And we can see why Akshara was afraid… - Page 2

Originally posted by: Deltablues

His anger was understood, explained to him that it was misdirected and his behaviour was corrected. UNLIKE BH where geriatric adults go "mera trophy tere trophy ko sorry nahi bolega."

Even though AbhiM explained to Abhir but @bold

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Originally posted by: chaipaani

Not supporting anyone coz mujhe toh yeh episodes funny lag rhe hain 🤣

But just quick query on Akshara's fear. If say WD never happened then toh Abhir Birla House mein hi rehta and I am sure Akshara would be the first one in situations like this ti say Abhir sorry bolo

Adding to it Abhir has been shown to have anger. Kasauli first visit of AbhiM.

A few times it was discussed to Abhir ka Krodh

Originally posted by: R.G.C

Lol so who is saying pre leap Akshara was any good😆, WD was a good realisation hit to her, and now she is aware about the toxicity in Birla household, so progress, lol…and coming to Abhir’s anger, a lot of people have concern regarding that, and I will reply in sometime (maybe after lunch😅), but it’s interesting how people could only catch that part of the topic and nobody commented on how Birla household turned out to be for most of the kids there🤔, its as if everybody is just not ready to accept Birlas parenting ways are faulty

Okay so this is going to be long comment 😆

The thing is from where I see I find BH more relatable to every other Indian household.

Adults not taking in consideration of what career their kids wants and forcing them choose secured careers

Youngsters having good bond(WD changed things but overall) and literally having eye conversation when adults are being adults.

Comparison between the cousins usko dekho usko dekho

Minus Anisha murder and WD almost how 7 out of 10 Indian household works.

Now Goenka Fam they look all love and support but

Treating your sister as threat, not listening to one sister.

Leaving your sister to die(akshara accident where abhi used butter knife)

Thoughts so vile that even though Aaru decided otherwise for moment she felt like leaving AbhiM to die when he met with the accident.

Kairav is the worst as a bhai. 6 saal is the example. If he would have cared toofani raat nahi hoti.

He could have made sure that Abhinav and Akshara both have enough resources during that time.

In reality I will never think of stealing the prospect relationship of my sister or friend but god forbid they step on my shoes i am ruining their cake.

High chances of meri mummy behaving sorry bolo wrna. Child Abuse toh done hai ghar aake.

Even as adult if I cry they go like haan ro lo phele but trust me I know they love me.

Visual representation of how families actually are:

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cuv6ftrs73E/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==

Originally posted by: R.G.C

Lol so who is saying pre leap Akshara was any good😆, WD was a good realisation hit to her, and now she is aware about the toxicity in Birla household, so progress, lol…and coming to Abhir’s anger, a lot of people have concern regarding that, and I will reply in sometime (maybe after lunch😅), but it’s interesting how people could only catch that part of the topic and nobody commented on how Birla household turned out to be for most of the kids there🤔, its as if everybody is just not ready to accept Birlas parenting ways are faulty

It's been 5 days so I am not judging them at all.

Shivu was in hostel not his parents fault.

Many people start drinking and what not once they're in hostel is it parents fault?

Except for few occasions Ruhi has been shown very loving especially once AbhiM explained her things so that I like.

Every house is faulty in rishta including the Kasauli one. Just the hate is too much against BH.

I will personally choose BH than upar se love and andar se khokhla Gonekas and maybe mere toh dono real wale mummy papa hain still over pampering nahi mili toh can't relate to the Kasauli scenes. I prefer Yeh meri family (tvf) vibes over them so

But these are my personal opinions

The very question is why should Akshara be scared . Does the child prefer only to live with muma and papa? One of the positives of living in a joint family is that you get to spend a lot of time together, strengthening the relationships among all members. A stronger emotional bond is formed .

These days children are used to stay in nuclear families and they can't take a NO even from their peer group leave alone the elders in the family . That is why they have become emotionally weak and tend to take drastic steps when they grow up and can't handle things . Bhai behen mein yeh sab hotha hain. Own siblings fight with each other and immediately parents don't separate them and keep them away.

Find a common solution instead of running away from the cause of it . There are always pros and cons either way and if she wants to quote this as an example and separate her son from her father , how long will she be able to do it . He has to be taught to be strong rather than throw temper tantrums. Unless he shares his anxiety , he is just another Akshara in the making . For that matter i m proud of the way Ru is brought up honestly and never hidden from facts and she understood when AbhiM taught her brotherhood . That is what a real parent does .

