What was Ishita expecting in the CCTV footage ?

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.Ranju.

@.Ranju.

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

#11

I read your post everyday and all the comments which are unbiased and bring different perspective to the scenes. Kudos to you and all other people who posts regularly in your thread. I like Ishita's character the most may be coz of biased DT fan in me but doesn't mean I criticize Raman unnecessarily 😆 But today I am so disappointed and had to rant some where. This is not the Ishita I fell in love with!🥱 Yes she is Jagmata Jagga Jasoos n all that but never this wrong with kids!! Specially Adi! She understood and forgave him for all his previous kands but now without him doing anything why they are showing her this protective? Drama ke liye kuch bhi Cvs?!?!? They could have easily avoided this thing to show parenting differences between IshRa. I really don't know to what extent Cvs will butcher Ishita's character.

Coming to Raman yes he doesn't mean what he says but for how long he will be like this? He has every right to be angry but he really needs to control his words. I just hope CVs don't turn this to another comical ending as always and make as nothing happend 😕

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beckysharp

@beckysharp

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#12

Hi Gan,

Once more a disclaimer... I have not watched the episodes so I am just winging it from the posts and various discussions. I am sure to receive chappals from all for this ! As I have a very divergent view !

May I put forth my perspective ? Yes, Ishita is extremely wrong in putting the nanny cam in Adi's room. 100% wrong. But is Raman right in hiding things from her ? Lying to her and sending her to the spa ?

Until now, who has been at the receiving end of very devious planning of Adi ? It has been Ishita ! And how did he end up putting Ishita into trouble every time ? At the instigation of others.

Do we recollect all of Ishita and Adi interaction's ? They began with Adi manipulating Raman into getting Ishita to apologize to Adi n Shagun ! To being unrepentant for almost killing Amma, to sending Ishita the incorrect address of the bachelor party to burning himself and getting her thrown in jail, to taking overdose of Toshi's medicine, etc.

Let's put ourselves in Ishita's place just for a second ! Even if I am the greatest jagat mata I will forgive him yes, but will I forget it ? This cctv/nanny cam is drama yes ... But, until now we used to keep saying ishita is jagat mata, when she is being a very fallible human too she is getting brickbats !

Yes, Ishita and Adi's relationship is very new... They are just learning about each other... It needs to build but if you were in Ishita's shoes would you so easily trust this boy ?

Raman wants to be a cool dad is absolutely fine, but not at the cost of his relationship with his wife ! He only pays lip service when he says he wants her to be his ishima... He actually doesn't.. he gets angry ... Could he not try to explain his point of view the same way ishita explained the need for psychiatric help for Adi ?

Does being immature n impetuous solve anything ? Does asking your wife to get out n not come back is right ?

Does rubbing it in that she is not the biological mother right ?

What does Ishita have to do to prove her worth in the eyes of Raman Kumar Bhalla ? Conceive a child ?

Raman has a blind spot where Aditya is concerned... He does not want to lose him after getting his custody... I get it all... But not at the cost of Ishita, who as shagun rightly pointed out is nothing but a glorified ayya / nanny !

Adi needs strict discipline... There are children who need to be tightly reined in and adi is one such child... N if ishita has to be over protective so be it.

I speak from experience, if my mom had not kept me on a tight leash I would have been a total lost cause ! Not that I am a goody two shoes just now, I am not... But I am not as bad as I could have been if my mother had not watched me like a hawk !

Now I am ready for chappals ! Make sure you guys throw a pair and may I request a pair of either louboutin, or Jimmy choo !

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Coco

@---CoCo---

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#13

This is the first time I failed to understand Ishita as mother. I get wanting to protect your child and not wanting him to go on the wrong path but what I don't get is point to set up a CCTV. This is going overboard. Ishita is setting up for Adi to distance himself from her and hate her. I wish she would trust her own son because just because he has dark past doesn't mean he will revolt to going back to the person he was before. She was the first person to realize that Adi was only craving love. And she should know she is one of the people who had big hand in making Adi realize that, then why would she not trust him fully. She should be strict but should not go overboard. Even in my household my mother is more strict compared to my dad. But she would not have people follow me or put a CCTV in my room.

