Thank You Star Plus & Balaji CVs For The Insenstivity and Lessons - Page 6

Aani...WORD!!!!!👍🏼👏👏

wonderful post Aani 👍🏼👏
i really hope they take note & make some changes 😡
as per the info I got ...right now the plan is to have Shagun surrogate ishra baby ..there is no twist in that its REAL 🤢🤔

Sigh. It repulses me how they have become so insensitive to women in general.

yes..very needed post

N if they say they are just reflecting whats happening in the society will not be wrong..but i believe they should set right example...show what happens when you cross the line..the production house needs to take a strong stand..

Aani! Wow, what a post. My adoration for what this show was, I hope, doesn't need to be repeated. My very first Desi serial. In a language that I didn't understand... but one look at Ruhi and her bond with Ishita... how could I resist? And my Raavan Kumar, the original Raman...everything I love in a fictional hero- the rude , brash , misunderstood hero with a heart of gold who never fully looses his tarnished edges. I was hooked. And when I heard the infertility angle, there was no looking back. Despite the fact that I didn't know the language, that in order to understand i had to read WU and then watch- I did because it was more then worth it for me. And then came Mani, and for me- the beginning of the end.

With him came the kind of MUs and character ripping that the show has never been able to shake off. I love the nuances of the show, not just the relationships but the little moments, the underlying understanding and sensitivity with which the real moments , not those that were included for the benefit of a drama's sake were handled. The best thing about the show is always the real moments, those which were so prominent when they lived in the apartments and began to disappear rapidly post Mani in the new PH. Sensitivity, nuance, all of that went out the window in the name of the TRP race and the drama.

The last episode I watched and enjoyed regularly was, I think, their anniversary... and that I held on that long is a miracle. These days I tune in at times out of sheer boredom or coincidence and I simply do not recognize the show anymore. The characters are now caricatures and the tracks are beyond insulting.

Clearly the CVs have no care for basic research or sensitivity to the audience that helped them earn their place- their target is now different and honestly I'm okay with that. I choose not to watch a show where the CVs do not respect the audience nor care about the product- because if they did care, what we see on our screens would look dramatically different. We deserve better, and we know it... sadly, the CVs still think we don't . DIVAN can only take a show so far... and soon the CVs will learn that i think as a mass exodus seem to be eminent.

As for another show, I am going to join Shravu and Genie and say- KY2, season 1. A show which illustrates the development of of a relationship in every step. A hate story that turned into a fairy tale about beauty and her beast. A show or rather a couple where every breakup has a reason, where communication , hope and trust is not just a word said in passing. And most importantly for me, a show about respect. Trust is something that both shows discussed, that almost all shows discuss. But on KY2 and with MANAN, it's not a passing statement nor is it a blind faith- trust is established and even when it's tested, the base statement from them is always, 'I trust you and when you are ready you can tell me but know that I am always here, even if you are unable to tell me what your problem is you have my support.'

Respect- specifically from Manik to Nandini. He respects her, her thoughts, her decisions , her rights over her body and her limits. Not just that, but, for the most part the CVs, specially Richa Yaimini , respect their audience. The fanbase is female and they know it, they give us the promised fairytale but in it we get a heroine that is just as flawed as the hero, she never changes into a flawless being, her weakness are always there, they are just relieved by his strengths. They may just be kids compared to ISHRA, but MANAN sometimes seem far more mature, especially in their dialogues and understanding of each other and what it takes to create and maintain a lasting and equal partnership.

I could go on and on about them , but perhaps the best way I can explain its appeal is this- as far I can recall, the YHM fans have also had some sort of issue with Ekta and her characterization, and that dissatisfaction only continues to increase; KY2 fans on the other hands adore Richa Yamini, created multiple threads just to thank her, and unilaterally praise her from the start.

For me, with both MANAN and ISHRA the pull of the characters was beauty and the beast trope. But the fact is only MANAN maintained the complexity of the story and the depth of characterization even after they fall in love and show how two flawed people can not just fall in love but balance each other other and carry each other forward to create their own love story.

