HOW NAINA MAY BECOME PARASITIC & HARMFUL FOR SAMEER? Hard Truth

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Hi Fandom,

Before you all start shooting words at me, seeing the post title, please read the post.

I am writing this post from the point of view of a boy.

Feel free to express your views or shoot your words at me after reading the post.
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In the course of this story, the character of Sameer has emerged the strongest. Even much more than Naina, I have to admit. I did not think that I would say this.

If the makers are doing this to show the flaws of Naina as a human, then that is fine. However, they must bring this whole paper stealing and Sameer Bashing to a logical conclusion. To a conclusion, where Naina herself absolves Sameer of all the false accusations. (Even if Sameer is ready to take the fall for Arjun as he is in love with Naina and can't see her or her family unhappy)

That will redeem Naina completely. And in other words, make Sameer & Naina worthy of each other.

The moment Naina feels reaccepting her emotions for Sameer, the first and most important narrative progression must be to take a stand, at least for once, for Sameer against her Wrong Father and Brother.

Otherwise, I deem the relation PARASITIC for Sameer. It will be a tricky situation for any guy. If Naina doesn't absolve Sameer of all false accusations in front of her so-called SACCHA father and brother, then that's the clear indication of the type of relation NO BOY should enter. It applies to Sameer too.

The relation will be such that Sameer will keep on giving and giving to maintain it. He will take care of Naina and also has to adjust to her weird family (Rakesh & Arjun) and all their arrogance.

Naina (might love Sameer) will keep her rules flexible when it comes to her Saccha father and brother but will not hesitate to Blame Sameer even in case of the slightest mistake. In regards to Sameer, she will turn in to a judge. Such relation can never bring peace to any boy including Sameer.

Unless NAINA clears SAMEER of all the false accusations and abuses(by her own father and brother), it clearly shows her love for Sameer has a lot of tinges of Selfishness.

Sameer is just a way or tool for her to get the attention and love she has never gotten until today. She will extract all she wants from Sameer, but when it comes to supporting, she will defend her SACCHA FATHER and BROTHER (even if they do something drastically wrong).

Therefore, for me, to make the story strong and relevant - IT MUST BE SHOWN IN A BIG WAY WHERE NAINA GOES AGAINST HER FATHER, BROTHER and prove Sameer innocent.

That's the only way Naina as a character can regain the respect and love she has lost in last one week.

N.B: Samaina_1990 raised a point, saying that in the future Rakesh will be proud that his daughter is Maheswari Khandaan Bahu.

Rakesh will tout this as his achievement. My Daughter Naina - The daughter in law of one of the richest and influential families in Ahemadabad.

The point about Rakesh having a rich DAMAD is so true. Being the selfish Man that he is, he will brag about it. That is another sign of Naina becoming Parasitic for Sameer. If Naina does not develop the strength to speak against her father's or brother's misbehavior then the history will repeat itself.

Naina's family (father & brother) will use Sameer for their benefit by any means, And Naina won't say a word to them.
(for example, in the last episode Rakesh stooped SO LOW to the level of using Arjun's injury to extract money from Sameer and his Nanaji. If these are the signs of the things that are in store for Sameer, then it is worrisome)

In fact, she might emotionally torture Sameer like she is doing now. Hiding all the wrongdoings of her SACCHA father and BROTHER and blaming Sameer. PURE TOXIC RELATION with a twisted view of love by Naina.

I strongly doubt Naina will object to this 5 lakh issue even. The narrative must show her DEVELOPING courage to stand against her abusive father and brother. That will be Naina's character growth and will make all the things even.


All will be set right only when in the current time she strongly supports Sameer against her TRUTH PILLARS (Rakesh and Arjun) and fights against them.

If that does not happen, then SAMEER (or any boy in this case) is TRAPPED in a very tight spot in an extremely PARASITIC RELATIONSHIP with no way out.

