Geonka(s) and Sharma(s)- The self-victims [DT Note: pg-10] - Page 2

Originally posted by: dotheDrama

What’s ironic here is that BP is upset that he separated a son from his mom. I have not watched S2, but isn’t that what he intended to do there with Kairav and Naira? Lol, hypocrisy.

The entire Goenka family including Bade Papa,Suvarna,Suhasini Mimi made Naira’s life hell and kicked her out of the house or showed her the exit door quite a few times as much as I remember but now suddenly in Season 3 are pretending as if they are saints and respect their betis, daughters awww so believable and as if the audience have forgotten those evil deeds of the past..seriously I cant stand this family..

Originally posted by: --Priyaa--

Akshara kept the truth hidden even when Abhir wanted to know his father’s name..she insisted she will tell him ‘later’maybe after an eternity..that seemed too selfish in my opinion. She clearly was least concerned about the child’s mental well being and was more focused on her husband’s feelings.

Abhimanyu was willing to stay as Mausa jee for the sake of Akshara’s happiness and not to create unwanted stress.Abhimanyu willingly had let go off custody case and had even adviced his mom not go further with it.He Was being quite understanding and not so selfish..Abhimanyu’s love is selfless, and lot more genuine I feel.His scenes with junior striked a better chord for me because of the same genuine bond they showcase.

Akshara should be questioning Goenkas and Bade papa “I thought you guys changed but you interfered unwantedly in my life and made decisions for me and my child on my behalf without my consent”

If Akshara starts acting like an adult and putting her son in center, how would she be an adult? I actually find it funny that it was her who said legal first, it was her family who put the condition and case on him, it was her who said to him in court that she will tell Abhir when right time came because she knows she will win, basically taunting him that he will have no rights and just her grace to him, and when he responded as a lawful citizen, Abhimanyu hasn't changed, he took my son, I had thought he won't separate us. Bro, he didn't care about your or your husband's place in his son's life, he wanted his own, that's it. Your incompetence as a parent to think the best for your child is what got you here. If you hadn't been arrogant and pati love crazy none of this would have happened.

Originally posted by: --Priyaa--

The entire Goenka family including Bade Papa,Suvarna,Suhasini Mimi made Naira’s life hell and kicked her out of the house or showed her the exit door quite a few times as much as I remember but now suddenly in Season 3 are pretending as if they are saints and respect their betis, daughters awww so believable and as if the audience have forgotten those evil deeds of the past..seriously I cant stand this family..

Naira toh was daughter in law, Suhasini toh had tried to unite her grand daughter with her abusive husband also, after knowing the truth, because who would marry Kirti and their name will be spoiled. The whole Naksh Kirti marriage had happened because Naksh knew Goenkas will torture his sister else. So they have already proven for 2 seasons they are the biggest self victimization people.

Trust me, people would have liked Abhimanyu to either back out, or say in court he doesn't want custody, because Sharmas would have won, and then they would have said achai jeet gayi because Abhimanyu deserves to be alone and Abhir is happy so who cares about anything else. Self righteous people only care about their definition of right and are incapable of looking at things from third person perspective and then defining right and wrong. You can do and care about what's your definition of right, but to judge the world on that basis is what's wrong. Did Akshara back out and say not sole custody but shared? No because she wanted Abhimanyu to lose and her to be the one deciding if and when he meets his son. Because in her brain, Abhimanyu being there would lessen the love Abhir has for Abhinav, like she remembers Naira more than Sirat.

Originally posted by: dotheDrama

What’s ironic here is that BP is upset that he separated a son from his mom. I have not watched S2, but isn’t that what he intended to do there with Kairav and Naira? Lol, hypocrisy.

wahi lol.. apne kora chitta yaad nahi rehta kisi ko

Originally posted by: --Priyaa--

Akshara kept the truth hidden even when Abhir wanted to know his father’s name..she insisted she will tell him ‘later’maybe after an eternity..that seemed too selfish in my opinion. She clearly was least concerned about the child’s mental well being and was more focused on her husband’s feelings.

Abhimanyu was willing to stay as Mausa jee for the sake of Akshara’s happiness and not to create unwanted stress.Abhimanyu willingly had let go off custody case and had even adviced his mom not go further with it.He Was being quite understanding and not so selfish..Abhimanyu’s love is selfless, and lot more genuine I feel.His scenes with junior striked a better chord for me because of the same genuine bond they showcase.

Akshara should be questioning Goenkas and Bade papa “I thought you guys changed but you interfered unwantedly in my life and made decisions for me and my child on my behalf without my consent”

Exactly, also when BP opened the case, Akshnav had nothing to loose yet they went on and said nothing and fought the case but now blame Abhimanyu- inke self victimisation dekh kar itna gussa aata hai na by god.

