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Does Arohi deserve the humiliation of being jilted at her wedding?

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Peace out peeps not cuz other party is wrong n we are right or others are right n we are wrong. Lets just be happy with our set of thought processes, cuz no amount of explanation will suffice us or you. But I'm happy unlike other polls, ppl still keep diversity in thoughts here, the poll result itself are the proof. 🤗

So lets take a chill pill n enjoy whatever that pleases ur eyes. N then we all would have a busy next week ahead now won't we ??🤪

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: FleetingWishes.

Lmao as lame as your premise is I'll play. If he established that HE WILL TOUCH AKSHU whether he does it and tells/not tells arohi doesn't matter. If I say I'm going to eat peanuts whether i tell you I'm eating them or not eating them doesn't matter.


Well then how was he being open and clear with AAROHI if you are saying he can eat peanuts but doesn’t have to tell her.


I’m not married to you so I don’t care if you eat peanuts or not 🤪


But hey thanks for making me laugh 👍🏼

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Some of the statements here are so dramatic and far-reaching. When did Abhimanyu promise Arohi ANY emotional fidelity for him to emotionally cheat on her? As far as I can remember he offered her a pseudo-contract where he clearly stated he'll marry her but NEVER love her or be a husband to her in any capacity except in name. All he offered was the deed itself--the marriage--and the Birla name. And the unsaid why was because she had saved his life. That was the motivation for the decision. The moment that why disappeared so did any commitment on his end.


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Oh that's so so right..sometimes I start doubting my own intelligence that I am overlooking things or is there anything wrong with me 😕 Nobody here tried to justify abhimanyus rash decisions but i am surprised with the kind of support arohi is getting . Is it bec she is a woman or is it bec hatred for abhimNyu supercedes everything ?



When arohi has been perpetrating this whole kaand and acting delusional , how is she not at fault here ? What else could be the outcome of her lies and manipulations ? For that matter harsh too..out of hatred for akshara , he is going against the wishes of his son, how good is that ? Goenkas were blind to the plight of their daughters , why shouldn't they be humiliated ? Arohi was blind , harsh was blind , goenkas were blind. Let them face the heat . It's bec of them ke abhimanyu and akshara have been doing one mistake after other , not the other way round.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: austen-eliot

I won't argue on how correct your inferences are regarding what Abhimanyu meant when he proposed marriage to aarohi. Ekahriz has perfectly demolished those.

But I'll just say this: even agreeing your inferences are right, it just shows what a lowlife Abhimanyu is with a twisted and immoral mind, with no respect for religious or societal norms or ethics or for any human being.. even akshara, since he expected that she should betray all her own beliefs and morals. Does he consider what a toll it would take on akshu when she goes back on her promise to her sister and takes back her favorite 'toy' which she gave her willingly in the first place? What kind of person that sister is doesn't come into this. It's about who akshu is, what are her beliefs and motivations. Abhimanyu has never bothered to look into her soul. I have no words to describe how slimy and guttery this Abhimanyu is. He can take his ishq wala love and stuff it up his____. How is this character so loved and praised????

I'm sorry must have missed the part where she did that. 🤔

If you want me to defend him I don't really care. As far as inferences go the point I made and stand by is that since he hardly promised her ANYTHING he can easily make any choice and later justify it by returning to this meager agreement. What conclusions anyone reaches about his character aren't my concern.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: bakwaspolice


Well then how was he being open and clear with AAROHI if you are saying he can eat peanuts but doesn’t have to tell her.


I’m not married to you so I don’t care if you eat peanuts or not 🤪


But hey thanks for making me laugh 👍🏼

When did he say he was going to be open and clear and share anything with her? Actually nvm you'll return to the same old premise where you'll say the same old thing and I'll say the same old thing and this circle would never end so maybe not answer that. 🤔

You're welcome.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Clarifying one small thing.. He tells aarohi that she cannot call him abhi before tilak 1.0. After the proposal to aarohi she does call him abhi and he doesn't object. In fact he even tells akshu not to call him abhi after that.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: _charu_



Some of the statements here are so dramatic and far-reaching. When did Abhimanyu promise Arohi ANY emotional fidelity for him to emotionally cheat on her? As far as I can remember he offered her a pseudo-contract where he clearly stated he'll marry her but NEVER love her or be a husband to her in any capacity except in name. All he offered was the deed itself--the marriage--and the Birla name. And the unsaid why was because she had saved his life. That was the motivation for the decision. The moment that why disappeared so did any commitment on his end.


