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Posted: 6 years ago
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I don't think he is angry with her about her looks
he is angry with her for trying out this experiment on their wedding day
and the way people are insulting her are making him more angry
and this is the same sameer who has said soo many times that lakho main ek hain uski naina
So how to defend her when he did not even himself about the disaster that happened
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: munchkinland

I don't think he is angry with her about her looks

he is angry with her for trying out this experiment on their wedding day
and the way people are insulting her are making him more angry
and this is the same sameer who has said soo many times that lakho main ek hain uski naina
So how to defend her when he did not even himself about the disaster that happened



Exactly.

She had the perfect opportunity to tell him about her hairs when they were alone in their room and just before that Preeti told her to tell Sameer about it ASAP but no instead of telling him about it she chose to jump on bed.

If she would've told him I don't think he would've got this much angry because for him also it was the biggest shock. If he had the slightest idea he would've defended her in front of all.

It was actually relatable because sometimes if you are right then also you can't say anything or defend.

If he would've tried then also it would've been more worse for her.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sakshi607



Rightly said👏Sameer getting angry is ok but should have supported her in front of others and later jitna chahe lad le but he should have taken a stand when she was publicly humiliated. Getting angry and walking off was not done.



Yup exactly how much ever he was angry and disappointed by her looks. He should have stayed and spoken defending her that looks doesn't matter for him. Jhoot bhi bol sakta tha. He is showing that looks matter for him than naina getting insulted in front of others. I didn't like him saying that they are perm and will not get straightened so easily to Chachiji
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: munchkinland

I don't think he is angry with her about her looks

he is angry with her for trying out this experiment on their wedding day
and the way people are insulting her are making him more angry
and this is the same sameer who has said soo many times that lakho main ek hain uski naina
So how to defend her when he did not even himself about the disaster that happened


Agree he's angry for her to try out something without any after thoughts on her wedding day. Also, for the fact that he adored her open hair & she ruined it. It's like how your favourite toy or dress gets destroyed/broken, how would you feel.

I dont think the taunts are affecting him, he was never affected by them, unless it came from his mother. He feels ditched & hence he's upset/ angry. & all he did was act in his anger. But that's what his nature has been always. That's one aspect of him Naina has not been able to curb down. He would get angry on something & react without looking what he's talking & to whom.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: truptishree




Exactly.


She had the perfect opportunity to tell him about her hairs when they were alone in their room and just before that Preeti told her to tell Sameer about it ASAP but no instead of telling him about it she chose to jump on bed.


If she would've told him I don't think he would've got this much angry because for him also it was the biggest shock. If he had the slightest idea he would've defended her in front of all.


It was actually relatable because sometimes if you are right then also you can't say anything or defend.


If he would've tried then also it would've been more worse for her.



So every time he will behave like that, situations are thrown at us like this. So he will throw tantrums like a kid and become angry. He has been promising naina that he will not hurt her and will be with her and never leave her alone to fight the wolves in his home. This is how he will take care of her.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: munchkinland

I don't think he is angry with her about her looks

he is angry with her for trying out this experiment on their wedding day
and the way people are insulting her are making him more angry
and this is the same sameer who has said soo many times that lakho main ek hain uski naina
So how to defend her when he did not even himself about the disaster that happened



Exactly and if anyone remember Randeep last year valentine interview then he said ki sam ko Naina ki inner beauty se pyar huwa hai, usko simplicity se yeh baat toh Mein 1% bhi agree nai karti ki looks k liye he is angry, he is angry because of the experiment, hair damage, and usko na batane k liye, and child marriage ki baat hi nai abhi Coz ush time Mein log 18 saal Mein sadhi karte the Samaina toh 20,21 k hai, yes mature nai hai, kuch pata nai hai but sadhi ish age Mein almost sab ki hoti thi.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Deepanand



So every time he will behave like that, situations are thrown at us like this. So he will throw tantrums like a kid and become angry. He has been promising naina that he will not hurt her and will be with her and never leave her alone to fight the wolves in his home. This is how he will take care of her.



Oh come on!

They are married only for just a day.

It's still learning phase for them.

And as knowing Sameer he was always like this his anger always overpowers.

If you see Naina also so many times promised him in the past that she will not leave him but she did for her family. That time if we can give her benefit of doubt then why not Sameer. I know situations are completely different but promise is a promise.

If you are applying that rule to Sameer then why not Naina.

