Abhimanyu Birla Vs Harsh Birla

I am not aware of Harsh birla character completely but what I have seen in tweets and posts in recent days , he is abuser of Manjari...was he good with Abimanyu? If he is good with his son Abhimanyu then how Abhimanyu and Harsh are different? Both have wronged their partner. They might love their kids but domestic violence is a crime. What Abhimanyu did to Akshara is no where acceptable. What makes Abhimanyu a good father or a good human when he possess same/some qualities of Harsh.

Abhimanyu might have loved Akshara

Abhimanyu might have supported Akshara...but these will not give rights for him to take her for granted or to treat her the way he likes..If he really loves her ,he should understand her...he should respect her....A love without understanding and respect doesn't make any sense

Except the reason Abhimanyu Biral was/is a lead character would be meaningful to defend him.

He was an abusive husband but always loved his son and craved for his love even when AbM used to hate n taunt him every day. Mj never tried to mend their relationship either. She always used AbM as her guard to safe guard from Harsh and that made their relation more worst.

I don’t understand why some ppl think Abhir should not treat AbM the same way he treated Harsh? AbM is not an abuser like Harsh but he did abuse Ak mentally and kicked her out at her lowest point when she needed his support n care the most. Neil’s death was an accident and can happen to anyone. It happened with Abhir too which led to an emergency surgery. As Ak said if Neil is in her place and Ak died would he kick Neil out of the house?

Abhir should know the whole truth from Neil’s death to how his father mentally abused ,screamed and acted like a maniac threw things and kicked his mother out of the house. He should start calling himSir. At least then this guy might realise how wrong he was n show some guilt.

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I got so happy when I saw a thread for Harsh 😭

Originally posted by: Sushma_Reddy

I am not aware of Harsh birla character completely but what I have seen in tweets and posts in recent days , he is abuser of Manjari...was he good with Abimanyu? If he is good with his son Abhimanyu then how Abhimanyu and Harsh are different? Both have wronged their partner. They might love their kids but domestic violence is a crime. What Abhimanyu did to Akshara is no where acceptable. What makes Abhimanyu a good father or a good human when he possess same/some qualities of Harsh.

Abhimanyu might have loved Akshara

Abhimanyu might have supported Akshara...but these will not give rights for him to take her for granted or to treat her the way he likes..If he really loves her ,he should understand her...he should respect her....A love without understanding and respect doesn't make any sense

Except the reason Abhimanyu Biral was/is a lead character would be meaningful to defend him.

I find this reason even more against abhi, if I compare him with harsh...harsh and manjari ki, i belive was arranged marriage and harsh was not happy to be wth manjarii...it was sort of forced for him....

and abhi, who claimed to love akshu, threw her out at her lowest and still has not realised his mitake and said a simple sorry to her!!!

to me it looked like backstabbing her with Seerat ma's thing...he knew she was guit ridde with that dur to arohi...and he used that against her that day....

regarding a good father...

what has abhi done since he has known that abhr is his son? sirf haq and custody battle chod kar???

He knows where abhir was born, uss doctor ko bhi jaanta hai...as a father, he has lost 6 years of abhir's life....use laga nahi ki atelast he should see where abhir ne pehli baar aankhen kholi...aisa kuch nahi dikha abhi ki taraf se....just HAQ chahiye use???

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Originally posted by: TheCriticiser

I got so happy when I saw a thread for Harsh 😭

i miss the akshu akshu akshu akshu akshu akshu.....😂 abhi se zyada karsh akshu ka naam leta hai.....kitna chidhta tha...😂

and also the harshu akshu bhang wali holi....😂

Originally posted by: Chaitu.V

He was an abusive husband but always loved his son and craved for his love even when AbM used to hate n taunt him every day. Mj never tried to mend their relationship either. She always used AbM as her guard to safe guard from Harsh and that made their relation more worst.

I don’t understand why some ppl think Abhir should not treat AbM the same way he treated Harsh? AbM is not an abuser like Harsh but he did abuse Ak mentally and kicked her out at her lowest point and when she needed his support n care the most. Neil’s death was an accident and can happen to anyone. It happened with Abhir too which led to emergency surgery. As Ak said if Neil is in her place and Ak died would he kick Neil out of the house?

Abhir should know the whole truth from Neil’s death to how his father mentally abused ,screamed and acted
Like a maniac threw the things and kicked his mother out of the house. He should start calling hi Sir. At least then this guy might realise how wrong he was n show some guilt.

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I m hoping he will....abhir should get these genes from abhi....abhir apni mamma and biological father ko waise hi treat kare jaise uske papa abhi karte hain...😂

Abhimanyu and Harsh be beech mein main difference... From what I have heard Harsh never put Neil on best son tag when he learnt he is his khoon too... 😆how was he a good father? Abhimanyu is the besshhtt daddy for saving Abhir (which btw was also part of his profession)... And he is ready to fight for his Haqq after knowing he is his khoon!

