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Posted: 2 years ago
#21

Though I am not at all a fan of Abhim’s character, I don’t personally think he is at Harsh’s level. Abhim is toxic, controlling, 0 accountability, mumma’s boy kind of person, but comparing him with Harsh is a bit too much to say, considering how much of an abuser Harsh was to both Manjari and Neil. Abhim’s actions did lead to mental abuse for Ak, but it can always be argued that he was not himself and was lost in grief. Definitely does not justify his actions, but does give a reason to the same. What I dislike about Abhim is his attitude later on, he let the others in his family believe that Ak left him instead of telling them the truth of how he mistreated her and divorced. It all came to light when Ak-Manjari confrontation happened (the thali bajao confrontation), but until then Abhim let them believe it was Ak. I do understand that white day he impulsively acted and made bad decisions but what I hate is he never thought about her post that, even once, on how she must be all alone, if she would be okay or not, etc, for 6 months he did not care, to where was the marne mitne wala love then that he claimed to have for Ak. My problem with Abhim is him repeating the same mistakes and not learning from them, be it his lack of trust, his impulsive nature, his anger and his cowardice in calling out his mother’s wrong actions. His love for Ak too was not for Ak, but for someone whom he thought to be his mom’s replica, and when he saw that there is difference he became controlling and started forcing his decisions on the supposed love. All of this is true, but that does not mean I can be compare with Harsh who was a legit abuser. Harsh never loved Manjari. Though Abhim’s anger and arrogance are similar to Harsh, he is still not like Harsh.

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Posted: 2 years ago
#22

Originally posted by: India_TV

abhi is a doctor...and that is his profession...

during the khera time, abhi ne akshu ko divorse papers bhijwa diye the...still for abhi ki mamma akshu came to birla house to stay with abhi for manjari...This is called selflessness!!!!


abhi apna profession nibha raha tha...

jiske liye bhi uski mamma ko problems thi...😂

he gave her 24hrs time to prove Kairav's innocence. Thab akshara ne kya kiya ?

Evidence ko carelessly rakh ke gayi. Woh toh kaafi akal mandh thi hai na.

Agar ek saal koi bhi kisi ko bina bole gayab hojatha hai toh trust toot hi jaatha hai.

2 leap main dono ki galthi thi. Abhi apne behan ke liye lad raha tha. Akshu apne bhai ke liye.

Abhi ko jab patha chala akshu be uske liye sacrifice kiya toh woh khud gaya tha kairav ko innocent prove karne woh bhi media ke saamne.

Usko bhi toh appreciate karo. 🙃

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Posted: 2 years ago
#23

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

he gave her 24hrs time to prove Kairav's innocence. Thab akshara ne kya kiya ?

Evidence ko carelessly rakh ke gayi. Woh toh kaafi akal mandh thi hai na.

Agar ek saal koi bhi kisi ko bina bole gayab hojatha hai toh trust toot hi jaatha hai.

2 leap main dono ki galthi thi. Abhi apne behan ke liye lad raha tha. Akshu apne bhai ke liye.

Abhi ko jab patha chala akshu be uske liye sacrifice kiya toh woh khud gaya tha kairav ko innocent prove karne woh bhi media ke saamne.

Usko bhi toh appreciate karo. 🙃

abhi ke pyaar and trust ki baat hi alag hai...😂 bina saboot he can not believe...😂🤣🤣

akshu ne phir bhi uski mamma ke liye sab kiya....

aapne jo abhi ke doc hone per abhir ki surgery ki baat ki thi, maine uske baare mein likha tha....but u reminded me of abhi ke saboot hone per hi believe karne ki baat!!😂

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Posted: 2 years ago
#24

Originally posted by: India_TV

abhi ke pyaar and trust ki baat hi alag hai...😂 bina saboot he can not believe...😂🤣🤣

akshu ne phir bhi uski mamma ke liye sab kiya....

aapne jo abhi ke doc hone per abhir ki surgery ki baat ki thi, maine uske baare mein likha tha....but u reminded me of abhi ke saboot hone per hi believe karne ki baat!!😂

arre maine kaha na yaha par baath abhi ki ho rahi hai. Maine example diya tha ki jaise log abhi ko villain sabith karne main lage pade hai abhi villain hai nahi. Villain acche kaam nahi kartha.

