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Is it right to reconcile with your lover/spouse/partner?? If someone whom you loved deeply decides to walk out of your life , do you think it is right to get back ??
Tough question?? There is no perfect answer to this. It varies depending on how we perceive the situation. Your some close friends might think you are absolutely an idiot to get back, where as some common friends might think its perfect.
Why this difference ?? Let us take example of Naina and Sameer. Preethi and Munna are two people who are against it because Preethi knows Naina and her decisions, Munna knows Sameer and his emotional connect with Naina. Preethi doesn't want Naina to be hurt and Munna doesn't want Sameer to be hurt. For Preethi , Naina is more important than Sameer . Its not that she doesn't like Sameer . And For Munna , Sameer is more important than Naina .
What about the rest of the gang , don't they like these two?? Oh Yes they do with all their might , just that they don't see Sameer and Naina differently. They are close to both of them so for them they feel one is not complete with out the other. They are close to both of them , so they don't take anyone side.
Munna talks about Naina making decisions everytime. From his point of view, he feels Naina is making use of his friend. But for Sameer that's not the point . When you love someone so deeply , we take decisions based on what we know about that person. Deep within he knows his Naina. She is not happy. He doesn't think she is making use of him , he can only see her pain.
Hence, he plans to propose?? His possessive heart doesn't want her to belong to someone else whom he thinks will not keep her happy. Only he knows what he went thru when he was told she is going to marry someone else. He showed the guts of getting her back because he knows for sure she loves him. There is no doubt about it. If it hadnt been for the promise that he gave Munna, he would have kept trying till he heard a yes from her. That's Naina for Sameer!!
And among couples one will be slightly stubborn than the other. When it's the man people tend to be ok about it but when it's the lady who is the stubborn one , then people make a big hue and cry about it. Here its Naina, at least for now. Their relationship dynamics might change post marriage , we never know.
So my suggestion will be , for your peace mind , don't think them as two individuals. Think them as one and then you will realise the pain that both of them are going thru. If you look at Naina's face its very obvious her smile doesn't reach her eyes. She IS NOT HAPPY, but she has no go and the one who senses it is the MAN who is in love with her. Her Sameer knows it.
Let Sameer follow his heart and learn what his Naina is. Every man and woman has to walk the path of understanding each other . This happens when they face challenges in life. This is another learning for them as a couple. They are no more in the initial days of their love. They are way beyond it , so fights will be there . MU will be there . It's a part and parcel of loving and knowing each other emotionally.
PS : Both of them will learn to have their own secrets which they will NOT SHARE with anyone. Its on the way.
Tough question?? There is no perfect answer to this. It varies depending on how we perceive the situation. Your some close friends might think you are absolutely an idiot to get back, where as some common friends might think its perfect.
Why this difference ?? Let us take example of Naina and Sameer. Preethi and Munna are two people who are against it because Preethi knows Naina and her decisions, Munna knows Sameer and his emotional connect with Naina. Preethi doesn't want Naina to be hurt and Munna doesn't want Sameer to be hurt. For Preethi , Naina is more important than Sameer . Its not that she doesn't like Sameer . And For Munna , Sameer is more important than Naina .
What about the rest of the gang , don't they like these two?? Oh Yes they do with all their might , just that they don't see Sameer and Naina differently. They are close to both of them so for them they feel one is not complete with out the other. They are close to both of them , so they don't take anyone side.
Munna talks about Naina making decisions everytime. From his point of view, he feels Naina is making use of his friend. But for Sameer that's not the point . When you love someone so deeply , we take decisions based on what we know about that person. Deep within he knows his Naina. She is not happy. He doesn't think she is making use of him , he can only see her pain.
Hence, he plans to propose?? His possessive heart doesn't want her to belong to someone else whom he thinks will not keep her happy. Only he knows what he went thru when he was told she is going to marry someone else. He showed the guts of getting her back because he knows for sure she loves him. There is no doubt about it. If it hadnt been for the promise that he gave Munna, he would have kept trying till he heard a yes from her. That's Naina for Sameer!!
And among couples one will be slightly stubborn than the other. When it's the man people tend to be ok about it but when it's the lady who is the stubborn one , then people make a big hue and cry about it. Here its Naina, at least for now. Their relationship dynamics might change post marriage , we never know.
So my suggestion will be , for your peace mind , don't think them as two individuals. Think them as one and then you will realise the pain that both of them are going thru. If you look at Naina's face its very obvious her smile doesn't reach her eyes. She IS NOT HAPPY, but she has no go and the one who senses it is the MAN who is in love with her. Her Sameer knows it.
Let Sameer follow his heart and learn what his Naina is. Every man and woman has to walk the path of understanding each other . This happens when they face challenges in life. This is another learning for them as a couple. They are no more in the initial days of their love. They are way beyond it , so fights will be there . MU will be there . It's a part and parcel of loving and knowing each other emotionally.
PS : Both of them will learn to have their own secrets which they will NOT SHARE with anyone. Its on the way.
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