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Oh that's so so right..sometimes I start doubting my own intelligence that I am overlooking things or is there anything wrong with me 😕 Nobody here tried to justify abhimanyus rash decisions but i am surprised with the kind of support arohi is getting . Is it bec she is a woman or is it bec hatred for abhimNyu supercedes everything ?



When arohi has been perpetrating this whole kaand and acting delusional , how is she not at fault here ? What else could be the outcome of her lies and manipulations ? For that matter harsh too..out of hatred for akshara , he is going against the wishes of his son, how good is that ? Goenkas were blind to the plight of their daughters , why shouldn't they be humiliated ? Arohi was blind , harsh was blind , goenkas were blind. Let them face the heat . It's bec of them ke abhimanyu and akshara have been doing one mistake after other , not the other way round.

That's the thing and my original argument which got washed away lmao! By putting up one person on the stand you're basically questioning/looking for a perpetrator in everyone else. This entire mess is a collective one as far I'm concerned. No one person caused this. No one person can alone be villainized. Arohi for being a trash sister and agreeing to a marriage on a premise she knew was bogus (her saving him), Akshara -- who instead of questioning Arohi for going back on her first statement -- If I were in your place I would've rejected him too -- not only showed consent but showed it overzealously right until she took it back. Abhimanyu for taking the worst decision out of rage and impulsiveness, for all his actions after that decision leading up to the mandir confrontations. Manish/Goenkas who agreed to this marriage KNOWING FULL WELL/being told the groom doesn't love their daughter no.2 because he loves daughter no.1??? I MEAN how is that even PLAUSIBLE? Harshvardan for knowing Abhimanyu would've rejected her the moment he found out the camp wala truth and hiding it. LMAO Manjiri and Neil for knowing Akshara and Abhimanyu are now together, reconciled and still not telling anyone, letting a groomless baraat go to the Goenka house for tamasha to ensue. In fact the entire birla clan is responsible here.


Again everyone's messed up colossally and instead of some linear progression where one or two people are to blame, every single person here, including kairav who knew everything and let it get here, is responsible! So they all deserve their hisse ki upcoming zillats/consequences.


But that's okay. It's weak storytelling but it hasn't violated the basic principle of storytelling for me which is good people do shitty af things. Obviously, who I consider good and redeemable is up to me as a viewer. And I for one don't feel an iota of sympathy for Arohi.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: austen-eliot

Clarifying one small thing.. He tells aarohi that she cannot call him abhi before tilak 1.0. After the proposal to aarohi she does call him abhi and he doesn't object. In fact he even tells akshu not to call him abhi after that.

He tells her he will always be 'Abhimanyu' not 'Abhi' for her in his proposal episode. I think there's more to the connotation here. I actually watched these two episodes today only so the dialogues are pretty clear in my head. 🤔
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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: FleetingWishes.

He tells her he will always be 'Abhimanyu' not 'Abhi' for her in his proposal episode. I think there's more to the connotation here. I actually watched these two episodes today only so the dialogues are pretty clear in my head. 🤔

Yes..he said this after he proposed to arohi. Happens the next day when arohi is rushing to the hospital and they spot abhimanyu on the way.

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Posted: 3 years ago
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Originally posted by: austen-eliot

Clarifying one small thing.. He tells aarohi that she cannot call him abhi before tilak 1.0. After the proposal to aarohi she does call him abhi and he doesn't object. In fact he even tells akshu not to call him abhi after that.

arohi never called him abhi openly on his face she always said..abhi-manyu hesitantly..he never gave her the right and that's why she was always afraid to call him abhi on his face..

In case of akshara..he was pissed off with her and was being mean to her and ignoring her before accident..he even told her she doesn't exist for him but we all know its not true..he didn't take away any rights from her or stopped loving her ..he was just angry with her that's all

Arohi and akshara were never the same for abhimanyu..he ignored akshara once because he was angry with her whereas he always ignores aarohi becoz she doesn't matter to him at all

Both the situations can't be compared.

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