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Posted: 9 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: Veeann

That tightwala hug though after so long


I feel so warm and mushy from within when I see them get all cosy! The feels thou

It's sheer bliss, I tell you! If only we got those tight wale huggy more often! But man, I can't wait for this one! It's after SO long!! 😃

*that goofy smile on my face* says it all! 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
#22

Originally posted by: -CasKett-

Uff! CVs pls stop this old uncle aunty track. We want Adi Aliya new gen love track




Joh IshRa se jale... Vo log todha Side se chale.. ..The Karan Patel Style
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: QueSeraSera


Hey Priya I honestly want to see what leads up to this and what follows it because we do know that IshRa are getting married and hopefully that happens without a hitch, well as few as possible 😆

But at this point I am not sure whats the significance of this scene.

Because for me #HopeNeverDies is now a joke 😳

As for Pihu learning about Shaggy, the kid needs a sense of what is right and wrong to differentiate to begin with. Her moral compass is completely screwed as per me.

She believes Shaggy and is okay with Mani and her marriage but is absurdly against IshRa and family, which I cant understand for the life of me.

Under normal circumstances, if a child sees his or her parents seperate and move on to new partners - the said child has to hold hate for those new partners irrelevant of who moved on first and with whom among mummy and daddy.

Pihu is cordial and civil with Mani, because she wants to please Shaggy; however he from where Pihu stands is now her stepfather and how is so accepting of him if she still doesnt wish to give him the position of her father and stated it belongs to only Raman simply.

I would understand a child adapting and liking a stepparent over their biological counterpart if that parent was awful and abusive towards them and didnt hold or incite any ounce of love and loyalty - however Raman adored Pihu so completely.

If she hates Ishita for assuming she is the reason her parents split, she should hate Mani too as per me.


Agree Aani. That is where is the biggest disconnect with Pihu lies for all of us.. Is she really so dumb ? If so, how is that she becomes smart enough when it comes to connecting the dots and talking like an adult, when it comes to Ishita, Raman & the family & insulting them?😕.

Regarding her accepting Mani, I have a feeling if Shagun would have told her that unless she is cordial with him, Mani would not allow her to stay with Shagun. Since the kid cannot see anything beyond her mumma, she might feel that accepting Mani is the wise option. Otherwise, as you say, the kid should hate Mani too, given her experiences, she has with SKS as well.

Regarding the significance of this dream, since the remarriage hint is thrown, I chose to have this one final hope. If not , no issues.. We have had so many expectations and hopes go down the drain. . So we are immune to the BKTs CVs give us.😆
Edited by priyadarshini.r - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: priyadarshini.r


Agree Aani. That is where is the biggest disconnect with Pihu lies for all of us.. Is she really so dumb ? If so, how is that she becomes smart enough when it comes to connecting the dots and talking like an adult, when it comes to Ishita, Raman & the family & insulting them?😕.

Regarding her accepting Mani, I have a feeling if Shagun would have told her that unless she is cordial with him, Mani would not allow her to stay with Shagun. Since the kid cannot see anything beyond her mumma, she might feel that accepting Mani is the wise option. Otherwise, as you say, the kid should hate Mani too, given her experiences, she has with SKS as well.

Regarding the significance of this dream, since the remarriage hint is thrown, I chose to have this one final hope. If not , no issues.. We have had so many expectations and hopes go down the drain. . So we are immune to the BKTs CVs give us.😆


Thats the catch here Priya

CVs have no idea what to do with Pihu absolutely.

She is a character they cant do with nor without because of RD.

Like in Hindi we have a saying Gale ki haddi na nigle bane na ugle - they cant remove her because as iron baby she survived surrogacy no matter what happened with Shaggy - crocodiles, bullet wounds, jumping from roofs or dancing while shot and bleeding 😆😆

They wanted to make Shaggy have her and so they did - irrationally for that IshRa had to be seperated which did too but now that they want to reunite IshRa in holy matrimony they're clueless how to go about with Pihu and her sudden attachment with only Shaggy.

