SBAS - 14/10 - WU Added - Page 4

Originally posted by: QueSeraSera

I just saw U me tv segment and noticed that Raman is in the same clothes in both the segments.

So their argument/discussion about Pihu is before this nightmare.

So perhaps its safe to say that Raman has this nightmare because he feels that like it happened in the past when they picked one kid over the other in the heat of the moment, its happening now.

Back then he chose to exchange Ruhi for Pihu and ended up losing both Ishita and Ruhi for years.

Not only was his child' life spoiled for 7 long years because of a decision made hastily but he also lost the woman he loved, the love of his life and all because he couldnt hold his anger and tongue.

There are strangely parallels here - if he choses to ignore Adi for what happened with Pihu he can lose Adi and in his fear of not driving away Pihu he can lose Ishita because she might feel he is pushing her away or leave him on her own so that Pihu would come back to him - in either case they lose one another again.

To me, IshRa are not marrying for anyone else - but themselves here, at least that is what I think is happening, unless they screw it and I dont harbor any fantasies of that not happening absolutely.

Why I say IshRa are doing this for themselves is though because with the condition put forth by dadi they would have two ways to go about it - yes, they are living in together but they have not solemnised their relationship again partly because they are holding back due to Pihu.

With this condition they would be confronting the question that they have been avoiding for long - what exactly is the future of this relationship - are we ready to seal the deal and move on again finally?

In their hearts they never stopped being married - which is why Raman is pissed when Ishtia calls herself single and twists her arm, literally - telling her until he is alive she can never be single, but that doesnt change what is considered legally.

Ishita moved back in with Raman once Pihu was gone but that irrational sword of fear never stopped looming over their heads - what if Pihu doesnt accept us and our relationship?

Now they would have to confront this long pending question - whether they are strong enough to stay together and believe that they would somehow one day win back their daughter or would the fear empower them and their future completely - fear born of the anger and hate of a child, who they know is brainwashed and manipulated by a woman who never would wish anything other than ill.

I am sure Shagun would somehow be responsible for Alu' dadi learning of IshRa' marital status and assume this would break not only Adi Alu and score brownie points with Mani but even if it doesnt work then she would put IshRa in a precarious position where they can either chose to unite lawfully and legally and make Adi happy but lose even the hope of winning back Pihu entirely or they can chose to live in together but lose favor with their son and in either ways become and stay miserable, cause this would pit Adi versus Pihu for IshRa strangely.

They would have to chose what makes one kid happy but lose favor with the other over it completely.

And naturally - Adi doesnt deserve to pine for what his mother plots and they are already not making much progress with Pihu so the decision is a no brainer completely.

Regarding what makes Pihu understand what Shaggy is - we shall cross that bridge when it comes to it because right now the kid isnt even thinking or making comparisions between the two people she has always known as parents - Shaggy and Raman, so the question of her reaching to the conclusion Shaggy is evil is beyond questions.

Once the kid starts comprehending and comparing can only she understand and make a right decision.