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Posted: 9 years ago
#11
She also wants to be happy. She want her family so she agreed to marry raman. And how can we say that shagun left manoj for not only pihu but also as she was having any hope that raman will accept her someday again. And shagun has also taken care of pihu since 7 years and it was not shaguns decision not to tell anything about ishita but whole family was hiding this truth.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#12
Nobody asked her to care of pihu..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: MissRight



I dont think a custody case is possible cause Ishita is the biological mother, not Shagun... Neither is Shagun Raman's legal wife, nor has she adopted Pihu... So technically, Shagun is just the foster or the surrogate mother and Ishu has more rights than her...

lekin jagat mata ishu is there na..she will say agar pihu ko shagun ke paas rehna hai tho usko rehne dho..children should not get affected...she will say all these dualogues..she will allow shagun to talk with pihu..shagun will change pihu mind against ishra...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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whoa whoa wait...
From when the person who v hire for surrogacy can claim the rights n fight for custody 😲 Okk tats a news for me...i thought surrogacy Mothers were paid for this...Silly me so according to some mahaan analysts in the forum even Nanny can apply for custody 🤣
Shagun n the word mother in the same sentence is nothing but a joke 🥱
No mother will manipulate her child n use her for selfish motives...
If some ppl thinks she is ready to compete for best mother Award then ask her to tell the truth to pihu n let her choose.. coz ishu always made sure ruhi knows everything about her biological mother unlike Shagun. .So no comparison over there...
If she really has trust on her upbringing then let pihu know the truth else she can go to hell.. The least we care 😳
Ps: I have no sympathy for the so called mother who uses her child for selfish motives 😡
Edited by PinkRose95 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: PinkRose95

whoa whoa wait...
From when the person who v hire for surrogacy can claim the rights n fight for custody 😲 Okk tats a news for me...i thought surrogacy Mothers were paid for this...Silly me so according to some mahaan analysts in the forum even Nanny can apply for custody 🤣
Shagun n the word mother in the same sentence is nothing but a joke 🥱
No mother will manipulate her child n use her for selfish motives...
If some ppl thinks she is ready to compete for best mother Award then ask her to tell the truth to pihu n let her choose.. coz ishu always made sure ruhi knows everything about her biological mother unlike Shagun. .So no comparison over there...
If she really has trust on her upbringing then let pihu know the truth else she can go to hell.. The least we care 😳
Ps: I have no sympathy for the so called mother who uses her child for selfish motives 😡



well said.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sanjana212

She also wants to be happy. She want her family so she agreed to marry raman. And how can we say that shagun left manoj for not only pihu but also as she was having any hope that raman will accept her someday again. And shagun has also taken care of pihu since 7 years and it was not shaguns decision not to tell anything about ishita but whole family was hiding this truth.




Bt dn hw cna u justify f fact dat she didnt even cared for ruhi...
yday whn news broke out dat nidhi is alive so dat clearly gives hope dat ruhi might b alive too..
dn y d hell she ws stil in shock dat her marraige broke n no sign of happiness for ruhi..
she is a chnged person.. a good one.. dn y only thinking bout herself...
a mother can nevr b such..
in hotel, whn raman ws consoling ishita.. she jst bombarded wid blaming her dat she broke her marriage bt didnt asked whethr whr is ruhi n is she alive..

no doubt dat shagun took care of pihu al dese 7yrs bt nw dat love n care has been overpowered by her selfishness..
n a mother is alwys selfless whn it cums to her kids..
she dosnt differentiater between her two kids..

so clearly shagun is nt a mother.. she is jst an AAYA..a caretaker who has attachment wid only one person of whom she is taking care..
n a caretaker has no right over a kid..

Shagun is an insult to a mother...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Always leave people free..
If dey r ur dn dey vl surly cum back,
n if dey dont dn accept dat dey were never ur...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I think like how Ruhi chose Ishita, Pihu too should have the same choice but ofcourse she must me made aware of Ishita being her biological mother.

If she chooses Shagun which I think she will- Shagun should not interfere between Ishita and Raman and live her life with dignity only as Pihu's mother :)
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Yes I do agree with your point that Shagun has full right on Pihu because she has raised Pihu for 7 years and treated her like as its her own daughter.
But it's not fair to hide the fact from Pihu about her real mother. Pihu has full right to know about her real mother Ishita. And I think it's the right time now for Shagun to tell the truth to Pihu. No one is snatching Pihu from Shagun. Atleast after knowing the truth, Pihu can decide who she wants to stay with. So no one to be can blamed here, in this case.

Also as you compared Ishita-Ruhi with Shagun-Pihu scenario, it's like Comapring Apples with Oranges lol.😆
Shagun clearly left Ruhi to fulfil her personal desires (luxury life style) whereas Ishita didn't left Pihu, she had an accident where everyone assumed she was dead. Plus Raman also called her curse and said not to return back in their life (something like that) - That was the most Harsh thing to say.
Edited by Arjuhi-KMH - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#20
I'm sorry but i can't agree with you. Ishita never even forced herself to become ruhi's mother with the intention of wanting to marry raman, ruhi chose ishita as her mother.
Also shagun's love for pihu is not unconditional the way ishita's is for ruhi, which was proved through shagun's convo with mihir. Shagun said it doesn't even matter if ruhi is alive as she loves ishita and considers ishita as her mother. Who the hell says that about their own child? Shagun was never a good mother to ruhi but this shocked me. This only proves that shagun's love for pihu is only because pihu considers shagun her mother and loves her unlike ruhi. Shagun has been living as pihu's mother in bhalla house for these years with the growing hope that one day raman would marry her. So shagun did have hidden intentions behind looking after ruhi. She probably didn't when she left manoj to look after pihu, but her intentions surely did change the longer she stayed under the same roof as raman.

Ishita still has the right over ruhi as her biological mother, and pihu has full rights to know about ishita ans bond with her, which shagun cannot deny as ishita never denied her the right to speak to her children. Shagun has always thought about her self-interests, which has always been a part of her nature.

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