And I know for Shaggy only she is nice to Mani but shouldn't she wonder once why is it that if her mom is saying she was forced to marry Mani by this random aunty is no one heartbroken to see her out of the family?

Shouldnt she wonder why Adi the brother she has always known, a son of her mother is not hating and retailating against her father and Ishita when he is so much older than her and should support Shaggy.

As a child she has been manipulated, brainwashed by Shaggy fine - but where is that brain of hers which is sharp enough to keep up with the plot twists of her insanely loved Saajan Ka Sasural but fails to comprehend the dynamics of members within her own family?

She once asked Raman mama never shared room with you though mamas and papas do live together in one but never once wondered the reason behind it before Ishita came to live with the family 🤔
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Tfs aani 😊
Hmm ishu unwell and now getting hurt😕 in Raman's dream makes me wonder if this will move to ishra remarriage by Raman realising he cannot live if something happens to ishita 😳😳and thus prioritizing her over pihu and accepting AA annoyance and getting married to ishita. 😆😉It wud be good to see as this wud mean ishra remarriage for their own sake in a twisted way though.😆😆

For now I will enjoy lollipops wid a side hug , romancing ishra and a shaken puttar and the tight wala proper Huggie...😳

I want pihu to be left alone for sometime wid shagmani especially shaguniya to make her realise who actually her real mumma is ..🤬..and how she is using her.🤢😡
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: shivangi838

Tfs aani 😊

Hmm ishu unwell and now getting hurt😕 in Raman's dream makes me wonder if this will move to ishra remarriage by Raman realising he cannot live if something happens to ishita 😳😳and thus prioritizing her over pihu and accepting AA annoyance and getting married to ishita. 😆😉It wud be good to see as this wud mean ishra remarriage for their own sake in a twisted way though.😆😆

For now I will enjoy lollipops wid a side hug , romancing ishra and a shaken puttar and the tight wala proper Huggie...😳

I want pihu to be left alone for sometime wid shagmani especially shaguniya to make her realise who actually her real mumma is ..🤬..and how she is using her.🤢😡


I just saw U me tv segment and noticed that Raman is in the same clothes in both the segments.

So their argument/discussion about Pihu is before this nightmare.

So perhaps its safe to say that Raman has this nightmare because he feels that like it happened in the past when they picked one kid over the other in the heat of the moment, its happening now.

Back then he chose to exchange Ruhi for Pihu and ended up losing both Ishita and Ruhi for years.

Not only was his child' life spoiled for 7 long years because of a decision made hastily but he also lost the woman he loved, the love of his life and all because he couldnt hold his anger and tongue.

There are strangely parallels here - if he choses to ignore Adi for what happened with Pihu he can lose Adi and in his fear of not driving away Pihu he can lose Ishita because she might feel he is pushing her away or leave him on her own so that Pihu would come back to him - in either case they lose one another again.

To me, IshRa are not marrying for anyone else - but themselves here, at least that is what I think is happening, unless they screw it and I dont harbor any fantasies of that not happening absolutely.

Why I say IshRa are doing this for themselves is though because with the condition put forth by dadi they would have two ways to go about it - yes, they are living in together but they have not solemnised their relationship again partly because they are holding back due to Pihu.

With this condition they would be confronting the question that they have been avoiding for long - what exactly is the future of this relationship - are we ready to seal the deal and move on again finally?

In their hearts they never stopped being married - which is why Raman is pissed when Ishtia calls herself single and twists her arm, literally - telling her until he is alive she can never be single, but that doesnt change what is considered legally.

Ishita moved back in with Raman once Pihu was gone but that irrational sword of fear never stopped looming over their heads - what if Pihu doesnt accept us and our relationship?

