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Posted: 2 years ago
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When Ak met Nav, she was emotionally a mess, grieving and pregnant. Nav helped her during her most difficult time, which was a selfless act.


However when Ak asked him to be “father ji” and he agreed, wasn’t he exploiting an emotional vulnerable woman for his own selfish need of having a child?


He has been a good father to Abhir, but has he been a good friend to Ak for last 6 years - I say friend because they have been in friend zone in spite of being married. He didn’t even know anything about her until Abhi came along. I agree he kept his side of the deal and maintained distance (even emotionally and didn’t pry in her life) - but is that being a good friend - let alone good husband?


In the hospital, right after child birth when Ak asked him to be “father ji”, a decent person should have realised that Ak has had a traumatic experience (even though he didn’t know what but here is a lady with complicated pregnancy who isn’t ready to go back to her family), gone through a difficult pregnancy/delivery and possibly isn’t thinking clearly enough. He could have continued to support her as a friend but by saying yes he trapped her in a decision she made at her most vulnerable time.


Ak was under trauma, but wasn’t Nav’s decision of agreeing to the alliance selfish? So is he really Acha Aadmi?

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Are you for real? If he used vulnerability of Akshara to force her into relationship then only you could cast doubt on his integrity.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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I am not saying he forced her but he definitely was selfish in saying yes to the marriage at that time.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Who is not selfish in this world!

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Right now i just want to say "Throw the logics into dustbin" 😆

Even she just needed a father for her child they could have made him to say i will become father you need not marry me for that. Take your time and marry me once you are comfortable. School main thodi na marriage certificate mangthe hai😆

Posted: 2 years ago
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Yes. Abhinav is a good friend, a good husband, and a great father

For six long years, he had fulfilled every responsibility of a friend, husband, and father. In return never expected anything. Never exerted his rights on Akshara.

They were married on paper only. It's not like Ashkara wanted to leave and he prevented it.

So, How exactly did he trap her?

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: DotDash

When Ak met Nav, she was emotionally a mess, grieving and pregnant. Nav helped her during her most difficult time, which was a selfless act.


However when Ak asked him to be “father ji” and he agreed, wasn’t he exploiting an emotional vulnerable woman for his own selfish need of having a child?


He has been a good father to Abhir, but has he been a good friend to Ak for last 6 years - I say friend because they have been in friend zone in spite of being married. He didn’t even know anything about her until Abhi came along. I agree he kept his side of the deal and maintained distance (even emotionally and didn’t pry in her life) - but is that being a good friend - let alone good husband?


In the hospital, right after child birth when Ak asked him to be “father ji”, a decent person should have realised that Ak has had a traumatic experience (even though he didn’t know what but here is a lady with complicated pregnancy who isn’t ready to go back to her family), gone through a difficult pregnancy/delivery and possibly isn’t thinking clearly enough. He could have continued to support her as a friend but by saying yes he trapped her in a decision she made at her most vulnerable time.


Ak was under trauma, but wasn’t Nav’s decision of agreeing to the alliance selfish? So is he really Acha Aadmi?

Anyone except abhimanyu and akshara are selfish person whatever they do good or bad is selfish act


Abhira fankids logic🤣🤣

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Posted: 2 years ago
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To become real acha aadmi,abhinav must have left akshu on bus only,he must had let her die instead of taking her to hospital, he must had blame her for killing people,he must had throw her out in mid night ,he must had blame her earthquake, tsunami,global warming and what not.He must not had given healthy environment to abhir and akshu.

I guess you are right,he is really not acha aadmi.And now to become real acha aadmi for shippers -either he have to die or turn psycho or just sacrifice akshu and abhir for poor abhimanyu.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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I dun understand this. Why should he continue to be only friends to akshu post the child birth ?😕

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Please count your Abhimanyu mistake.

"When we can't defend ourselves then we start blame others"

Yes he is selfish because he wanted a family. But never expected in return. Even he didn't open his heart to AK. He was ready to let her go if she wants to go. You see how selfish he is? He took a pregnant woman to the hospital without caring anything that time also he was selfish.

Can you please find another excuse?

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