Manjiri and Akshara are also same! But Manjiri ki futi kismat ki Harsh ne usse divorce na dekar lifetime to give her an opportunity to find her Abhinav but Abhimanyu is a nicer husband in that way, you see...

Originally posted by: India_TV

I find this reason even more against abhi, if I compare him with harsh...harsh and manjari ki, i belive was arranged marriage and harsh was not happy to be wth manjarii...it was sort of forced for him....

and abhi, who claimed to love akshu, threw her out at her lowest and still has not realised his mitake and said a simple sorry to her!!!

to me it looked like backstabbing her with Seerat ma's thing...he knew she was guit ridde with that dur to arohi...and he used that against her that day....

regarding a good father...

what has abhi done since he has known that abhr is his son? sirf haq and custody battle chod kar???

He knows where abhir was born, uss doctor ko bhi jaanta hai...as a father, he has lost 6 years of abhir's life....use laga nahi ki atelast he should see where abhir ne pehli baar aankhen kholi...aisa kuch nahi dikha abhi ki taraf se....just HAQ chahiye use???

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He supported Akshara against Arohi and using the same words against Akshara which arohi used to say

Originally posted by: Sushma_Reddy

I am not aware of Harsh birla character completely but what I have seen in tweets and posts in recent days , he is abuser of Manjari...was he good with Abimanyu? If he is good with his son Abhimanyu then how Abhimanyu and Harsh are different? Both have wronged their partner. They might love their kids but domestic violence is a crime. What Abhimanyu did to Akshara is no where acceptable. What makes Abhimanyu a good father or a good human when he possess same/some qualities of Harsh.

Abhimanyu might have loved Akshara

Abhimanyu might have supported Akshara...but these will not give rights for him to take her for granted or to treat her the way he likes..If he really loves her ,he should understand her...he should respect her....A love without understanding and respect doesn't make any sense

Except the reason Abhimanyu Biral was/is a lead character would be meaningful to defend him.

Nothing

All due to kaand mata. She wanted Abhimanyu to keep hating on harsh so that she can be seen as bechari and keep manipulating and controlling her son

Originally posted by: Sushma_Reddy

I am not aware of Harsh birla character completely but what I have seen in tweets and posts in recent days , he is abuser of Manjari...was he good with Abimanyu? If he is good with his son Abhimanyu then how Abhimanyu and Harsh are different? Both have wronged their partner. They might love their kids but domestic violence is a crime. What Abhimanyu did to Akshara is no where acceptable. What makes Abhimanyu a good father or a good human when he possess same/some qualities of Harsh.

Abhimanyu might have loved Akshara

Abhimanyu might have supported Akshara...but these will not give rights for him to take her for granted or to treat her the way he likes..If he really loves her ,he should understand her...he should respect her....A love without understanding and respect doesn't make any sense

Except the reason Abhimanyu Biral was/is a lead character would be meaningful to defend him.

Abhi and Harsh were widely different. Both had a lot of anger, that is true, but to compare them is really stupid. Abhi loved Ak and supported her in most instances; he has also been angry with her and done extreme things in anger, and so has she.....but that's not abuse ( except for white day). The white day itself, there were a lot of reasons, and I don't want to discuss that again. But it's one day.

Harsh, on the other hand, tortured Manjari every single day. Infact, his every action was taken to torture her. He reduced her to a shadow of a person who lived only to serve others, and whenever she expressed any wishes, he trampled on them- to the extent that Manjari was literally surprised when Ak asked her what she likes to eat cause NO ONE had done that before. Harsh plain and simple hated Manjari ( we don't know the reason why ). He also had an affair, and Neil was his child. He was going to leave Manjari for the other woman when he learned that she was pregnant with Abhi, so decided to stay. Basically, their marriage or whatever was broken very early on, and he hated her and took revenge on her every single day. Abhi hated Harsh for his treatment of Manjari, but also for his treatment of everyone else. He repeatedly pointed out how Harsh has no respect for anyone else's feelings and doesn't care if he hurts anyone.

Abhi is extremely different, and I just can't understand why people keep comparing the two, even in the show. Abhi has done terrible things in anger - but he has never tried to insult or subjugate Ak. I think that if Abhi had not divorced Ak, and he continued to believe she killed his brother and their kids, he would have grown to hate her too. But I don't believe it would have resulted in him taunting her and trying to pull her down at every instance. He would have simply ended the relationship. So whether or not in his anger, I am glad the divorce happened. The issue is how it happened and what Abhi did after that ( not looking for Ak ).