Now they would have to confront this long pending question - whether they are strong enough to stay together and believe that they would somehow one day win back their daughter or would the fear empower them and their future completely - fear born of the anger and hate of a child, who they know is brainwashed and manipulated by a woman who never would wish anything other than ill.


I am sure Shagun would somehow be responsible for Alu' dadi learning of IshRa' marital status and assume this would break not only Adi Alu and score brownie points with Mani but even if it doesnt work then she would put IshRa in a precarious position where they can either chose to unite lawfully and legally and make Adi happy but lose even the hope of winning back Pihu entirely or they can chose to live in together but lose favor with their son and in either ways become and stay miserable, cause this would pit Adi versus Pihu for IshRa strangely.

They would have to chose what makes one kid happy but lose favor with the other over it completely.

And naturally - Adi doesnt deserve to pine for what his mother plots and they are already not making much progress with Pihu so the decision is a no brainer completely.

Regarding what makes Pihu understand what Shaggy is - we shall cross that bridge when it comes to it because right now the kid isnt even thinking or making comparisions between the two people she has always known as parents - Shaggy and Raman, so the question of her reaching to the conclusion Shaggy is evil is beyond questions.

Once the kid starts comprehending and comparing can only she understand and make a right decision.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: QueSeraSera


I just saw U me tv segment and noticed that Raman is in the same clothes in both the segments.

So their argument/discussion about Pihu is before this nightmare.

So perhaps its safe to say that Raman has this nightmare because he feels that like it happened in the past when they picked one kid over the other in the heat of the moment, its happening now.

Back then he chose to exchange Ruhi for Pihu and ended up losing both Ishita and Ruhi for years.

Not only was his child' life spoiled for 7 long years because of a decision made hastily but he also lost the woman he loved, the love of his life and all because he couldnt hold his anger and tongue.

There are strangely parallels here - if he choses to ignore Adi for what happened with Pihu he can lose Adi and in his fear of not driving away Pihu he can lose Ishita because she might feel he is pushing her away or leave him on her own so that Pihu would come back to him - in either case they lose one another again.

To me, IshRa are not marrying for anyone else - but themselves here, at least that is what I think is happening, unless they screw it and I dont harbor any fantasies of that not happening absolutely.

Why I say IshRa are doing this for themselves is though because with the condition put forth by dadi they would have two ways to go about it - yes, they are living in together but they have not solemnised their relationship again partly because they are holding back due to Pihu.

With this condition they would be confronting the question that they have been avoiding for long - what exactly is the future of this relationship - are we ready to seal the deal and move on again finally?

In their hearts they never stopped being married - which is why Raman is pissed when Ishtia calls herself single and twists her arm, literally - telling her until he is alive she can never be single, but that doesnt change what is considered legally.

Ishita moved back in with Raman once Pihu was gone but that irrational sword of fear never stopped looming over their heads - what if Pihu doesnt accept us and our relationship?

Now they would have to confront this long pending question - whether they are strong enough to stay together and believe that they would somehow one day win back their daughter or would the fear empower them and their future completely - fear born of the anger and hate of a child, who they know is brainwashed and manipulated by a woman who never would wish anything other than ill.


I am sure Shagun would somehow be responsible for Alu' dadi learning of IshRa' marital status and assume this would break not only Adi Alu and score brownie points with Mani but even if it doesnt work then she would put IshRa in a precarious position where they can either chose to unite lawfully and legally and make Adi happy but lose even the hope of winning back Pihu entirely or they can chose to live in together but lose favor with their son and in either ways become and stay miserable, cause this would pit Adi versus Pihu for IshRa strangely.

They would have to chose what makes one kid happy but lose favor with the other over it completely.

And naturally - Adi doesnt deserve to pine for what his mother plots and they are already not making much progress with Pihu so the decision is a no brainer completely.

Regarding what makes Pihu understand what Shaggy is - we shall cross that bridge when it comes to it because right now the kid isnt even thinking or making comparisions between the two people she has always known as parents - Shaggy and Raman, so the question of her reaching to the conclusion Shaggy is evil is beyond questions.

