Abhinav a leech ?

May not be a popular opinion but am seeing many calling him a leech and some wants him to see Abhira hug and hit by a vehicle and die.

Nav helped a stranger who was kicked out by her own family and he never ever took any advantage of her in these 6 yrs.. only after Ak asked him to be Abhir’s a father he accepted as he as an orphan and he knows the value of relationships .He always hesitated to even touch Ak before AbM proposed her in temple and she came and hugged him. Even when AbM asked him to leave his Akshu he said he will leave her if she loves AbM even 1%. After coming back to kasauli he asked Ak to leave him and go back to her family but she is the one who convinced him that she doesn’t want to go back she also decided to take their relationship to next level but that didn’t work because of Abhir’s health.

Recently Ak again said that if life gives her 100 chances she would choose Abhinav as her pathi. She feeds him and says Abhir is our son and we have to go back to our kasuali home.
Even now after all this he didn’t take advantage and hold her hand without her permission. He sold everything he have to save Abhir. So helping someone in need makes a person leech? Or am I missing something here? If Ak still loves her so called soul mate and giving false hopes just to keep Abhinav with her then she is the one who is at fault and not Abhinav.
He look insecure recently as the thought of losing his son who is more than his life is killing him from inside and breaking him totally and he looks emotionally weak compared to Ak.
“ Be Good but not too good the world will not let you Live “

I am one of the ones who called him a leech. He was good earlier and he did help Akshara and adopted Abhir, but the way his character has been since they came to Udaipur the first time is appalling. Yesterday he made a scene and made sure he got all the sympathy. Which different people react different ways fine, but he has managed to make everything all about himself. I dont mean he is a leech in the sense that he is sucking resources, I honestly do not care about stuff like that because if a daughter in law can use family resources so can a son-in-law. My issue is he is a totally non-supportive husband who is very very quick to take credit and does not hesitate to throw his wife under the bus so that he stays good in everyone's eyes. I do not have an issue with the hand holding or asking for support but does he ever reciprocate? What I have an issue with is how he screams my son my son each time. Even yesterday his request to Abhimanyu was to save "his" son and then "Abhimanyu's" son since Abhinav cannot live without Abhir!! When Akshara was screaming at Abhimanyu she said that "they (Abhinav and Akshara)" sent "their son" to Abhimanyu's. See the difference???It was heartbreaking to watch Akshara all alone and see the rest of the idiots get comforted or comfort one another. The only person who came to comfort her was someone who hates Akshara (Manjari) and possibly her ex-husband. Not even once did this sensitive, selfless man check Akshara to see how she was doing. If it were a partnership he would be standing hand in hand with his wife. He has become increasingly insecure and selfish. Your view may be different than mine

Abhinav gets insulted on a daily basis from the very day he entered the show. I've lost count of the names he's been called by some fans. He protected AK and Abhir, saved their lives, sacrificed his business for someone else's child , sold his cars , transferred his house to AK's name, humiliated for being an orphan and his financial status, what more do he have to give? His Life? For reuniting soulmates? Let him go. Let him see that hug and hand over divorce papers to AK gracefully without any arguments or screaming . He was even willing to let her go but AK gave him hopes . AK should make it clear whether she wants to go back to BH or not. Leech is not Abhinav it's AK. She will leach out everything from that man and leave him in despair .

This is entirely my POV -

No body hated nav in the beginning, I think every one felt that there is atleast someone to help Ak during her complicated pregnancy and she has a friend in nav…then…….all hell broke loose, too much glorification that too constantly for 5mnths straight - esp after the UD trip 🙄 - every individual Abhira, AB & AK fan is bound to get upset - b’coz we all started and still continue to watch the show for them (we cannot switch sides just b’coz a character was introduced in the middle and glorified to no end, that’s not how it works - right!). These 5mnths we are looking to see AB repent wat he has done, AK to be a strong woman and mom - but wat we see is Nav this, that….they even downplayed akshara’s delivery - how is that fair to AK? Even yesterday why is everyone around Nav & consoling him when they should be next to AK? So are they purposely showing Nav is weak? It’s a crucial point in the story & wat I see BP feeding him juice - seriously 😒 do they all really not see wat AK is going thru??!!!

I know for sure Abhir is not going to accept AB as his dad that easily, it’s going to be a long process for AB - so there Nav as a father still stands tall….but it ends there. AK saying he should be my husband/father of my son (esp that particular scene) is just to rile AB, I think this b’coz he is not her husband in literal sense…but wants him to her hubby for next janams, make sense of that…🤔 she is indebted to Nav from which she doesn’t want to come out…and that’s exactly wat that dialogue of AB meant too, she is Mrs. Sharma now, not AK….

I don’t want Nav to die, but rather really understand AK (she letting him see her real feelings is another story 😓) and have graceful exit…

Again my POV - in this show both the leads have flaws, we started loving them in spite of that b’coz they balanced each other…that’s wat we are expecting to see again.. too goody character does not suit ITV, show becomes boring. Abhira and AB fan (yes, with toxicity and ALL the flaws 😀)

Kab tak aakhir kab tak wahi pura gana hai gaakar Nav ko praise karte rahenge? Pahle wo Akshu ko help karta tha lekin abhi kuch weeks se wo ek dam bekar ho gaya hai, jab help Kiya tha to sabne praise Kiya na ab jab bojh ban gaya hai to bhi iski arti utare kya?