Aur abhi ne bhi toh akshu ko maaf kardiya. Uski mamma ko hi mardethi uski behan aur woh jaankar bhi chup thi. Usne baadh main bathaya i appreciate her. Lekin kuch log abhi ko appreciate karne ke bajaye sirf uska bure kaam hi ginane main lage pade hai.

😂

Edited by firewings_diya - 2 years ago
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Posted: 2 years ago
#25

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

arre maine kaha na yaha par baath abhi ki ho rahi hai. Maine example diya tha ki jaise log abhi ko villain sabith karne main lage pade hai abhi villain hai nahi. Villain acche kaam nahi kartha.

Aur abhi ne bhi toh akshu ko maaf kardiya. Uski mamma ko hi mardethi uski behan aur woh jaankar bhi chup thi. Usne baadh main bathaya i appreciate her. Lekin kuch log abhi ko appreciate karne ke bajaye sirf uska bure kaam hi ginane main lage pade hai.

😂

ab abhi ke bure kaam hain hi itne zyada and bade bade ki kya karen??🤣

ab dekho aap ne kaun si baat exapmle ke liye di......abhi ne akshu ko maaf kar diya?? akshi ki sis ne accodent kiya tha...and fir bhi akshu ne abhi ko bata diya tha...

abhi ki dariya dili dekho..usne maaf kar diya and bas apni mamma ke kahne per hi shaadi ki usse us waqt....kya pyaar hai??😂mamma ne kaha and bete ne kar liya...😂


waise aap kahin ki baat kahin le jaate ho....baat abhhi ke doc hone per bhi akhu ke bete ki surgery se shuru hui thi...and I gave u the example ki akshu neabhi ki mamma ke help ki thi....uska prefession nahi tha fir bhi...😂🤣


Abhi, aajkal villain hi lagta hai show mein...😂 waiting ki uska redemption dikhayen makers....😂

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: India_TV

ab abhi ke bure kaam hain hi itne zyada and bade bade ki kya karen??🤣

ab dekho aap ne kaun si baat exapmle ke liye di......abhi ne akshu ko maaf kar diya?? akshi ki sis ne accodent kiya tha...and fir bhi akshu ne abhi ko bata diya tha...

abhi ki dariya dili dekho..usne maaf kar diya and bas apni mamma ke kahne per hi shaadi ki usse us waqt....kya pyaar hai??😂mamma ne kaha and bete ne kar liya...😂


waise aap kahin ki baat kahin le jaate ho....baat abhhi ke doc hone per bhi akhu ke bete ki surgery se shuru hui thi...and I gave u the example ki akshu neabhi ki mamma ke help ki thi....uska prefession nahi tha fir bhi...😂🤣


Abhi, aajkal villain hi lagta hai show mein...😂 waiting ki uska redemption dikhayen makers....😂


Yaha par comparison hb and ab ka ho raha hai. Agar aapko abhi nahi pasand toh theek hai.

Tbh abhi is the only person who is making sense to me atleast 😂 aapko toh villain hi lagega. Akshu ko chodkar sirf apne bete par focus jo kar raha hai. Mujhe toh accha lag raha hai as he is doing what he should do.

But you are free to disagree. 😄 chalo bye. Mujhe kaam hai.

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Posted: 2 years ago
#27

Originally posted by: firewings_diya


Yaha par comparison hb and ab ka ho raha hai. Agar aapko abhi nahi pasand toh theek hai.

Tbh abhi is the only person who is making sense to me atleast 😂 aapko toh villain hi lagega. Akshu ko chodkar sirf apne bete par focus jo kar raha hai. Mujhe toh accha lag raha hai as he is doing what he should do.

But you are free to disagree. 😄 chalo bye. Mujhe kaam hai.

🤣🤣🤣🤣Yaar mandir mein jab propose kiya tha na usne married akshu ko....mujhe zyada bada villain laga tha...😂

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: India_TV

🤣🤣🤣🤣Yaar mandir mein jab propose kiya tha na usne married akshu ko....mujhe zyada bada villain laga tha...😂

maine kaha na aapko laga hoga mujhe nahi. Mujhe bas ye laga ki jab akshu paro ban kar bhagi toh usse realize hua 4 zindagiyan barbad karne se accha save karthe hai.