Its not easy parenting a teenager so Ishita wanting to be strict makes sense. And Raman wanting to be Adi's friends also makes sense. However both of them are going a little overboard in their styles of parenting. If there was a balance between being a strict parent and wanting to be a friend then it would be the ideal parenting technique. However I dont want Raman to have a blind spot for Adi anymore in his fear of loosing him again.

I am quite enjoying CVs showing a imperfect Ishita. It makes her more relatable in the sense she is human. This track so far is going perfect and I hope they do show Ishita owning up to her mistakes. I would love to see a Ishita-Adi heart to heart conversation where she apologizes to him and tells her pov.

Raman's angry is justified his words are not. Thats the only problem I have with Raman is when Ishita makes a mistake involving the children, automatic she is no more their mother. Is this how caring stepmothers are treated. Because I find quite unfair specially when the stepmother is better than the biological mother. However for the CCTV, I am 100% agreement with his anger.

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anwesha rath

@Anurulz

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 10 years ago

#14

Cvs have totally flanderised the characters of raman and ishita to caricatures of their former selves..ishita wud never ever show this kind of distrust and violate sumbodyz privacy in this manner...its beyond ridiculous, its disgusting...if my parents had even dreamt of doing sumthn like this i wudnt have spoken to them for years...this was a sureshot way of alienating adi forever...and ishita wasnt so impulsive...i hate what the creatives have done to her to satisfy the trp aunties...she shows no remorse, no introspection of what ahe has done...reminds me of another BT lead who transgressed into the most hypocritical female lead on television from the most loved..hate to see ishita go down tht road..

tht said, raman has to STOP throwing emotionally abusive taunts at ishita..it gives a really really bad twist to the fight..he always fights dirty and hits below the belt...not acceptable either...like it was mentioned in another post, tht whatever ishita does, is gonna be scrutinized in context of adiz behaviour and she is gonna get blamed no matter what...but this type of behaviour goes beyond overprotectiveness to paranoid...and raman at the same time has to decide whether ishita is a part of the family or not..one episode she is his life and mother of his children, the next she is nobody...bipolarity much??

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-Gan-

@-Gan-

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 10 years ago

#15

becks will respond once back as real life calls.. But darling I'm crazy but not that crazy to lose a pair of designer shoes ( if I had any 😉) over a fictional show😉😆

Will be back 😊

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Sunita

@avni_19

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 10 years ago

#16

Ishita is over-concerned, over-protective which no child likes esp a boy and a boy like Adi will definitely not like it.. There are more ways to keep a check on your child but not by placing a camera in your kid's room... Ishiat is wrong...!

As for Raman, he is also wrong in using harsh words on her, the precap...tum maa bhi nahi ho.. Ohh My, that pricked me!😭 Apart from that, I support Raman here..

Agree with you Gan Di, I expected Vandu to be little smart here.

CVs spoil almost all beautiful things...😕 Now the latest OLV, vandu's baby finally out after a year.. LOL Again a funny sequence.. It would be beautiful if they showed it neatly with less fun elements...kheir, not saying anything before the episode airs!

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Wings-of-Fire

@Wings-of-Fire

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 10 years ago

#17

It was just bizarre. Disappointed.

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Aparna.A

@crazy_bholi

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

#18

Yes Gan ...i simply couldnt get ishu today...and even vandu who is elder to her didnt explain the consequences...Raman is harsh that is his character but he is not wrong in questioning her regarding CCTV...I am still laughing😆

I was amused and pity kids...real MOM didnt care and step MOM cares 2222 much...poor them...🤣

And Romi you are messed up and will be completely thrashed in future by ACP

I love when they show puttar remembering their moments even when they were not in LOVE...I loved that Rose tucking scene

GAN can u make a collage of putttar and Biwi scenes today

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Maya

@mayasun

Dazzler

+ 4

Posted: 10 years ago

#19

Hi Guys,

I have not watched the episode just read the WU and from this thread I gathered this much I am in no mood to watch and get myself depressed on a fictional show.

I don't understand Ishita character this looks like a new Ishita who doesn't care about kids or others because the one I saw from beginning is she is a spy but never violated any one privacy or trust this is gone to far.