He also got insulted so many times in Agarwal house not just insulted but got slapped also without any of his fault. That time no one accused Naina but one slight change in Sameer's behaviour everyone is just ready with gun.

I am just saying that she would've told him when she had the opportunity when they were alone.

We just can't blame him that he didn't stand by her when he himself was in shock like others.

I am not saying that she should've shown him her hair but at least could've told him about the beautician mistake and her hairs got ruined so he wouldn't have reacted like that.

See Bela's reaction can you say that she is a bad mother because she scolded her for hiding it? Then it's same for Sameer also. Just because he didn't say anything doesn't make him bad.

Knowing him he will say sorry to her for getting angry on her.

Marriage is not a bed of roses it definitely comes with lots of thorns of responsibilities and it includes some nasty relatives also who can make your life hell by taunting.

If you say something to them it will be like adding fuel to fire.


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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: truptishree




Oh come on!


They are married only for just a day.


It's still learning phase for them.


And as knowing Sameer he was always like this his anger always overpowers.


If you see Naina also so many times promised him in the past that she will not leave him but she did for her family. That time if we can give her benefit of doubt then why not Sameer. I know situations are completely different but promise is a promise.


If you are applying that rule to Sameer then why not Naina.


He also got insulted so many times in Agarwal house not just insulted but got slapped also without any of his fault. That time no one accused Naina but one slight change in Sameer's behaviour everyone is just ready with gun.


I am just saying that she would've told him when she had the opportunity when they were alone.


We just can't blame him that he didn't stand by her when he himself was in shock like others.


I am not saying that she should've shown him her hair but at least could've told him about the beautician mistake and her hairs got ruined so he wouldn't have reacted like that.


See Bela's reaction can you say that she is a bad mother because she scolded her for hiding it? Then it's same for Sameer also. Just because he didn't say anything doesn't make him bad.


Knowing him he will say sorry to her for getting angry on her.


Marriage is not a bed of roses it definitely comes with lots of thorns of responsibilities and it includes some nasty relatives also who can make your life hell by taunting.


If you say something to them it will be like adding fuel to fire.






No I don't agree with you here. They know each other from 4 years now and they understand each other very well. It's not an arranged marriage that it's their 1st day of after marriage.

Till now sameer didn't have rights on her as they were not married and the agrawal family was not happy with them having affair so he was slapped insulted and naina also didn't hold her promises to him because of her family and the insecurity.

Now sameer is naina's husband and has full rights on her and can defend her infront of his family or anybody in that case. They were just throwing insults at her and not one word from him was it that big crime having your hair style gone wrong. If he fails to take her side now he will never be able to support her during the tough situations.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: munchkinland

I don't think he is angry with her about her looks

he is angry with her for trying out this experiment on their wedding day
and the way people are insulting her are making him more angry
and this is the same sameer who has said soo many times that lakho main ek hain uski naina
So how to defend her when he did not even himself about the disaster that happened

Sameer himself is in shock seeing her new look. We know he's not the brightest brain here so his reaction is natural.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: truptishree



Oh come on!

They are married only for just a day.

It's still learning phase for them.

And as knowing Sameer he was always like this his anger always overpowers.

If you see Naina also so many times promised him in the past that she will not leave him but she did for her family. That time if we can give her benefit of doubt then why not Sameer. I know situations are completely different but promise is a promise.

If you are applying that rule to Sameer then why not Naina.

He also got insulted so many times in Agarwal house not just insulted but got slapped also without any of his fault. That time no one accused Naina but one slight change in Sameer's behaviour everyone is just ready with gun.

I am just saying that she would've told him when she had the opportunity when they were alone.

We just can't blame him that he didn't stand by her when he himself was in shock like others.

I am not saying that she should've shown him her hair but at least could've told him about the beautician mistake and her hairs got ruined so he wouldn't have reacted like that.

See Bela's reaction can you say that she is a bad mother because she scolded her for hiding it? Then it's same for Sameer also. Just because he didn't say anything doesn't make him bad.

Knowing him he will say sorry to her for getting angry on her.

Marriage is not a bed of roses it definitely comes with lots of thorns of responsibilities and it includes some nasty relatives also who can make your life hell by taunting.

If you say something to them it will be like adding fuel to fire.



Sorry dont agree with you..
Sameer being Naina husband now and boy friend for 5 years cant stand and stay quiet watching people mocking and humiliating her

Whether he liked her hair or not... her self respect is much more important than temporary look issues...

Its high time he realizes the girl and her parents are being degraded and he has to take responsibility to protect their image infront of his family

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