing mischief is different from a kid acting out in anger. Definitely Abhir’s behaviour back then could have landed him in trouble but the two incidents are not comparable because this time the kid is actually going through anger issues and it’s not just part of a mischief. And anger issues can be quite hazardous to a person’s mental health.

His anger was understood, explained to him that it was misdirected and his behaviour was corrected. UNLIKE BH where geriatric adults go "mera trophy tere trophy ko sorry nahi bolega."

Originally posted by: R.G.C

Abhir who had never shown this kind of anger before is also marred.

Shivu is a full on bully.

Even Ruhi has shown that she was spoilt.

It looks like Akshara’s fear was valid. She was afraid of Birlas affecting her child in a bad way and that is exactly what is happening. And Birlas parenting is not working out. There is Manjari who wants to take away Abhinav and somewhat Akshara away from his life, people who are part of Abhir’s life since the inception. There is Mahima who will clearly side with her bully grandson in the future. There is Abhimanyu who all of a sudden has become too busy (although I appreciate the fact that writers ko yaad aaya that he has a job to do, lol😆), not to mention who does not have guts to call out his mum giving her the leeway to act how she is acting. There is Parth who is an abuser and Shefali who can’t even stand upto her abuser. And there is Anand who is rarely visible. There is nobody to give love to the child and understand him. Only person among the adults right now who can still reach him seems to be Arohi, that too indirectly through Ruhi, but with time it’s highly possible that Ruhi and Abhir also grow apart.

In Sharma household, baki sab kitna bhi jhooth dikhe sabko, at least Abhir ki khushi genuine hua karti thi.

Not supporting anyone coz mujhe toh yeh episodes funny lag rhe hain 🤣

But just quick query on Akshara's fear. If say WD never happened then toh Abhir Birla House mein hi rehta and I am sure Akshara would be the first one in situations like this ti say Abhir sorry bolo

Adding to it Abhir has been shown to have anger. Kasauli first visit of AbhiM.

A few times it was discussed to Abhir ka Krodh