Originally posted by: abhilasha_dream
After watching the episode , my 2 cents.
Is insulting your parents , new way of saving your husband's life ?Even during Bhoot track, Ishita pushed her mother, scared her to wits and even strangled her to keep the momentum. Today Mihika insulted her Periamma when she was struggling to get her breathing and BP to normal . She threw glass of wine on her face.Both the times , reason was same - "Raman's life in danger, no other option."Secondly, is it worth it after listening to all the choicest words of Raman and him behaving / acting like a husband to Mihika.I think ammas outburst was unexpected...that was not a part of the plan...mihka was hurt..that's very clear...simmi provoked and she took to to the extreme...which was not needed...she could've just wAlked away..To me it's nit worth it...but ishuta knows he's suffering from ml..but ..but..but...we can see something else laterRaman and his memory loss.Can memory loss make you start behaving this nasty ? Even if you are being protective about Mihika like a family member would be, but the words chosen like "meri hone wali biwi " will not be erased and audience would relate your action to something else itself. This behaviour needs proper justification otherwise it cannot be pushed under the rug. This only shows how ready he is for marriage and obviously Ishita is forcing herself onto him using his memory loss card, when in reality he is simply not interested in her. So she is wrong here.This is the reason we didn't want brudeswap...he's clearly moving on, and not interested and ishu is forcing herself..this is exactly what we were saying here...it's not going to be nice hereon..That meri hone waki biwi...that possessiveness that absolute rught ..she's his... that cannot be erased from our minds..I don't want to hear combos of that line for ishu from a Raman...it's etched in us and can never forget,,its insulting to ishuta abd isgra as a couple,Mihika, Raman, RomiIf Raman doesn't have a plan, can Raman's relationship with Romi and Mihika go down the same lane -- NOOO.Not only with Raman but can Romi ever forget that his parents were happy to get his wife married to their elder brother , not taking his feelings into account at all. Doesn't this show his value , his emotions value in their life ? Will he be able to respect these trio now ? Will even Mihika be able to respect this trio now after she learnt hoe little do they think about her husband ?Nope...not the same... I don't care fir mihika...but romi...I feel bad for him..Will Romi ever be able to forget that his elder brother was ready to marry his wife happily ?Technically no..he shouldn't ...The whole dynamics has changed now..How much ever Mihika would try to pacify herself that it was her BIL touching her like an elder brother but can she deny / erase the fact from her mind that it actually wasn't but instead it was a fiancess touch, and whatever moments they spent together was not normal but a couples moment.Good point...to her it's hr bil...to raman it's fiance...and their moments...It's eww ...crass and disgusting...cvs don't think like we do..that much Inyo human emotions and realistic approach...aPihu 's words - " What kind of an example do you want to set for your kids ?"These words were use in some other context in the episode but I would use it for some other Here.Ishita allowed her parents to be insulted and also insulted them at times, so hasn't she set an example for her kids that it's OK to get your parents insulted for your own benefit. Maybe this is the reason , why kids do not raise up their voice when Simmi, Param and all blasts Ishita coz for them it's ok. As long as they get to keep their tag of ''Raman Bhalla" in their names, it's ok to see their mother get insulted for no reason....as parents both ishuta and raman were failiues...raman is the leader here...