Usne sirf poocha usse aur usne mana kar diya bas.

Ab agar kal phir akshu ke pass bhagegi toh thab aapke post ka wait karungi iss ummed se ke aap abhi ko praise karenge ki akshu ki ye harkatein uske kaafi pehle hi soong liya tha 😂

Agar nahi hua toh waise bhi main yaha nahi aungi 😂

Posted: 2 years ago
#29

Originally posted by: Sushma_Reddy


So all he standing up for Akshara against Arohi is of no sense then when he too did the same like Arohi to Akshara.

My question is why would Akshara to be blamed in the first place ? Does he think she killed Neil or she wanted him to be dead? Even about the kids , don't he think she will also be in same pain? If only he loved her.


Harsh who married against his will and Abhimanyu who married his love but failed to respect and understand their partner


I have never said what Abhi did on white day was correct. But you really can't say a character's entire story is corrupted by one day and now we must view all of his actions through the lens of that one day. Ak being blamed or not has been discussed in this forum countless times. I don;t really think she should have been blamed, but understand why Abhi blamed her. He was insensitive and he was only thinking about himself and his family. He never considered Ak to be his family - all points raised in the show and all points I agree with.


But NONE of this, makes Abhi come even close to Harsh. The fact that it happens is just as absurd as saying Ak is like Manjari. If you are forgetting most of the character development and only looking at surface-level stuff, then what is the point of the whole story?




Posted: 2 years ago
#30

Originally posted by: India_TV

Abhi loved akshu's music, yes....he sypported her music..yes....and that was mainlt because harsh did not support manjari's musuic...he is inflused by his mom and that can be seen clearly....

abhi did not want akshu to interefer in HIS family matters....to bhai shaadi kyun ki?? agar akshu ko family ka part nahi banana??? he just wanted akshu to listen to him...jab tak woh karti thi tab tak sahi tha....warna....v have seen manjari harsh anniversary i/ divorse...neil ka adpotuion truth...sab gavah hai.....He just did not treat her as a family!!! and did not want her to interfere in his family matters...

mentally emotionally blaming her for murders is DV...yes...IMO, only hitting and pushing is not DV...for me, this mental torture is a worse wersion of DV...and abhi did that on the white day....

ABhi kept quiet when arohi openly told him that she is going to prioritise ruhi over abhi...he did not question her on that...how can he file for custody and marry arohi who openly does not support this custody...abhit koi toy nahi...hansta khelta baby hai....kaun sa accha father aise baat sun kar vhup rahega???


Music stuff I have already discussed. I don't think he only supported Ak's music cause Harsh didn't support Manjari's music. I think if Ak liked Art for example and gave art therapy, Abhi would have supported that too. Literally, anything Ak did or wanted to do, he would have supported. Right now, he is supporting her in becoming a lawyer just to fight him. He is proud of her in whatever she chooses to pursue.


The parallels between Ak and Manjari were intentional from the beginning, but that doesn't mean Abhi loves Ak just cause she is like his mom. Infact, he particularly loves her when she is not being submissive and protecting her loved ones.


Family matters; I agree that Abhi should have given more space to Ak with his family. But please try to understand Ak married into that family and immediately wanted to start changing things. That is not okay. This happens in every ITV show, and I have no idea why the FL expects to just solve family issues without understanding where they stem from or their history. Abhi knew his family, and Ak should have consulted him before doing anything for them especially knowing how volatile everyone is. I myself never interfere in my in-law's matters or my in-laws and my husband's relationship. It's just not done. Maybe after a few years of living in that household and understanding the dynamics, you can slowly influence. But at that stage, it's just stupid, and Abhi calling her out on that is valid.


Again you can't call everything DV. I understand that mental torture is part of DV; there is no need to educate me. But what he did isn't mental torture. I have no energy left to educate, so believe what you want. Mental torture is extended and systematic. Lashing out at someone due to anger is not mental torture unless it happens very often and is followed by apologies and promises to keep the other person trapped. What Harsh did to Manjari is mental torture.


The last point, Abhi is still figuring stuff out. He is not and has never planned to take Abhir away from his family.

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