Abhimanyu is the better parent as he gives his kids a safe zone to come forward with their opinions, tells them the truth-

Akshara toh chodo hi

Originally posted by: cutepigs

If Akshara starts acting like an adult and putting her son in center, how would she be an adult? I actually find it funny that it was her who said legal first, it was her family who put the condition and case on him, it was her who said to him in court that she will tell Abhir when right time came because she knows she will win, basically taunting him that he will have no rights and just her grace to him, and when he responded as a lawful citizen, Abhimanyu hasn't changed, he took my son, I had thought he won't separate us. Bro, he didn't care about your or your husband's place in his son's life, he wanted his own, that's it. Your incompetence as a parent to think the best for your child is what got you here. If you hadn't been arrogant and pati love crazy none of this would have happened.

Absolutely, you raise some valid points. It's quite interesting to note that Akshara was the one who initially brought the legalities into the picture, and her family were the ones who first initiated the case.

When Abhimanyu, in turn, stood his ground as a responsible a father, it's curious how the narrative shifted and Abhimanyu suddenly became the one who is 'breaking up' the family. But as you rightly mentioned, Abhimanyu merely sought his rightful place in his son's life.

Her actions suggest a need for self-reflection. If she had perhaps focused more on prioritizing Abhir's needs over her own emotional desires, the situation may not have escalated to this point. It's a delicate scenario but one that could have been navigated with more maturity and foresight. The unfortunate situation emphasizes the need for more careful consideration and empathy, particularly in matters involving a child's wellbeing.

Originally posted by: --Priyaa--

The entire Goenka family including Bade Papa,Suvarna,Suhasini Mimi made Naira’s life hell and kicked her out of the house or showed her the exit door quite a few times as much as I remember but now suddenly in Season 3 are pretending as if they are saints and respect their betis, daughters awww so believable and as if the audience have forgotten those evil deeds of the past..seriously I cant stand this family..

I am glad I didn’t watch S2. Haha, I would have more issues with this stupid track then. I understand that ITV and TRP runs on drama. Humans learn from their mistakes. Looks they did a reboot of this entire clan for S3. They seem to recall the past but only during situations which favor them.

Originally posted by: cutepigs

Naira toh was daughter in law, Suhasini toh had tried to unite her grand daughter with her abusive husband also, after knowing the truth, because who would marry Kirti and their name will be spoiled. The whole Naksh Kirti marriage had happened because Naksh knew Goenkas will torture his sister else. So they have already proven for 2 seasons they are the biggest self victimization people.

Trust me, people would have liked Abhimanyu to either back out, or say in court he doesn't want custody, because Sharmas would have won, and then they would have said achai jeet gayi because Abhimanyu deserves to be alone and Abhir is happy so who cares about anything else. Self righteous people only care about their definition of right and are incapable of looking at things from third person perspective and then defining right and wrong. You can do and care about what's your definition of right, but to judge the world on that basis is what's wrong. Did Akshara back out and say not sole custody but shared? No because she wanted Abhimanyu to lose and her to be the one deciding if and when he meets his son. Because in her brain, Abhimanyu being there would lessen the love Abhir has for Abhinav, like she remembers Naira more than Sirat.

people would have killed Abhimanyu if he was anything like the ckt of s2 😆

Originally posted by: cutepigs

If Akshara starts acting like an adult and putting her son in center, how would she be an adult? I actually find it funny that it was her who said legal first, it was her family who put the condition and case on him, it was her who said to him in court that she will tell Abhir when right time came because she knows she will win, basically taunting him that he will have no rights and just her grace to him, and when he responded as a lawful citizen, Abhimanyu hasn't changed, he took my son, I had thought he won't separate us. Bro, he didn't care about your or your husband's place in his son's life, he wanted his own, that's it. Your incompetence as a parent to think the best for your child is what got you here. If you hadn't been arrogant and pati love crazy none of this would have happened.

Exactly they started it and are now crying cause they lost.

Originally posted by: cutepigs

If Akshara starts acting like an adult and putting her son in center, how would she be an adult? I actually find it funny that it was her who said legal first, it was her family who put the condition and case on him, it was her who said to him in court that she will tell Abhir when right time came because she knows she will win, basically taunting him that he will have no rights and just her grace to him, and when he responded as a lawful citizen, Abhimanyu hasn't changed, he took my son, I had thought he won't separate us. Bro, he didn't care about your or your husband's place in his son's life, he wanted his own, that's it. Your incompetence as a parent to think the best for your child is what got you here. If you hadn't been arrogant and pati love crazy none of this would have happened.

exactly, their self victimisation is jarring.

I laugh at their audacity to act like victims too