Abhira fans logic: a family member is good until they are capable enough to fulfil your needs, the moment they loose their capability, they become a burden and should be insulted and called names on daily basis. Slow 👏 👏

It’s not for nothing i call out such ppl as sadist.

Originally posted by: Lavender25

Abhinav gets insulted on a daily basis from the very day he entered the show. I've lost count of the names he's been called by some fans. He protected AK and Abhir, saved their lives, sacrificed his business for someone else's child , sold his cars , transferred his house to AK's name, humiliated for being an orphan and his financial status, what more do he have to give? His Life? For reuniting soulmates? Let him go. Let him see that hug and hand over divorce papers to AK gracefully without any arguments or screaming . He was even willing to let her go but AK gave him hopes . AK should make it clear whether she wants to go back to BH or not. Leech is not Abhinav it's AK. She will leach out everything from that man and leave him in despair .

I judge characters on how they are behaving in that moment not what they did in the past. Abhimanyu loved Akshara and even supported Akshara several times in the past. Do we all forgive his sins because he was good in the past? No. Similarly yes what Abhinav did was good but its not like Akshara did not do anything for him. She supported him and helped him grow as an individual, they made a good team in Kasauli but since they have come back he has been a baby. Maybe emotionally he is not equipped to deal with the hand that life has dealt them but he has not been a good husband. Akshara is always quick to defend him and always refers to Abhir as their son. This man has thrown Akshara under the bus and always refers to Abhir as his son or even Abhimanyu's son, never Akshara's son

He always stood up for Ak as a responsible husband if it is against Mj or Ar or anyone else who disrespected Ak when she visited Udaipur 1st time .But now as u said he is insecure , yes agree on that he is scared on thought of losing Abhir. He is an orphan who have an empty photo frames before Ak n Abhir came into his life.so he don’t want to lose them as Ak also giving him hopes.I think it’s between AbM and AbN who r competing for papa’s status. Ak don’t have to prove to anyone as she is Abhir’s mother and she have all the rights on him. Everyone will have their lowest points and this is his he is not able to handle the situation right now so it’s Ak’s turn to motivate and support him like any wife does.A few days back she also declared after her only AbN have the rights on Abhir. Yesterday not for attention but he is ready to give up Abhir too for the sake of his health like he sold his source of income for Abhir then he is not proving or gaining attention from anyone . I felt the same today too. He was always like that. Yes we can have different views and can agree to disagree

Originally posted by: Chaitu.V

He always stood up for Ak as a responsible husband if it is against Mj or Ar or anyone else who disrespected Ak when she visited Udaipur 1st time .But now as u said he is insecure , yes agree on that he is scared on thought of losing Abhir. He is an orphan who have an empty photo frames before Ak n Abhir came into his life.so he don’t want to lose them as Ak also giving him hopes.I think it’s between AbM and AbN who r competing for papa’s status. Ak don’t have to prove to anyone as she is Abhir’s mother and she have all the rights on him. Everyone will have their lowest points and this is his he is not able to handle the situation right now so it’s Ak’s turn to motivate and support him like any wife does.A few days back she also declared after her only AbN have the rights on Abhir. Yesterday not for attention but he is ready to give up Abhir too for the sake of his health like he sold his source of income for Abhir then he is not proving or gaining attention from anyone . I felt the same today too. He was always like that. Yes we can have different views and can agree to disagree

As I have said earlier I only judge characters on how I see them behaving currently. In the past Abhimanyu, Manjari all of them were good. I am only judging on current actions. I dont care if he is insecure because he is an orphan. Guess what, Akshara is an orphan too! Akshara's family has treated Abhinav a lot better than they have treated Akshara. In fact even Abhimanyu treats him with a lot more respect than he treats Akshara. He had bade papa, Kairav even Anand comfort him and yet this man could not even be bothered to look for his wife and lend a comforting shoulder to her. Yes husband and wives take turns being strong but when it comes to an actual storm especially involving their child they are always there for each other. Do you or does anyone think that the situation is easy for Akshara? He wants everyone to be motivating him all the time since the last couple of months. I am sorry I am not sympathetic. I am someone who does not wallow in my miseries and I have very little patience for people who do it and play the victim nonstop. Which is why I was rather disgusted with how Abhimanyu behaved after the leap and have no sympathy or patience for Abhinav. The way I see it Abhinav is playing victim and enjoying because he gets the attention that he never got from family earlier

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

Abhira fans logic: a family member is good until they are capable enough to fulfil your needs, the moment they loose their capability, they become a burden and should be insulted and called names on daily basis. Slow 👏 👏

It’s not for nothing i call out such ppl as sadist.

TV wala koi bhi hamara family member nahi hai, itna to samaj hona hi chahiye ki TV Wale real family se compare nahi ho sakte 🤪

Dusron ko sadistic aur kya kya bol do khud ko ye Tak pata nahi ki TV wala Nav sirf ek drama mein character hai