ISHRA started out the same, but then, somewhere along the way Ishita changed, and then Raman, and then it seemed Ruhi was forgotten and the ISHRARU I fell in love with was left behind in the embers of that first apartment fire and what emerged thereafter were caricatures that seemed to have forgotten who thry were overnight.

I cannot believe how far this show has fallen, but I guess that's what the TRP race, and the TRP audience does... and boy am I glad I am not that if this is what is on offer for me...but if ever the CVs want to attract to their original audience I have a suggestion- make everything that happened before Mani's entrance Raman's horrible dream, and put them back in their old home. It wouldn't be the craziest track this show has ever screened would it?

I remember Raman once said that Mani's was a Shani in his life, how true that was I never realized... until now.🤢

PS: KY2 season 1 maintained its spot in the top 10 TRPs while giving a meaningful love story- just saying...😛

Ishus infertility is one of d main reason fr me to hooking to dis shw..nd later DivAn made me hook...d pain ishu went through fr dat wrd bhaanj nd dat realistic portrayal made me cry...Ishu delivering pooja nd dat moment wen she delivered dat kid.. i still remember i had watched dat epi so many times..I blamed god dat women deserves to b mother,why she is nt blessed wid dat Natures gift..Motherhood is one of d beautiful phases of a women's life..(im nt married yet)..i watched it fr nature vs nurture..Ishu proved dat she is d best mother nd we hav examples too..im ok if dey dnt shw ishu preggy...but as a viewer i want dat track to come..i wanna watch out hw dis track wil b presented..d shw dwnfall started wid mani entry..but fr dis ishu pregnancy track nd fr DivAn i watched wateva shit dey throwed under our throats..butchering of characters beyond repair..making FL devi during sautan track..we viewers vented out but fr our dissappointed dey gave a long script to ishu justifying wat she is doing fr raman..(remember ishu telling her amma after ishra pooja)..nd d news of leap broke out..my dreams shattered..trending starts..nd i dnt knw hw to tweet but retweeted some..nd i called SP nd asked to stop dis leap..nd later i stopped trending nd d reason is..den along wid dis shw..i watch ky2..just bfr d trending..in ky2 der is a track whr we r unable to relate to FL..nd dey didn't butcher but der d CH is nt der writer took a break nd d channel hired new CH, technical team nd dey telecasted d epis without proper editing..disconnectn wid epis nd chars..just fr 2 epis..nd fans vented out our frustration..coz d shw never made dat mistake..after 250 epis d chars never compromised..nly shw whr a couple evolved either individually or as a unit..nd dat FL is always remains d best FL ever on ITV coz she has voice..dey solve der problms together..actually dey built der relationship wid strong foundations..nd a couple whr millions of fans lived der lovestry..reminsicing der names even after 50 yrs make us smile nd cry nd defo a journey to cherish...u r unable to take one wrong epi coz dat shw ruined viewers wid perfection nd den d old writer of d shw came bac nd publicly apologized nd taken our considerations...he earned respect nd as he promised dey made d taken our views nd ctrld d damage..nd once again earned our trust...He uses d wrd trust..nd d shw main focus is trust..dey gave a new meaning to trust nd dey gave a beautiful one week whr dey made us forgotten what d new writers done...Then honestly i stopped retweeting aani..coz d othr shw respected us...dey respected d females...my love fr dat shw nd makers taken a new turn..dat reply i didn't get frm BT..even after such trending..dey post poned leap but not cancelled..den as a customer im done wid dis product nd i decided to not to buy dat product..i stopped trending coz dey never respected der viewers...i wil watch nd respect a shw which respect us..surrogacy is d last nail in d coffin..nw a days common problem fr most of women is thyroid nd pcod..many women having des r nt able to conceive..multiple miscarriages wil happen..my relative..she become pregnant after 13yrs of der marriage..during dis she went through multiple miscarriages nd depression nd wat not nd deirs is lov marriage..nd families still against it..but her husbands love nd der understanding nd der hope never died nd after 13yrs of marriage she is blessed wid a baby girl..dat baby is 2yrs nw...nd she is nw again carrying..This is love nd understanding d couple must have..surrogacy is not d hope d channel trying to send..my fear confirmed wen dey talked abt baby talks nd consulted doc without sex...nd i taken a break frm dis shw..as a FL i felt very insulted..intimacy btwn dem is never fr der own desires..always hav to brought baby talks..after 2yrs of der marriage dey never communicated..wrkd on der marriage..never openly talked abt her fertility issues...The shw base premise is nature vs nurture nd dey made won d nature again..@genie..der first break up made d FL raised trust issues nd i love dat 87epi punch..whr she questioned him whr is she in his priority..she knws he loves his frnds more dan nyone..nd she falls fr him seeing his love fr dem..but she voiced out dat she is nt a toy to pass on nd der is a reason y she is nt willing to come back to him..her fears,if d same problm arises nd he has to choose btw his frns nd her..he wil choose his frnds..dat fear she wanna clear which makes her more human nd real..nd nxt der 2nd breakup...dat judai 151epi...trust is der..but he is hurt coz she didn't believed in him nd der relationship dat she manipulated by 3rd person..gawd des two 99% communicate..love she never gives upon nd finds hope..dey both never give upon each..They lived a lifetime love..der little things make dem unique nd pure..Blissful souls dey r.. .@anu..very well said..nd im happy dat u wrote on dis forum aftr a long break..@aani..i alwways love ur analysis nd dey made a joke abt Females..but dey wint respect ud coz at d end of d day trps nly matters to dem..

