Abhinav a leech ? - Page 6

Originally posted by: Noorain13

I think Nav is called out based on how his character is shaped and how he is a hurdle for Abhira to reunite. I wouldn't say I am big on ITV shows but I have watched some and those with leaps/separations can go on for months before a reunion and here we are talking about ye rishta so for people to complain about him being in the show for over 5 months doesn't make sense. There are times his ss is more than others and at times he's barely seen for the entire week. I am sure if he was shown as an abusive husband and Abhimanyu would come to save his soulmate, no would have an issue with him.

I do think he was not brought in for this long but audience have seemed to accepted him and thats the reason he's still here and trust me Akshnav will never be the end game, it will alway be Abhira but they will keep Nav in the story for as long as they can and once his purpose is over, they will prepare his exit. His exit is certainly not needed at this moment where Akshara will need his support.

Also, I've seen a lot of posts mentioning he came to gain sympathy and made it all about himself or that no one cared about Akshara but Manjari. All I saw was a helpless father and if he didn't act that way he'd be questioned as to not having any emotions for Abhir anymore lol. The episode was literally 20 mins people. How can we determine that in that timeframe? If they showed this for at least 4-5 episodes. we'd see everyone consoling one another but within that span, it was not possible. Those who are grateful to KM for consoling AK are out of my league. That woman cannot be redeemed with a hug especially if Abhir had fallen sick in Akshnav's presence, we'd see how she would have started calling them out. This 60 something year old woman called out Abhir's parents for being irresponsible and we are over here being grateful lol.

FYI, if Nav sees the hug, he will definitely try to leave and AK will stop him but then he will get called out for manipulation and what not whereas AK is the one who cant let him go. Lets just accept the FACTS instead of being delulu.

They just want to whitewash Mj with a hug that’s the reason yesterday no one is consoling Ak except her making her mahan Ma who accepted Ak. If the same mistake happened by Ak n Nav Ma beta would have send them behind bars by now and would not let them see Abhir again.

yes, he would definitely leave her to AbM if he sees their hug as he did in their 1st trip to Udaipur after temple confession. It is Ak who is giving him hopes for a forever happy family.

Originally posted by: Priyrabha

If people would watch the show for the leads they can't accept the third wheel. That's why they just troll him everyday. It's not new.

When people can be justify propose someone else wife and can be troll a husband for holding his wife hand then what can you expect. Abhinav is leech because he is acting helpless now a days. Agree but no one is understanding his state of mind. He was publically humiliated for being poor & orphan. Who can take this? Can't he feel bad? Can't he act vulnerable at once. He supported AK without any relationship fir toh AK is now his wife.

Originally posted by: Chaitu.V

. Nav is the 1st person who accepted AbM have equal rights on Abhir. He is always ready for co parenting until this soul couple started this custody drama.He always used to say our child to AbM where AbM used to mention him as his kid. Only when he thought that Abhir will be completely taken away by Mj and AbM he started saying my kid which anyone would do.

He already have both Ak and Abhir with him he don’t have to win them again. He was ready to give up both after returning back from Udaipur and Ak was not ready and gave him hopes for being a forever family in many situations. Ak of course needs support more than anyone but men cannot be emotionally weak? They can be too because he never handled these type of situations before and he is scared of losing his son who is also his life in all this process. He is facing Gorillas ka drama for the 1time. So he needs support to as a father of the kid. AbM have support from all the Birla’s why can’t AbN

I am not saying that a father can't feel pain or a man cannot be emotionally weak, but whoever wants to leave a good mother alone in such a situation and say the man is more emotionally weak, so support him, I cannot agree with that person, especially when here Goenkas are supposed to be Akshara's family. She can be married to God himself, but for them, she still needs to come first. For me, that's a simple maths.

Originally posted by: Nothingtosay

This is entirely my POV -

No body hated nav in the beginning, I think every one felt that there is atleast someone to help Ak during her complicated pregnancy and she has a friend in nav…then…….all hell broke loose, too much glorification that too constantly for 5mnths straight - esp after the UD trip 🙄 - every individual Abhira, AB & AK fan is bound to get upset - b’coz we all started and still continue to watch the show for them (we cannot switch sides just b’coz a character was introduced in the middle and glorified to no end, that’s not how it works - right!). These 5mnths we are looking to see AB repent wat he has done, AK to be a strong woman and mom - but wat we see is Nav this, that….they even downplayed akshara’s delivery - how is that fair to AK? Even yesterday why is everyone around Nav & consoling him when they should be next to AK? So are they purposely showing Nav is weak? It’s a crucial point in the story & wat I see BP feeding him juice - seriously 😒 do they all really not see wat AK is going thru??!!!