Once the kid starts comprehending and comparing can only she understand and make a right decision.


Dear I really don't understand yhm cvs pov regarding this pihu track how much I try mrs Sonali interview mad it worse audiences know shagun as mother since years, what difference between pihu adi ya ruhi shagun did same with them what's new yhm cv's want to show us

now it's too late pihu to know truth , pihu will believe truth from shagun mouth only
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Posted: 9 years ago
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The same story is getting repeated for the umpteenth time.
Only the timeline n the names of the kids have changed.
Being sensible would mean opting for one's spouse over his/her child.
Under custody rules of yhm,the pihu has actually chosen shags as her foster mom.
When pihu is happy, it would be wrong to give her extra info.
Where ignorance is bliss, it is folly to be wise.
Ishra can let things be.
Whynot think about adi n ruhi alone for a while.
When shags lost custody of both her bio kids,n ishra got them,why can't shags have pihu?
Good or bad,a mom is a mom.
This is pihu's world.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: 3fra


Dear I really don't understand yhm cvs pov regarding this pihu track how much I try mrs Sonali interview mad it worse audiences know shagun as mother since years, what difference between pihu adi ya ruhi shagun did same with them what's new yhm cv's want to show us

now it's too late pihu to know truth , pihu will believe truth from shagun mouth only



Audience do know Shaggy but there are and were people who also wanted Pihu to stay with Shaggy because they believed that she not only gave birth to her but also raised her in Ishita' absence and thought she is the one who deserves Pihu over Ishita rightly.

What they are showing now is nature versus nurture in a different way.

So far we saw Ishita' influence on two children who were raised by her but not related to her by blood, the same is the case with Pihu and Shaggy - Shaggy gave birth to her yes, but Pihu is biologically not her daughter.

People did believe that if raising children is the standard by which someone can be considered a mother than that logic applies to Pihu and Shaggy as well and not just Ishita and Ruhi.

By showing the way in which Pihu is raised by Shaggy Sonali and her team are showing that Pihu was a different child when she was in a loving home raised by her whole family as compared to what she is now with Shaggy,


They are showing that when a parent truly does love a child they would never wish them to learn hate and the kind of things Shaggy is teaching Pihu, rather a loving parent would do what Raman once did for Adi, even though he knew that it would make Adi hate him more for his son's better future and to make him understand the gravity of his mistake he surrendered Adi to a juvenile court.

Raman rose above eventually and made a choice that was for Adi' good over his love for him. Something which we know Shaggy can never do.

Because they showed that Shaggy raised her for seven years, they made Pihu attached to her, but that attachment cannot end overnight nor can she accept Ishita in a jiffy.

Here it is not about who is a good mother or bad, it is about parenting and how claims of love are not enough - what matters is given a chance to raise a child what kind of a person do you as a parent raise them to be.

Slowly and surely, they are gonna show why despite her raising Pihu Shaggy is neither a mother who deserves Pihu nor is she worth of being called a mother in the first place really.

They are making sure Shaggy has no supporters slowly and steadily

Edited by QueSeraSera - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Tfs aani 😊
Hmm ishu unwell and now getting hurt😕 in Raman's dream makes me wonder if this will move to ishra remarriage by Raman realising he cannot live if something happens to ishita 😳😳and thus prioritizing her over pihu and accepting AA annoyance and getting married to ishita. 😆😉It wud be good to see as this wud mean ishra remarriage for their own sake in a twisted way though.😆😆

For now I will enjoy lollipops wid a side hug , romancing ishra and a shaken puttar and the tight wala proper Huggie...😳

I want pihu to be left alone for sometime wid shagmani especially shaguniya to make her realise who actually her real mumma is ..🤬..and how she is using her.🤢😡
If her dream of getting on to Mere Raman goes away, she may herself spill the beans, because it seems she has really no concern for Pihu, but holding her to bring back Raman to her.

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