Birds And The Bees With Ishita & Shagun - Page 3

So does that mean raman is unwilling to do "it" bcoz ishita doesn't excites him in that sense? She has submitted herself to him many times like u mentioned. Then why bring this topic of raman not being able to look at ishita from that angle?

Nice read and I agree ishita needed a jolt but what put me off was shagun giving advice to ishita because she wants her ex husband and ishita to move forward and become intimate, that to me was creepy coming from her. Why didn't ishita feel like this when shagun verbally bashed her about this before? 😕

Originally posted by: momb24

Nice read and I agree ishita needed a jolt but what put me off was shagun giving advice to ishita because she wants her ex husband and ishita to move forward and become intimate, that to me was creepy coming from her. Why didn't ishita feel like this when shagun verbally bashed her about this before? 😕

If this reaction happened few months ago it would have been more valid but cvs made the blander of making ishra look like fools talking about babies and visiting the doctors when mature adults like them should know without any action how would they make a baby, so for me the cvs trying to show consummation happened out of passion and love to cover up their weird idea of getting intimate only because of having the baby.

Originally posted by: rose35

The truth was bitter and it had to come from the most bitter person .Hence Shagun. Other family members would have sugar coated it. Ishita knows Shagun is nasty and always hurts her.

The point here was... IShita's reaction.

Knowing Shagun, Ishu should not have been so affected. Because she knows Shagun talks nonsense. But this time, Ishu really got stung... she felt it... because she knows whatever venom Shagun spit was true...This is perhaps the first time I have liked Shagun's taunts.

Great post, very well written and apt stuffs! I just loved what you wrote. Nothing more to say just 👏👏👏 and 🤗🤗🤗 for u Aani dear...

Originally posted by: momb24

Shagun had many times questioned ishra relationship when she was not pretending to be nice and we never got a reaction like this but now all of a sudden her words are effective. for me shagun wanting them to get intimate and motivating them towards it is creepy because it's intentional, why would shagun go to so much trouble for this.

The tittle and the author caught my eye 😆.it is always a pleasure to read your pov...nothing more to add to it Aani 🤗

Aani this is a brilliant post and the title just cracked me up 😆.

Coming to the episode, I never meant to watch it after the Written update but then after reading your take on the episode I did go back against my words and saw the one. Yes it was really crude but then somewhere after reading the WU I felt this was one conversation which was required. I am just sorry that only Ishitha had to hear it and not Raman. Shagun is the only person who could talk about her sex life with Raman and at the same time I was kinda irked hearing it from the fact that, she shouldn't really be bothered cos she never liked him near her except when it has to be gloated about. Example: Vandu Bala anniversary.

The same conversation from someone else like Vandu cos she is the only eligible person could have also been effective but not sure if Ishitha would have taken her words seriously. But I have always felt Iyer sisters love listening to one another advice sincerely so this could have also been a hit but a little dicey as well. Had it been from Vandu, we could have seen the conversation similar to something what she had with the doctor 😕

Raman equally deserves this lecture cos more than anyone he always spoke about doing IT just for the sake of babies. Yes he wanted to have babies for her to feel the motherhood but leaving all that behind did he really take the initiative normally even once? During holi, He took the step but announced that as promised we should take our relationship ahead bacause Adi will join us soon. Second when she had a fracture, He approached her that night but that was to get the legal document concerning Ruhi's custody to get Adi to his side. After Vandu's baby was born both once again spoke for babies and similarly happened after Rohit came home. If Ishitha required a round of lecture from Shagun for whatever reason it maybe which the CVs tried justifying, someone should clearly drill sense in to Raman about the fact that babies are not everything. Even after knowing the fact there are very little chances to have babies, harping on and on about it would only create discomfort in a relationship which is what has happened between IshRa.

Ishitha never deeply looked in to the aspect that she was not desired, but she only heard from him "Lets do IT to have babies". Being diagnosed with blocked fallopian tubes medically its tough to have babies naturally. So whenever Raman spoke about having babies having some kind of a natural apprehension is not something bizzare. Today hearing all the sex talk and need for sex beyond children from Shagun, it brought out one set of her insecurities. Now the next step even if Raman wants to do IT for babies, I don't think Ishitha would go around blushing and be happy. He better get lectured on that fact by Ishitha or if not CVs propose Shagun is the best at business then be it straight from her. Raman this way has to clearly move on from his past. The other set of insecurities being her ability to conceive and not disappoint the family. I really want an open conversation, heart to heart before they do IT.

There are many viewers out there who are gutted after yesterday's episode, maybe some sort of feeler for all of them before hitting the top scene. Also, those who are upset after the episode must read your post. It's beautiful Aani. Take a bow 👏

P.S: Really sorry Aani if my write up somewhere matched yours. Never intended to

Aru wonderful post as well 👏

Originally posted by: -Gan-

Aru wonderful post as well 👏

Thanks G 😳 also I am missing your collages here
Not on the episode but in general 😕