Hi, i am new to this Forum and to TV world. After 17yrs, this is my 1st TV show(YES, never ever watched any serial before. I use to watch National Geo channel or Sports) and now i hate myself for wasting my time to watch TV serial like YHM. I watch TV for relaxation, but this show became like a torcher for me now. So many of my friends warned me not to waste my time watching EK show, i ignored them as i fell in love with ISHRARU. now i realize my mistake, but too late.

Originally posted by: mafaz29

Thnk u for making ths post. i totally agreed with you. it strucks me to the core that they butchered the show with no mercy. 😭😭💔 i just want to share my own experience. it hurts to see your condition being done as a mockery.😭

I really don't know what to say anymore.. I wish all of you survive in future. As a woman and doctor, i felt betrayed. For your kind information i have severe endometriosis problem. i was diagnosed early in Malaysia . You know what, endometriosis can cause fertility problem. Then i move to UK following my family, there i finish my school, i got determined to pursue my career as doctor because i know god gave me this disease not only for me to suffer, but actually to help people and that's the reason i went for medicine. i graduated and work as doctor. Surrounded by people with #hopeneverdies i try to overcome the pain & struggle dealing with my own disease & also help others. I DO SURVIVE, then there you go, my parents pop up the marriage question, i just said if god create someone for me in this world, and he meant for me the time will come. There he came in my life, my man whom i thought to be my real life prince charming, everything seems perfect but God know the best for you, the day i told him that i'm having fertility problem, he seems to accept it well, i trust him, a fairytale story started to be built up. He is a doctor and me also. I thought he understood well my problem but slowly, he doubt his decision to start a life with me. Perhaps he think he deserved better, i'm no one to blame that, if i want to be treated fairly, why he can't? So i said if you feel you are not happy with me, please find another people who can make you really happy, don't suffer for the rest of your life just out of sympathy, i accept what god had made me, free yourself from me. THE END, that's how i end my own fairytale, if we can't give happiness to others, don't let them suffer. at least help others to bring happiness to your love one. That's the way i spread the love. I indeed suffer from the pain, my parents and family. i almost gave up on my life, but one day i realized, my patient is my wake up call. She did suffer the same thing with me, but her life is far worst, she is depressed, her husband cheated on her because she can't bear the child. May god bless her soul. i tried to help her with the best, but on 29 november, she took her own life. the day i lost my patient which i handled with care.

