Don't want abhira at any cost [DT NOTE PG 10] - Page 3

Originally posted by: mickeym

force is not physical every time ,, if we try emotionally to snatch somebody's love in terms of payback is also forcing ,, call it as emotional forcing , here chomu kar raha hai ,, when he said in his life he couldnt get anything since he spend years for akshu and abhir made her regretful ,, and now whatever akshu is doing is to cover that regret ,, yeh force nahi hai kya ??? the pathetic trick i must say ,, characterless chomu

Once again, use of word Chomu can be reported

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Originally posted by: Lostin90s

So a stalker starts thinking I have feelings for him (mind you I never confessed so how did he know, use your brain), starts chasing me around, on being ignored starts threatening to die by suicide, then what should I do oh great learned lady?

Do ignore akshara herself making googly eye at her supposed jija

Shouting i love you abhi from rooftops

Giving him flying hug in front of her whole ass family and soul sister arohi 😂😂😂😂

The moment he broke the wedding Ran into him, both fell into a hay and she did mock rituals with him

With stalker she got drunk and almost kiss

Yeah sure stalker with her she had grand wedding abhi ki akshu. With stalker she planned baby, planned her life, planner her career. Stalker who's life she wanted to fix, stalker ki ma with whom she wanted to make motherly bond.

Stalker yeah sure 😂😂😂

I mean yeah you can hate abhira and justify aknshnav but come on. Use some damn logic.

Lol, just to point this out :

Jay Soni: 36

Pranli: 26

Harshad: 40

But damn, Harshad looks 30. You can't convince me otherwise. In any case, the point is that both the actors are a lot older than Pranali. So if you have issues with age, then it is applicable to both characters. I, too, have an issue with age. I kind of wish they got a younger guy to play AA, someone sweet looking like her. And someone she had more in common with. Like a guy can be poor but still be educated, still have some kind of proper job and some other interests. Even if he is an orphan. I hate the scenes where Ak is speaking English or "fancy words," and Nav just can't connect. Even though Abhi was a doctor, Ak and Abhi were shown on equal footing, and there wasn't much explaining done by Abhi constantly.

Also, what is wrong as a girl in not falling in love with a good guy or being stuck on your toxic ex? Lots of girls are there. In my book, a guy that advertises himself as a "good guy" is an immediate red flag. With Nav, in particular, I see a lot of backward mentality as well, there is no intellectual similarity, no similarity in the background, etc. It's hard to "fall in love" with someone like that. Yes, he is an incredibly good guy, never forced her into anything she wasn't ready for, took care of her son as his own, etc. But can you really love someone you don't feel attracted to?

Besides, Abhi was never really gone for her. Moving on is done by ending things with your ex, having closure, healing, and then starting to date again. Ak didn't even get to the closure part until, I think, the first Udaipur trip. She is still in the healing stage with the singing coming back and stuff. So moving on will also happen. Organically, if Abhi never found out, Ak would have eventually been happy with Abhinav. There wouldn't be romance and passion, but she herself said she doesn't want it anymore. They would have had a nice life together, and even I am pissed with this pendulum effect.

With that Bollywood actors should retire 😆

Just tell me he threatened her by suicide or not and is it acceptable behaviour. Don’t need your long essay to understand just this simple matter. Yes or no?

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

So a stalker starts thinking I have feelings for him (mind you I never confessed so how did he know, use your brain), starts chasing me around, on being ignored starts threatening to die by suicide, then what should I do oh great learned lady?

yeh sab force lag raha hai thuje ...???

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

khudko satisfy kar rahe hai ki akshu was never in love with abhi she was forced. Akshu was very much in love with abhi. And we all know ab bhi bhage gi uske saath.

Nothing wrong with shipping different couple. But don't come with false narrative. Have you seen some set of people parroting same lines again and again. Wonder if it's one id or a gang 😂😂

Where did this narrative even come from? Stalker lmao really. Did we even watch the same serial? It was love at first sight for both of them until akshara did her sacrificing thing and felaod raita. Equating a stupid show like this to serious topic such as stalker. I don't wish that to anyone and people here using such words so lightly. Shameful

Originally posted by: Silveraliax

Neither do I. I pray Akshara stays away from Abhi.

Your reasoning are a little odd...

I mean if you are really upset about the age gap then shouldn't you be asking for a replacement of Jay Soni too? I didn't know he was 23, he looks same age as Harshad.

And this concept of marrying someone just because xyz is a nice human, is rather toxic. You should only marry if you have love for him. Currently, Akshara only has gratitude for Nav.

One thing we agree on is death of Abhira. Let's pray together to make sure they never return.

If she doesn't like Harshad age that's a subjective opinion. Recently some knowledgeable person gave gyaan that people's choices can't be questioned on a public forum.

@bold As per the show's narrative isn't the concept you suggested toxic. Bcos Ak had married for love right & on what note did it end!?

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

So a stalker starts thinking I have feelings for him (mind you I never confessed so how did he know, use your brain), starts chasing me around, on being ignored starts threatening to die by suicide, then what should I do oh great learned lady?

Yaar you guys make it sound so bad 😭😂

Lets not forget that Abhi never actually stalked her. Both used to bump into each other and then they started having phone conversations and then a rhista was made by Abhi. Rhista is sanskari way of asking the girl for her approval. And in between all this, both used to have their mini romances outside their cars and offices.

It's not like Abhi made it up from thin air that she has feelings for him.

Suicide was also not to force her but to wake her up from her Arohi jaap. This is not one of them cases where a guy knows the girl has no feelings for him yet he continues to harass her. This is a case where the man knew the girl has feelings for him and because of this, he is acting.

Only issue with Abhi is that he should have left Akshara alone and not become her voice. He thought he was doing right for her but never chase someone who cannot stand up for their own feelings.

Learn to talk decently oh great lady!