Geonka(s) and Sharma(s)- The self-victims [DT Note: pg-10] - Page 8

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

Only difference is Akshara and Abhinav got married without anyone influencing them for their happiness. They did it for themselves.

Does this difference of influence matter? I know you like their pairing but they have not done a lot of things maturely or righteously! They have made ample mistakes as individuals and also as parents!

@bold - They did for Abhir is what was shown.

However, what worked out for them later need not always work out for someone else. And just because it worked doesn’t mean that the decision wasn’t questionable.

Originally posted by: --Priyaa--

Just like #Justifying boring insecure characters

because they are cute and nice☺️

Manish regrets cause he lost. Had they won he also would have giving lecture on how the truth always wins. Manjari did what she did won’t justify her action. But she could have gone and told Abhir she could have thrown a tantrum she wants Abhir to know the truth. aB told her not to she listened. And it was her fault BP could have pulled her up for it. Why did he have to link that with the truth. He started it. and Manjari clearly said that it was him who has started the custody this time. Probably they wanted to highlight that fact. But then again ppl have selective memory only remember what will help there cause. They have forgotten BC fraud. BP did say he was at fault he started it.

Manjari was wrong in hiding and so is Ak. At Neil’s time AK didn’t think it was right. Just cause Manjari is wrong should’ve be AK is right too. Everyone here agrees Manjari was wrong it had a negative impact on Neil. And AK saw that if anything she should have learnt from Manjari mistake.

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

We can’t compare Abhir’s mental health condition with Neil’s because the former had the most loving environment a child can get. And it’s clearly visible in his upbringing and confidence and how much he loves his parents.

Not sure about confidence since he was more confident in sharing all this problems and secrets with someone who was essentially a stranger than his own parents. But the fact is, Abhir's mental health today is worse than what Neil's was because his parents refused to behave responsibly when he needed it the most. Abhinav tried to stop BP but they had needed to put their foot down and say no, it is our child. Instead they chose to give Abhir a twisted truth, Abhinav chose to tell Manjari to take her son out of his wife and son's life, Akshara told Abhimanyu she knows her happy family will win and then she'll allow Abhimanyu to meet twice a year. Nobody is questioning to decision to hide when she did, but yes, we are questioning her decision to continue lying when things started going out of hand. A solution Abhimanyu was giving from the starting still allowed her to keep her son in Kasauli, the way she wanted because Abhimanyu saw the happy family, all he wanted was to be a father TOO. He never said remove Abhinav, he said add me. But Akshara let her anger, her insecurity for her husband and her over confidence guide her instead of her love for her child. And even now, her expectations were from Abhimanyu taking a step back from a case she filed on him.

This is subjective not fact. Sorry.

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

This is subjective not fact. Sorry.

What is? Abhir reaching out to a stranger? That's a fact. Abhimanyu wanting coparenting but Akshara wanting to kick him out? That's also a fact. Abhinav, BP and Akshara planning on misusing the fact that law stands with mothers more against Abhimanyu getting to meet snd spend time with his fact? That's also fact. Just because these people don't curl a hair strand around their fingers, doesn't mean they aren't trying to twist things to their favor.

As for mental health being subjective. Neil took a few days before remembering his brother and mother's love. He was grown up whose base was moved and he did break. The same way Abhir is breaking right now. Manjari wasn't a therapist, Akshara is. Manjari was constantly abused, Akshara "escaped" her abuser and lived with Abhir in a happy environment. So in fact Akshara should have been able to handle this better no? She had no pain anymore, she has the love of her life, she has a son who is saying that he wants to stay with them even though he knows his real dad is someone else, but she still did not love her son enough to trust him. Nobody is calling them bad parents, nobody is saying their upbringing is wrong, what we are all saying is when Manjari and Abhimanyu were wrong then, Akshara is wrong now. Abhimanyu put his pain first and lost everything that day, his brother, his kids, his love, and he deserved to have pain be his only companion as he made it most important. Now Akshara did the same thing. She put her hatred for Abhimanyu first and love for her child second, why doesn't she deserve consequences? We say we want equality, but the truth is, we want it only when men are treating women badly, not in everything.

If after this also you feel Akshnav are the best parents on earth, seeing what they are doing right now, we can only agree to disagree. Parents for me, aren't supposed to be selfish. My parents have taught me that with their actions, so for me, Akshnav were brilliant parents till they let their selfish desires rule their love for their son.

Originally posted by: ishqdinoorhai9

It's funny how all they are seeing is how they lost due to financial condition while completely forgetting that forging documents, paternity fraud with respect to Abhimanyu as been addressed by the judge but not only that, they are blaming their loss as ABHIMANYU'S FAULT.

Akshara has once again come to the self victimisation and making Abhimanyu the villain- "Mujhe laga tha Abhimanyu badal gaya hai... wo mere ko aur Abhinav ko samajhta hai, wo hamare parivaar ko tootne nahi dega lekin shayad main hi galat dekha, mere hi aankhon ne dhokha kiya"

Arre behen, he always said he is the father TOO but you kept on only saying Abhinav is the dad. It was you who kept on hiding the truth from Abhir and waited supposedly for "the right time" to speak up. Tumhe apne hi mute rehne ke kaand nahi yaad rehte kya behen? Your child knew half the truth, he was seeking his real father but only you did not tell him the truth you also lied to him that his real father wants his custody while the real father wanted co-parenting and it was your grandfather who opened the case?

Also the hypocrisy of everyone and supposedly a law student (Akshara) is they thought court would not look for finance condition, her forging birth certificate, Abhir's health history.

But eh biggest hypocrisy of AKSHARA SHARMA is wanting Abhimanyu to fight for her while she fight AGAINST HIM. The thinking of her that he should give up on his son, his father's right because she has already changed the father and snatched his rights, so Abhimanyu should compile to what she has done.

Waise on a side note- Abhir until now has been unaware of his real father, he has never lived with him, knows him and how he is... so his attachment to his parents is right but it should not be the reason for Abhimanyu not fighting for his son kyunki abhi tak toh Abhimanyu ko ek pita ka darja mila hi nahi, ussey apne bete par jaan nyochawar karne ka mauka mila hi nahi... ussey laad se bada nahi kiya.

@bold: BANG ON summary of this situation. Just imagine the level of JUVENILE mind it takes to think this way😆

You are fighting to STRIP a father of his rights and still you want him to support YOU against HIMSELF😆.....you never even gave him bare minimum regard as a father and even now you act like you will THROW UP over having to admit he is the FATHER of Abhir.....THAT is the man that you want should STILL support YOU and your goals in life😆

He is still so gracious that he HAS supported in you every way even when you have been fighting against him....your joke of a law exam also HE helped you give so that you can fight against him and THIS is how you repay him?

Akshara has ENSURED that things escalate to this point by NEVER giving Abhi acknowledgement as a father and now when all he's done is STAND his ground in refusing to be erased as a father, he is supposedly the villain.....lol

Actually Abhi should just own the title.....brain dead people like Sharmas and Goenkas will anyways never comprehend basic things in life😆

DT Note:

Kindly discuss without mocking characters or making personal attacks on any individual or fandom. Maintain IF COC if you want to continue discussing.

– YRKKH DT