Originally posted by: chaipaani

It's been 5 days so I am not judging them at all.

Shivu was in hostel not his parents fault.

Many people start drinking and what not once they're in hostel is it parents fault?

Except for few occasions Ruhi has been shown very loving especially once AbhiM explained her things so that I like.

Every house is faulty in rishta including the Kasauli one. Just the hate is too much against BH.

I will personally choose BH than upar se love and andar se khokhla Gonekas and maybe mere toh dono real wale mummy papa hain still over pampering nahi mili toh can't relate to the Kasauli scenes. I prefer Yeh meri family (tvf) vibes over them so

But these are my personal opinions

Might be your take. I am not a fan of joint family. It was a horrible experience for me personally so I am all a fan of nuclear families. About emotional strength I am mentally more stable here. Its not even about the type of behavior I faced, because people were good to me, its more about seeing my mom struggle, which I did not like.

And yeah, I do agree to the point that both need to find commonality but trying to find the same in joint family means your decisions would be highly influenced by a lot of other opinions and becomes tough. For instance in this show a Manjari’s opinion of not wanting Abhinav in Abhir’s life is going to influence Abhimanyu’s decisions too, its not that simple usually

Originally posted by: Avanti30

The very question is why should Akshara be scared . Does the child prefer only to live with muma and papa? One of the positives of living in a joint family is that you get to spend a lot of time together, strengthening the relationships among all members. A stronger emotional bond is formed .

These days children are used to stay in nuclear families and they can't take a NO even from their peer group leave alone the elders in the family . That is why they have become emotionally weak and tend to take drastic steps when they grow up and can't handle things . Bhai behen mein yeh sab hotha hain. Own siblings fight with each other and immediately parents don't separate them and keep them away.

Find a common solution instead of running away from the cause of it . There are always pros and cons either way and if she wants to quote this as an example and separate her son from her father , how long will she be able to do it . He has to be taught to be strong rather than throw temper tantrums. Unless he shares his anxiety , he is just another Akshara in the making . For that matter i m proud of the way Ru is brought up honestly and never hidden from facts and she understood when AbhiM taught her brotherhood . That is what a real parent does .

Agreed ..except the bolded part. Akshara doesn't share her anxiety ? Here I thought everyday akshara is called names bec she is sharing all her anxieties in bh 😆Woh bhi like..publicly.

Originally posted by: Avanti30

The very question is why should Akshara be scared . Does the child prefer only to live with muma and papa? One of the positives of living in a joint family is that you get to spend a lot of time together, strengthening the relationships among all members. A stronger emotional bond is formed .

These days children are used to stay in nuclear families and they can't take a NO even from their peer group leave alone the elders in the family . That is why they have become emotionally weak and tend to take drastic steps when they grow up and can't handle things . Bhai behen mein yeh sab hotha hain. Own siblings fight with each other and immediately parents don't separate them and keep them away.

Find a common solution instead of running away from the cause of it . There are always pros and cons either way and if she wants to quote this as an example and separate her son from her father , how long will she be able to do it . He has to be taught to be strong rather than throw temper tantrums. Unless he shares his anxiety , he is just another Akshara in the making . For that matter i m proud of the way Ru is brought up honestly and never hidden from facts and she understood when AbhiM taught her brotherhood . That is what a real parent does .

Hum toh rishte khatam krlete hain until one of us making Maggie.

It's a weird show I mean no kids in front of their parents make Fun of child for not having a father like Ruhi k saath hua. Though main hoti toh bolti k shit tera kanyadaan kaun karega(darkjoke lover guys)

And similarly that Kasauli school scene on family tree. I am mean you decided to visit udaipur for this reason. Women you are hiding the paternity and you decide to visit udaipur coz a KG class ka project

To think of Akshara k saare fears(justified or not) are getting true cause a) they gave a KG class ka project next level value b) then Sharma Ji ko pta tha daaru nahi jhilti still he drank that too with jisse baat chupani thi 🤣

Originally posted by: Krinya

Agreed ..except the bolded part. Akshara doesn't share her anxiety ? Here I thought everyday akshara is called names bec she is sharing all her anxieties in bh 😆Woh bhi like..publicly.

Usko Anxiety share krna nahi kehte hain behen 😆