Originally posted by: prem_diwani
I had to stop bu here after seing todays episode...
Seeing the matlabi idea of the other uncle made me cringe... So now O bai Aunt wants to make friends for the naanu's connection.
Poor Sameer. Naina I hoped loved him for his nature and that's changed now till she can face her duplicity and clear the air.
Hi There, this is what I meant by PARASITIC RELATIONSHIP for Sameer.
Rakesh already trying to extract 5 Lakhs from Sameer & Nanu.
Arjun/Naina already implicated Sameer in a false charge for a crime that Arjun committed. Sameer has been getting all the insults for that until today.
Sameer by default has been helping Naina much more than Naina helped Sameer (even when Sameer had not realized his love). Sameer gets abused, beaten left, right & center by her hero brother and father. But Naina is silent.
Naina, until today, has not revealed the paper stealing truth and lets Sameer gets insulted for it by other and HER Father and Brother (the real culprit).
You would recall that Naina accepted Sameer's Sorry only when she came to know that Sameer was innocent on paper stealing. Then suddenly Sameer became good for her again.
So, she wants a good boy but she wouldn't take any step to prove the good boy innocent. Why? She might love Sameer but he is not bigger than his brother (the real paper thief).
From now itself Naina's family members are discussing Sameer's Financial Strong Heritage and how it will be beneficial to them. (Obai, Tauji & Chachiji)
In all these Naina is silent.
But she is still angry at Sameer for the betrayal. She is right in that. However, it is expected that SHE MUST UNDERSTAND HOW SELFISH SHE AND HER CLAN HAS BEEN WITH SAMEER.
In a real-life scenario, this is a perfect example of classic PARASITIC RELATIONSHIP where one partner just wants another to give, give and give until nothing is left to give.
Naina's understanding of love is - LOVE ME, LOVE MY FAMILY, DO EVERYTHING FOR MY FAMILY, GET BEATEN & ABUSED BY MY BRO/FATHER. But do not expect me to stand by you when you are right and my family is wrong. My family is never wrong!
It's a dangerous situation for any boy including Sameer.
I stopped replying to my post as I felt many objected to it. But I believe, what I said is not completely incorrect.
Another argument many readers gave, Naina is only 16. Well, in that case, Sameer is just 17. So, age in reel life and most importantly in real life can never be used to justify wrong selfish deeds. One must acknowledge it.
In the current track progression, things will seem correct only when Naina clears Sameer of the false accusations when she finally melts seeing the struggle that Sameer is going through.
Until that happens, I guess if Sameer ends up with Naina in Marriage, it will be highly toxic for him. The entire Naina clan and most importantly Rakesh, Arjun will take advantage of Sameer in all possible ways and Naina will, as usual, keep quiet (considering the present state in the show).
I hope the makers do not forget this issue and address it.
What I feel is the moment Naina softens towards Sameer seeing her dedication the truth will be out. Not that Naina will reveal it. But Sameer will get to know it by chance.
Though Sameer is in love, this revelation will dent his trust in Nanina. Because the paper stealing insult was a big issue for him that made him do the wrong thing by betting on a girl's feelings.
So, now it must be Naina's turn to ask for his forgiveness and struggle to reach Sameer. She must feel the pain of her double standards which has affected Sameer so much. She must feel her hypocrisy in regards to her family. If Sameer's love is really that important for her, she must ask forgiveness from Sameer just like Sameer asked/struggled to get forgiveness for Naina.
Edited by Dr.Don - 7 years ago