WHO AM I TO BLAME THE GOD , HER HUSBAND, SOCIETY OR MYSELF THAT SHE CHOSE TO END HER JOURNEY?! THE PAIN DOUBLED FOR ME BECAUSE I KNOW SHE CAN BE SAVED, SHE SUFFERED THE SAME THING WITH ME, GOD KNOW BETTER DEAR, THAT'S WHAT MY MOM SAID,BUT FOR ME NO, ENOUGH IS ENOUGH, HOW MANY LIFE GONNA BE KILLED MORE JUST BECAUSE OF STIGMA OF BELOVED ONE & SOCIETY?! THEN I STARTED TO JOIN HANDS DOING RESEARCH PROVIDING MORE FACILITIES TO TREAT PEOPLE WITH FERTILITY PROBLEM. MAKE IT INTO BRAIN CVS, SURROGACY IS THE LAST LAST OPTION. IN CERTAIN RELIGIONS, THEY DID NOT ALLOWED IT. THAT'S WHAT MAKE US TO PUT IT AS LAST LAST LAST OPTION WITH OTHER ETHICS AND MORALE INVOLVED. I TRIED MY BEST TO PROVIDE THE BEST FOR MY PATIENT BECAUSE I WANT THEM TO FEEL THE EXPERIENCE OF MOTHERHOOD EVENTHOUGH MYSELF CAN'T FOREVER SINCE I LOST THE ABILITY FOR IT ON A DAY I ALMOST LOST MY LIFE.

I'M VERY HAPPY SEEING THE HAPPY FACES OF PARENTS TO BE, THEIR EXCITEMENT, HAPPINESS. THAT'S WHAT I CAN AT LEAST GIVE THEM. I TRY NOT TO LOST ANOTHER INNOCENT LIVES ANYMORE. TO YOU GOD I SWEAR HELP ME SAVE LIVES

ALONG WITH THIS MY OWN SISTER IN LAW WHICH I DO ADORE HER AS MY OWN SISTER SUFFER FERTILITY PROBLEM. THERE COMES MY FEAR, AM I GOING TO HAVE THE SAME SITUATION AGAIN? BUT NOW IT IS MY OWN FAMILY. WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO DO? I BRAVED MY HEART, TALK TO HER AS A SISTER NOT A DOCTOR. SHE POUR OUT EVERYTHING TO ME, SHE IS LUCKY,SHE GOT THE WHOLE SUPPORT TO ENDURE IT & NOW SHE BLESSED WITH HER 2 BEAUTIFUL DAUGHTERS, CARRIED BY HER OWN WOMB.

WHAT I WANT TO VENT HERE IS, IT HURTS TO SEE SOME PEOPLE MAKE A MOCK OUT OF THIS SENSITIVE ISSUE. DO RESPECT US WHO SUFFERED A LOT. I ALMOST LOST MY LIFE DUE TO THIS ISSUE. HELP ME SPREADING THE REAL FACTS TO THE WORLD THAT INFERTILITY CAN BE TREATED EVENTHOUGH IT TAKES TIME.

IT IS ABSURD TO SAY EVERYTIME INFERTILITY ISSUE STRUCK, SURROGACY IS THE ANSWER. HOW MANY WOMEN WILL BE LEFT HEARTBROKEN THEN. WHERE IS THE FAIRNESS IN TREATING THE WOMEN HERE? TRUST ME IT HURTS TO THE CORE TO BE LABELLED AS INFERTILE. YOU CAN ENJOY OTHERS HAVING GOOD FAMILY TIME BUT YOU ARE ALONE SOUL WANDERING IN THE WORLD TRYING TO SORT OUT YOUR MESSY LIFE.

TRY TO HELP ME SENDING RIGHT MESSAGE VIA THE SHOW, AT LEAST THEIR #HOPENEVERDIES. THEY HAVE CHANCE TO BE PREGNANT AND THEY DESERVE IT