Akshara- right and wrong! - Page 2

One thing that has been wrong in the story line is any boy ready to marry Nandini, knowing she is handicapped. May be it was because Mohit never saw Nandini as such that Akshara encouraged the relationship. Also Nandini's parents are forgetting that if there daughter were to get married, would they like the same behaviour towards Nandini as they are doing? Would they like it if Nandini is not allowed to visit her mayaaka? Or Nandini is scolded for every little thing. When Akshara is not given opportunity to lovingly learn to cook to look afer house etc...how will she learn.

Every parents should remember that being able to know how to wear sari and cook does not make for a good marriage. Relationships can only form and grow strong when everyone involved can work together to build them.

Originally posted by: darshana23

tinytina, I agree with you. There are some mistakes done by Akshara even. First thing she visited her maayaka though she knew that her in-laws are not liking it. If you do mistake first time then ok. You do it twice then also ok. But you keep repeating same mistake again and again though you know person in front of you not liking it. She stayed in maayaka when her mother-in-law was also ill is something odd.

And if Naitik's family is orthodox, Akshara's family is also same one I say. Both families behaves same while treating girl and boy. Akshara's bauji got angry on her when she only talks to one boy from her college. But frankly gives permission for love marriage of his son. Would they have allowed Akshara to get married with someone if she is in love?? Same in Naitik's family too.

I feel Akshara and her dadi, don't live in real world some time. For them, its all fantasy. Before inspiring Nandini for this relationship she should have think once. If her in-laws are creating drama on her pallu then will they allow love marriage? Common sense!!!

Biggest mistake if anyone made then thats Akshara's family. They got Akshara married in this family. I remember Dadi said once let get your daughter married in family where she can breathe atleast. I guess her father forgot his mother's advice while selecting alliance for Akshara.

Absolutely right Darshana23😳

Originally posted by: California Girl

This show is a real cautionary tale whose moral for me is that no parent should consider marrying off their TEENAGE daughter. Also, boys' families also should not marry their sons to TEENAGERS and then expect that the poor girl will be as mature as a 40- year old or even a 25 year-old.

If you look at Akshara's behavor, it is totally in line with the way teenagers behave. Not fully understanding the consequences of their actions is a hallmark of teenage behavior. Akshara is being a normal teenager (supporting the great Mohit- Nandini "love story") and everyone is disappointed that she's not thinking like a grown up! I hope people who watch this show are learning the value of educating their daughters and not marrying them off before they're fully grown.,

I agree with you😳 I had overlooked this point that Akshara is a teenager and thinks like any one of them...and the responsibility is huge..but I think after a girl gets married she is expected to behave like a mature person in 99% of the houses and that puts a great pressure on girls...but again Akshara should have restrained herself from going over to her house after so many objections were made...atleast when Nandini was meeting Mohit in the park..she should have shown some sense..she could atleast tell her Maayka people that her inlaws didn't like her coming there every now and then!

Originally posted by: tinytina

I agree with you😳 I had overlooked this point that Akshara is a teenager and thinks like any one of them...and the responsibility is huge..but I think after a girl gets married she is expected to behave like a mature person in 99% of the houses and that puts a great pressure on girls...but again Akshara should have restrained herself fromgoing over to herhouse after so many objections were made...atleast when Nandini was meeting Mohit in the park..she should have shown some sense..she could atleast tell her Maayka people that her inlaws didn't like her coming there every now and then!

Also, she should have confided in Naitik as he has always supported her..i found it quite silly when Naitik slept off when she was revealing the truth..this just does not happen in any house...😆

Akshara has done such a huge mistake ke 1 or sorries r not enuf to rectify them now...if she's a teenager and she thinks normally abt a love affair and love marriage then she should have at least given it a thought tht her in laws r totally against the idea (infact her parents were also not happy abt it initially) ..obviously in all these years she heard a lot of things abt marriage in her society and she must be knowing how the society looks at affairs n love marriages in general...yet if she didn't have the brains to think, she should have borrowed some frm ppl. around her, mainly her husband Naitik..or at least take a suggestion frm Dadi or someone in her maayka so tht she KNOWS what she's doing and she KNOWS the consequences of it ! at the end of the day, she doesn't have anything to say in her defence, bec .she DID encourage Mohit and Nandini's affair (she even told mohit tht nandini has accepted the marriage proposal n she thinks nandini is doing it under pressure..and the next day mohit came n confessed) ...thats what the problem is that she still doesn't know what a big blunder she made...and yest. was the heights , after going through so much, she's still giving the cell to nandini to talk to mohit, tht's idiotic !

Nandini or any boy or girl understand love as it is shown in movies n books...nandini saying "only mohit understands me" is the proof of this statement..totally immature thought...she's confused and akshara is confusing her more by saying tht the family will understand ...doesn't nandini know and she's seen in her life tht a girl is married not only to the boy but to the whole family (at least in India) and even after seeing the attitude of Mohit's mom, Nandini or Akshara is not a bit shaken up 😕

all this is happening with naitik n akshara bec. they always gave priority to other relations than their own relation...people also change over the time..how can akshara be satisfied with the thought tht naitik "understands" her? marriage & love is one relation which has to be nurtured everyday to keep it alive n breathing...

naitik is right n wrong in his place but his reaction is justified to an extent ...no matter how wrong akshara is, it was wrong on naitik's part to tell nandini's love story to the family & blame Akshara..there r other way of solving problems but all this was done bec. the CV's were hell bent on showing Akshara out of Singhania house..