I know for sure Abhir is not going to accept AB as his dad that easily, it’s going to be a long process for AB - so there Nav as a father still stands tall….but it ends there. AK saying he should be my husband/father of my son (esp that particular scene) is just to rile AB, I think this b’coz he is not her husband in literal sense…but wants him to her hubby for next janams, make sense of that…🤔 she is indebted to Nav from which she doesn’t want to come out…and that’s exactly wat that dialogue of AB meant too, she is Mrs. Sharma now, not AK….

I don’t want Nav to die, but rather really understand AK (she letting him see her real feelings is another story 😓) and have graceful exit…

Again my POV - in this show both the leads have flaws, we started loving them in spite of that b’coz they balanced each other…that’s wat we are expecting to see again.. too goody character does not suit ITV, show becomes boring. Abhira and AB fan (yes, with toxicity and ALL the flaws 😀)

I think the word "glorified" is overly used by Abhira fans. It's overdone.

"we cannot switch sides just b’coz a character was introduced in the middle and glorified to no end, that’s not how it works - right!" Actually that's exactly how it works lol, people can and will 'switch sides' based on the story and what is being portrayed.

Originally posted by: cutepigs

I am not saying that a father can't feel pain or a man cannot be emotionally weak, but whoever wants to leave a good mother alone in such a situation and say the man is more emotionally weak, so support him, I cannot agree with that person, especially when here Goenkas are supposed to be Akshara's family. She can be married to God himself, but for them, she still needs to come first. For me, that's a simple maths.

Originally posted by: Nothingtosay

This is entirely my POV -

No body hated nav in the beginning, I think every one felt that there is atleast someone to help Ak during her complicated pregnancy and she has a friend in nav…then…….all hell broke loose, too much glorification that too constantly for 5mnths straight - esp after the UD trip 🙄 - every individual Abhira, AB & AK fan is bound to get upset - b’coz we all started and still continue to watch the show for them (we cannot switch sides just b’coz a character was introduced in the middle and glorified to no end, that’s not how it works - right!). These 5mnths we are looking to see AB repent wat he has done, AK to be a strong woman and mom - but wat we see is Nav this, that….they even downplayed akshara’s delivery - how is that fair to AK? Even yesterday why is everyone around Nav & consoling him when they should be next to AK? So are they purposely showing Nav is weak? It’s a crucial point in the story & wat I see BP feeding him juice - seriously 😒 do they all really not see wat AK is going thru??!!!

I know for sure Abhir is not going to accept AB as his dad that easily, it’s going to be a long process for AB - so there Nav as a father still stands tall….but it ends there. AK saying he should be my husband/father of my son (esp that particular scene) is just to rile AB, I think this b’coz he is not her husband in literal sense…but wants him to her hubby for next janams, make sense of that…🤔 she is indebted to Nav from which she doesn’t want to come out…and that’s exactly wat that dialogue of AB meant too, she is Mrs. Sharma now, not AK….

I don’t want Nav to die, but rather really understand AK (she letting him see her real feelings is another story 😓) and have graceful exit…

Again my POV - in this show both the leads have flaws, we started loving them in spite of that b’coz they balanced each other…that’s wat we are expecting to see again.. too goody character does not suit ITV, show becomes boring. Abhira and AB fan (yes, with toxicity and ALL the flaws 😀)

Originally posted by: Chaitu.V

Akshara is so I’ll fated to have a family like Goenka’s but how is that related to AbN, he cares for her and supports her when needed against Mj or Ar and now he is emotionally weak so she is supporting him which is very normal .In todays epi everyone just watching her singing for long he is the only one who went and got water for her and Kairav is worried too, from Goenka’s he is the only person who genuinely cares for Ak..but sometimes even he supports Ar over Ak.

My comment on Abhinav was yesterday, when he wasn't being strong for her or standing in support with her but rather separately from her..

Just because Abhir is Akshara's biological son she can be sad and worried... everyone needs to support her ..but just because Abhir is Abhinav's adopted son....he has no right to be sad and worried...no one needs to support him...

By the logic of few people no person in this world should adopt anyone bcoz if you adopt you can't have real feelings..only biological have real feelings

Leech is not Abhinav...the mindset of few people are the actual leech who wants a person to die by getting hit by a car ..

Originally posted by: cutepigs

My comment on Abhinav was yesterday, when he wasn't being strong for her or standing in support with her but rather separately from her..

We cant judge him with microscope for every small thing right. He is also a parent who is going through various emotions.Abhir is his life and is fighting with life. At this time also we are judging all his actions.

Then Akshara also should have hugged her husband instead of hugging a doctor in private. Abhimanyu in hospital room should have operated first instead of all emotional drama that happened before that. We can point at every single thing but all are going through their own emotions.

Just give him some space and accept characters as is. Even you will enjoy the show more.

Originally posted by: cutepigs

My comment on Abhinav was yesterday, when he wasn't being strong for her or standing in support with her but rather separately from her..