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Now since you read the post, feel free to shoot your words at me or express your views by comments.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Amazing post Dr.👏 I have always felt that a boy always gets trapped with all the emotional atyachars.Seen the boys of my family.There have been certain incidents where I have felt that the girls who mostly brag about righteous even fail to practice what they preach.
What you have said all are justified.However I shall await the developments of every character over course of time.😳
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Posted: 7 years ago
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👏u surprised me everytime..
What a bang on post.

Well see we are watching an Indian TV and Indian TV specially sony is famous for thier over love for Fl...


So this thing is bound to happen...sameer will treated as a doormat and will be...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: TereLiyeMINU

Amazing post Dr.👏 I have always felt that a boy always gets trapped with all the emotional atyachars.Seen the boys of my family.There have been certain incidents where I have felt that the girls who mostly brag about righteous even fail to practice what they preach.

What you have said all are justified.However I shall await the developments of every character over course of time.😳


Hi Minu,

You said correctly.

That is why I stressed in my post - the EVENT OF NAINA ABSOLVING SAMEER OF FALSE ACCUSATION and Abuses.

If that happens then all is on track. Naina is redeemed, viewers are not confused about her double standards and all is fine. A Loving Sameer & Naina.

However, if that does not happen and Sameer takes the fall willingly (out of love) and Naina again remains quiet, then that's a big loophole in the narrative.

If Sameer keeps the paper Stealing truth a secret, then Naina will definitely forgive him and accept his love.

REASON BEING - He fulfilled her biggest SUBCONSCIOUS criteria: A BAKRA WHO CAN DO ANYTHING FOR HER FAMILY (THE TRUTH PILLARS OF FATHER & BROTHER.) Even get abused and insulted.

And that is the definition of a Toxic Relationship.
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We need to wait for the characters to progress over time... I agree that if she doesn't put her foot down for the rghteous person and his acts... Sameer is in for a terrible life ahead... but as we have seen... she can go to any extent for her love... so hopefully as Sameer has grown as a person... she too would realise her fault... and then I would say...she would rise in his love😃
Sameer has risen in her love but she is yet to realize that 😳
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dr.Don



N.B: SAM raised a point, saying that in the future Rakesh will be proud that his daughter is Maheswari Khandaan Bahu.



When does Sameer say this ? 😕

Very nice post.

Sameer has been turned into telly FL actually here. The show was to be above all this but alas to move the story forward and drama quotient Sameer is being tortured and being made to brave all the anger/hatred.

I however believe Naina will learn to stand up to her father and family for Sameer. She has not done but she is capable of it when she realizes her mistakes. I wish Naina learns to see a story from another perspective too. Right now her only focus is to hate Sameer and perceive him wrong for everything that he does.

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Originally posted by: Dr.Don



N.B: SAM raised a point, saying that in the future Rakesh will be proud that his daughter is Maheswari Khandaan Bahu.


HI Dixie,

By Sam I meant user Samaina_1990

She is currently writing the Amazing Series ""

Yes as you said, right now Naina is angry. So maybe that's why she is not having a calm head to analyze everything.

That's why the tone of my POST is "IF"

Once Naina understands every aspect, She must raise her voice again the hypocritical attitude of her Father & Bother.

Unless she does that, She herself will be a HYPOCRITE and INHERENT SELFISH.

Many viewers will lose the love for the character as her double standards will be to too clear to all.

So, she must take a stand very strongly. I am hopeful makers will take care of this fact.
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Originally posted by: Dr.Don


HI Dixie,

By Sam I meant user Samaina_1990

She is currently writing the Amazing Series ""

Yes as you said, right now Naina is angry. So maybe that's why she is not having a calm head to analyze everything.

That's why the tone of my POST is "IF"

Once Naina understands every aspect, She must raise her voice again the hypocritical attitude of her Father & Bother.

Unless she does that, She herself will be a HYPOCRITE and INHERENT SELFISH.

Many viewers will lose the love for the character as her double standards will to too clear to all.

