Abhinav a leech ? - Page 5

Whai purana ghisa pita rant 😴

Originally posted by: Grey-licious

Whai purana ghisa pita rant 😴

Originally posted by: cutepigs

That's the same as every mother saying your child when the kid does some mistake. Repeating that in front of Abhimanyu is just trying to rub salts. Abhimanyu at least says humara beta to him, he says mera beta to only Akshara.

Insecurity seems to be making Abhinav regard Abhir as a prize to win, which gets him Akshara too. Right now, Akshara is the one who wants support, even between Abhi and Akshara, she needs more support, she is the mother who is close to losing her son, Abhinav might have been with her in the journey and supported her, Abhi might be the father, but Akshara is still the one who needs maximum support.

He already have both Ak and Abhir with him he don’t have to win them again. He was ready to give up both after returning back from Udaipur and Ak was not ready and gave him hopes for being a forever family in many situations. Ak of course needs support more than anyone but men cannot be emotionally weak? They can be too because he never handled these type of situations before and he is scared of losing his son who is also his life in all this process. He is facing Gorillas ka drama for the 1time. So he needs support to as a father of the kid. AbM have support from all the Birla’s why can’t AbN

Similarly for Akshara her fear of losing her son is her greatest fear. She finally has someone who loves her unquestioningly and unconditionally. Abhimanyu behaved like that because of his childhood trauma. Kairav is the way he is because of his experience with Anisha. Goenkas are the way they are because that is all Akshara has shown them. All the characters have a reason for behaving the way they did. We do not excuse anyone for their behavior so why should I excuse Abhinav? Also Jai Soni is doing himself no favors by the over dramatic acting that has been happening

I also think some of our opinions or viewpoints are colored by personal experiences. I will never ask for sympathy and I hate crying in public so even at my lowest point my tears were in the privacy of my bathroom or in front of my husband. I do not even cry in front of my parents. But people in my life and most people with compassion understand that just because someone is not making a show of their grief and vulnerabilities does not mean they are unfeeling or are ok with the situation. The last few months we have only see Abhinav focus on his feelings. Just because Akshara is not making a whole production of her hurt, fear and insecurities does not mean she is OK

[/QUOTE you r free to think what ever u want but cannot judge someone on their personal levels just by reading a few posts on a public forum. Even I am a private person leave crying who doesn’t even like to discuss or want to share my personal problems however small they are with outsiders. But at the same time I cannot be rude and stone hearted to ppl who share their problems, everyone reacts differently to situations and I won’t judge them or tag to gain them as sympathy gainer .if they want to share their problems or need a shoulder to cry I understand they might be emotionally weak and looking for support and a shoulder to cry.

Ak is hurt and it’s shown ..why will a mother be not hurt on a thought of losing her son. She is showing her emotions too but at the same time she is trying to console AbN, here I find Ak more stronger than AbN emotionally!

My only problem with Abhinav is that he is far too perfect. There is no flaw to his character. The creators have made him so perfect that I as a human being can not relate to him. He has been plucked from the fairy tales and made a picture perfect person. He has not being given a proper balance except that he is made a poor person rather then a rich prince.

Originally posted by: AvantikaP

My only problem with Abhinav is that he is far too perfect. There is no flaw to his character. The creators have made him so perfect that I as a human being can not relate to him. He has been plucked from the fairy tales and made a picture perfect person. He has not being given a proper balance except that he is made a poor person rather then a rich prince

He is not perfect. They showed his weakness as well in last few weeks. I hope you didn't ignore that.

I'll tell you to report the posts if you see any kind of name calling. Let mods deal with it. Recently also they called out on name calling for Abhimanyu. Then it should be same for all characters right..

It is just waste of energy and time as no one will change their opinions. Instead your mental peace only will be disturbed. So just report them and move on..

If people would watch the show for the leads they can't accept the third wheel. That's why they just troll him everyday. It's not new.

When people can be justify propose someone else wife and can be troll a husband for holding his wife hand then what can you expect. Abhinav is leech because he is acting helpless now a days. Agree but no one is understanding his state of mind. He was publically humiliated for being poor & orphan. Who can take this? Can't he feel bad? Can't he act vulnerable at once. He supported AK without any relationship fir toh AK is now his wife.

Originally posted by: Priyrabha

If people would watch the show for the leads they can't accept the third wheel. That's why they just troll him everyday. It's not new.

When people can be justify propose someone else wife and can be troll a husband for holding his wife hand then what can you expect. Abhinav is leech because he is acting helpless now a days. Agree but no one is understanding his state of mind. He was publically humiliated for being poor & orphan. Who can take this? Can't he feel bad? Can't he act vulnerable at once. He supported AK without any relationship fir toh AK is now his wife.

He was acting helpless, he was shown weak but then also people here commenting that the problem with Abhinav that he is too perfect.

If he is not perfect then he is attention seeker.

So banda Kuch bhi karre its not acceptable and that is the hard truth we have to accept.

Originally posted by: PeacefulLove

He was acting helpless, he was shown weak but then also people here commenting that the problem with Abhinav that he is too perfect.

If he is not perfect then he is attention seeker.

So banda Kuch bhi karre its not acceptable and that is the hard truth we have to accept.

We can't change anyone POV. So yes Banda kuch bhi karega they will troll him for every single thing. Agar acha karega to he is AA, helpless hai to leech, bolega to kaise bol Diya inke devta ko, he can't laugh, cry, feel bad, love someone. Basically he should be just a statue. Jo kisi kone main pada rahe. Inko pata hai ki ek din abhira reunite honge fir bhi daily basis pe Abhinav ko pakad kar baith jayenge. If someone called them they will cry for we can't just share our POV.