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Posted: 15 years ago
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Guys, I feel Akshara should have known that she has got married into a very orthodox family who strongly believe in upholding the traditions of the house...Inspite of being warned by her inlaws, she time and again kept going to her Maayka, which I feel was not right. Also her Maayka people calling her again and again for petty problems was also not right..after all they too belong to the same community and know the customs and traditions themselves. Also a good wife never keeps secrets of the husband's family members to herself...she knows how orthodox the family is and still kept encouraging Nandini to know Mohit better...this is quite ok in a normal house...but not in this type of tradional house which Akshara should have known better.
But all said and done, Naitik's behaviour towards Akshara is disgusting...he should know how to behave towards his wife...letting her down and insulting her in front of his family is definitely extremely disgusting on his part!

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Posted: 15 years ago
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agree with you dear what akshi did was wrong to some extent....and what naitik did was also wrong....actually they were not ready for their marriage....they are still not matured
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Posted: 15 years ago
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yeah she has done wrong by hiding mohit n nandu's luv story from the singania's ...but naitik's behaviour is not justified ....
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Couldn't agree more :o)...totally unjustified, immature behviour by Naitik
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i dont think she did anything wrong,cuz she kept on telling tat she wants daddaji n also naitik to come to know....nandini n mohit held her from telling them😡...so i guess she shd not be blamed..n most importantly.uske intentions galat nahi hai yaar....nandini will take sum 3 months to tell the truth to naitik,tab tak bahut der ho chuki hogi!!!!! i hope from here naitik starts trusting akshara n be a gud husband 😊
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Posted: 15 years ago
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tinytina, I agree with you. There are some mistakes done by Akshara even. First thing she visited her maayaka though she knew that her in-laws are not liking it. If you do mistake first time then ok. You do it twice then also ok. But you keep repeating same mistake again and again though you know person in front of you not liking it. She stayed in maayaka when her mother-in-law was also ill is something odd.

And if Naitik's family is orthodox, Akshara's family is also same one I say. Both families behaves same while treating girl and boy. Akshara's bauji got angry on her when she only talks to one boy from her college. But frankly gives permission for love marriage of his son. Would they have allowed Akshara to get married with someone if she is in love?? Same in Naitik's family too.

I feel Akshara and her dadi, don't live in real world some time. For them, its all fantasy. Before inspiring Nandini for this relationship she should have think once. If her in-laws are creating drama on her pallu then will they allow love marriage? Common sense!!!

Biggest mistake if anyone made then thats Akshara's family. They got Akshara married in this family. I remember Dadi said once let get your daughter married in family where she can breathe atleast. I guess her father forgot his mother's advice while selecting alliance for Akshara.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: tinytina

Guys, I feel Akshara should have known that she has got married into a very orthodox family who strongly believe in upholding the traditions of the house...Inspite of being warned by her inlaws, she time and again kept going to her Maayka, which I feel was not right. Also her Maayka people calling her again and again for petty problems was also not right..after all they too belong to the same community and know the customs and traditions themselves. Also a good wife never keeps secrets of the husband's family members to herself...she knows how orthodox the family is and still kept encouraging Nandini to know Mohit better...this is quite ok in a normal house...but not in this type of tradional house which Akshara should have known better.

But all said and done, Naitik's behaviour towards Akshara is disgusting...he should know how to behave towards his wife...letting her down and insulting her in front of his family is definitely extremely disgusting on his part!

Thats what!
In arrange marraiges ... it takes such a long time to create trust and undrstanding.
I made so many mistakes in first few years of my life. I did not mean to hurt anyone, but their views and ways of dealing with things was different than mine. My husband could not even see my side and reacted the way that still hurts me.
But after years i can look back and understand his side and I hope he can understand mine.
We are still disappointed at those stuations, but thats what part of life it...
Because of those situations, we know each other.... better.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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absolutely true... Naitik is not a gud husband,, he is just hit from Akshara Relation..
na usay romance kerna ata hey or na hi wo aik husband k farz ko sahi judge ker pa raha hey .. buhat hi immature hey... achay buray ki tameeez b nae samj aa rae usay abhi tak.. Real mein b jo us ki wife ho gae na wo insecure hi feeel karay gi....
singhania ki family mein un ka beta munna or un ki beti muuniii.....
khud to kuch ker saktay nae jesay .. sab Akshara seekha rae hein unhein 😡
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i agree..firstly she supported mohit and nandini and now,in todays episode she is telling mohit not to call..wat is this..she needs to get her stand right.nndini is not married so she doesnt know wat responsibilites a indian daughter in law has to carry but akshara knows.she should have made a decision .either is completley support the relationship till the end or else not..i know naitik behavior is wrong but think from a brother's point of view.its weird when u think tht your sister is dating ur best friend..its not easy to gulp tht truth in..formost akshara should have never hidden it..never PEOPLE I SERIOUSLY KNOW HOW MUCH PARENTS GET HURT..However they r reacting it is normal.everyone is right from their point of view.if there so called biradari is like that wat can you do.u cant explain everyone everything.dadaji is so much into tradition and akshara's mom-in-law is always finding faults in her.she should have a given it a good thought..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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This show is a real cautionary tale whose moral for me is that no parent should consider marrying off their TEENAGE daughter. Also, boys' families also should not marry their sons to TEENAGERS and then expect that the poor girl will be as mature as a 40- year old or even a 25 year-old.

If you look at Akshara's behavor, it is totally in line with the way teenagers behave. Not fully understanding the consequences of their actions is a hallmark of teenage behavior. Akshara is being a normal teenager (supporting the great Mohit- Nandini "love story") and everyone is disappointed that she's not thinking like a grown up! I hope people who watch this show are learning the value of educating their daughters and not marrying them off before they're fully grown.

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