When I saw the OLV and Raman commenting you are not a mother I felt what again this time at least she should develop some self-respect and not comeback home. This time I thought they would show she has gone to Vandu and talk about her insecurity of not being a mother and Vandu or Bala pointing her in the right direction that she was wrong to put CCTV camera. Ishita calls Adi outside the house apologize to him for not trusting him but not returning home and Raman realizing that he has gone to far this time insulting his wife and tries to bring her back

But instead I read that it was Vandu who encouraged her this is not what a college principal does until now she was the only sane character which they did not butcher but they cannot leave one character good just for drama they butchered her character too.

I am more angry with Vandu than Ishita/Raman

Ishita is wrong in placing CCTV camera whatever the CV do it does not justify it for me.

Just as a thought if CV wanted to show her protective they could have gone the age old route of all mom use😆😆😆, spying standing on the door pretending to clean the non-existent cow-webs outside Adi room but what they made her do is beyond crazy.

Raman is wrong in always hitting below the belt sometimes when I hear these words come from his mouth I wonder what is the difference between him and Subbu mom she also always hits her below the belt saying she is not a mom and we get angry because she is semi-villian but when the lead does that we say that is his character. It may be his character if he says it only once on a impulse not time and again when ever they have a fight. If he is saying it every time then I think he usually believe in it and what Shagun says is right she is only a glorified nanny.

Raman anger in finding out about the CCTV camera was 100% correct instead of hurting her he could have shouted at her and then helped her realize her mistake that would have been beautiful.

This time at least I want both of them to apologize to each other and Ishita to Adi as well. They started a beautiful track where everybody was grey and now they are trying to turn into black and white which is not good. They should have stayed with grey and found a neutral ground for all three that would have been nice to watch.

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serendipity.

@serendipity.

Trailblazer

+ 6

Posted: 10 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: -Gan-

Reenz two wrongs don't make it right .. Yes snooping with nanny cam was wrong on Ishita's part given the circumstance that there was nothing serious on Adi's actions to justify it... But Rama also needs to watch his mouth.. It's impulsive the 1st time you say something stupid to your wife.. But if it gets repeated especially about the part where Ishita is most sensitive about...telling her that she's not Adi's mom or mocking her with Ishima' is a BIG insult .. Because that is lowest of the low blows.. He can't keep on doing that...that is an insult to his wife, and his children's mother.

Both were wrong and both need to apologize and frankly in relationship the balance is not shifted based on whose wrong was bigger... But just by the fact it was wrong... And both parties need own up to it and to fix it to maintain healthy relationship

i totally agree, maybe in the hurry that i was in, i didnt put my point across that well. Raman is wrong, again... VERY wrong, my point is... and this is directed to the writers and CVs... they have ALWAYS shown Raman to be like this... him saying this yet again was a disappointment but nothing too surprising whereas Ishitas sudden behaviour towards Adi... definitely surprising. Yes, i dont relate to Ishita... many a times i dont... but then, many times i do... and whatever this is... WHO IS THIS ISHITA? shes WEIRD, i dont know her 😳 her actions ESPECIALLY as a mother are not justified. Two wrongs never make a right, since the onloc had come two days ago, i was only discussing with friends how BOTH deserve an apology from each other, both SHOULD... HAVE TO apologize.. but we never get that :) its always either its all buried under the hatchet, like it never existed... or Raman kinda apoligizes... i dont want either! especially the former! But again, my point stands... what Ishita did is just unacceptable. its crazy :/ and i hope she realizes that... & Raman needs to realize too, he cant be doing this each time and get away with it

Also, why Ramans action or words didnt affect me more was because, im sorry, even ishita doesnt properly EVER react. Again, the writers fault. You said ishita is the most 'sensitive' about this... tell me WHEN has she reacted the way she was supposed to? she has always been so understanding and forgiving.. i would want her to stop being that and for once be a normal woman, a normal lover, a normal WIFE... i want her to be hurt, to actually give her husband the proper silent treatment he deserves till he realizes, feels guilty & apologizes... since it doesnt affect Ishita herself much 😆 now that ive seen it enough times... why would i overreact at or overanalyze his words?

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