So, she must take a stand very strongly. I am hopeful makers will take care of this fact.


Ok.. thank you for the clarification Doc.

I was racking my brain ki how I missed this important dialogue 😆 of Sameer
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Hey Doc...

Aap bahut aage soch lete ho!!😆😆

Lest we all forget we are here talking of 16 year olds...yes...they are supposed to know a lot of things but their understanding of their world is largely shaped by what they see around them.

Naina for instance has seen a parent who has always been dismissive of her. She also has seen an aunt and uncle (Taiji & Tauji) who never miss an opportunity to run down her father or blame her for the misfortunes that the family faces. She has also had abundant love in the form of a close knit family of sister, brother and aunt and uncle ( Chachi and Chacha) who let her see the bright side of her life. So, while she has had shocks she has also has had shock absorbers in her life. So, she grows up in a conservative household which have social mores that are different from Sameer's life. Having a different yardstick of viewing things. A case in point...her strong support system in Chanchi and Chachi are experiencing a hurricane in their life and the boy she was keen to see as Prince Charming turned to be a toad.. So Expecting Naina to stand up at this juncture when the support system she has is so shaky is a herculean task. Ltho she may well do stand up to all that is wrong in her life in the future ( CVs ki ichha par),

But just for a moment, I want to throw a curve ball at this juncture in terms of how we read Rakesh as a character. I don't have to write anything about what we already know of him ...we all seem in agreement that he is an insufferable character.😕

But just for a moment...let's think of this a little differently. We know that Rakesh suffers deep seated insecurity issues. There are a lot of people who face those issues. Achievers and Non achievers...the world always puts them in two baskets. An achiever is celebrated while a non achiever or a laggard in life is often the butt of ridicule,jokes and insults. It can cause serious lack of self esteem in such people. Yet, people may be different in the way they deal with the pressure. Either they may withdraw into a shell when insulted or become bitter as Rakesh. Yes, there is also a more mature way to handle it by encouraging others where one has failed but does that always come easily to people? Mostly insecure people fall in the earlier mentioned baskets. The only thing in this story, we don't know how a withdrawn Rakesh (sehma hua) would have been if that was his character sketch. The writers placed a difficult and bitter Rakesh for a purpose...and a bhoj ke tale dhaba Arjun in Naina's life for a purpose. So maybe we can sit back and enjoy the dyanamics of what a free spirited Sameer in the equation will do. He is the hawa ka jhonka...let's enjoy him!!

As for parasitic and problematic part of the relationship...I will just say this , a relationship between two equals in a bond of love cannot be seen in terms of who brings in how much wealth into the equation.

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Originally posted by: braveheartdoc

We need to wait for the characters to progress over time... I agree that if she doesn't put her foot down for the rghteous person and his acts... Sameer is in for a terrible life ahead... but as we have seen... she can go to any extent for her love... so hopefully as Sameer has grown as a person... she too would realise her fault... and then I would say...she would rise in his love😃

Sameer has risen in her love but she is yet to realize that 😳


Hi Brave,

Thanks for commenting. You are very right.

However, just saw today's episode and its not at all a relaxing watch anymore.

Today's episode just emphasized on the TOXIC RELATION I Mentioned.

Rakesh from TODAY is trying to extract 5 lakhs from SAMEER and his NANU. Signs of things to come if Sameer Marries Naina. (I am sure Naina will support her father or keep quiet)

In the precap, Naina is seeing her SACCHA brother spitting on Sameer. I don't say Sameer is correct but who is correct in this situation? NONE.

But Sameer has redeemed himself by accepting his mistake and putting effort to change.

However, Rakesh, Arjun, and Naina are falling to the deepest levels of self-centeredness.

Rakesh after Sameer's or His Nanaji's money.

Arjun & Naina finding all the fault with Sameer but not even aware of their doings even in the slightest way. And how poorly character of Arjun is being shown. He is behaving like next Rakesh.

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