Suggestion for Subbu *Updated* - Page 6

Originally posted by: -IshRaDivAn-

Lovely Collage G! 😳

And bang on post..
I didn't know what was happening in the episode yesterday and same goes for today.😳
i had no clue what so ever as to what was happening today!
Like i said in the LU. One of the episode we got hard core romance. The second half came along as if the first half never happened.
Today's episode, it came along as if yesterday never happened. :( What I fail to understand is, TILL HOW LONG.?
How long are they going to show the couple making it all up with silly banters.? There has to be a limit somewhere. Will they ever feel the need to talk about things.?

Whatever said and done, it was big. Putting aside the fact that, it was or may be a plan but still it was out of line. And exactly, as expected..they are back to normal as if nothing happened.

I usually don't complain a lot about the follow up scenes but this one time, its far beyond my tolerance level.
They seem to have made a joke out of everything. Be it confession or respect that's required in a marriage. And i mean respect both ways.
I can connect with the missing each other part, but what after that.? A silly nok jhok that ends up no where.!!! What was the point of the scene then.?

After saying so much yesterday, the least Raman could do is apologize! :( But he is busy throwing his own tantrums. Ishita, she should be pissed. But clearly she is fine! LIKE SERIOUSLY.?? 😳

Its us who are suffering. Its just so useless ranting, it never helps because things never change!

As far as Subbu is concerned, well he is being thrown everywhere for the sake of drama! Lord, its so annoying to see him wagging around Ishita like a pup! 😳 She has clearly moved on dude, its time you should!

That's the longest I have ever ranted on your thread..🤣 But just needed to.. :( To just end it, baseless episode with nothing to look forward to!!

i just pray the coming up confession is worth it. ☺️

Originally posted by: beckysharp

Sorry Gan, I hope I am not treading on any toes whilst responding to this comment. Also, this is not a Raman V/S Ishita post. I love both equally and am always Team IshRa.

Raman, definitely has a very complicated past. The woman, who he loved very very much, walked out on their marriage with their six year old son leaving behind an infant , barely 6 months old and a shy, geeky, nerdy man who was unable to fulfill her material desires and wants. She spewed so much vitriol and venom that the 6 year old child was brainwashed into believing that his father was a monster. He was so scarred that he changed from a sweet loving young man into this embittered, angry man unable to even look at his daughter because she reminded him of his unfaithful wife !

Now coming to Ishita, what is her past ? Nothing... It is a bed of roses ! The man she was in love with from the time that she was 15, the man she thought she would spend the rest of her life with, the man who she thought was her life and pillar of strength rejected her on the day of their engagement, because of circumstances beyond her control and out of her hands. what is her past ? It is a bed of roses !

She had to listen to the woman who would have been her mother in law, continuously taunt her for her medical condition in public.. what is her past ? Just a bed of roses !

Being continuously rejected by a variety of suitors, due to her medical condition and taking it all in her stride without faltering and keeping a smile and an outwardly calm demeanor so that her parents don't realise how much she hurts ! What is her past ? It is a bed of roses !

Finally, she meets a man who knows her medical condition and agrees to marry her, but on the day of engagement takes a step back due to her stand for her family.. what is her past ? Nothing but a bed of roses !

Raman and Ishita are both victims of their loved ones as well as the circumstances ! It is very easy to discount one characters' pain and emphasize others because we love one character more than the other !

Both of them have lived through tremendous trauma... And both deserve peace and happiness in their lives !

#iloveputtarandbiwi

#teamishraforever !

Originally posted by: elene93

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Let's assume, one fine day Raman wakes up and starts to think--hadn't Ishita been a "damaged" (infertile) soul, would she marry a divorced guy like me? Would her parent agree to marry her off with a guy like me who's come with a lot of baggage? We all know, he won't ever think in this way now coz he is over these sort of insecurities. Why? Because of Ishita's love and it is certainly not a one way traffic. Just the way Ishita healed Raman's past wound's, Raman did the same for her. That's how love works! Not to mention, Ruhi's love for Ishita is also there, always.

Originally posted by: RomComFan

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WARNING:Ramblings of a disillusioned Biwi fan ahead😭

Here's the thing that saddens me the most about this whole track besides the fact despite generally phenomenal talent and potential to be one of Ishu's most defining moments this track is going down the tubes... I thought , I hoped... that despite the way it came about and the way it ended bringing Subbu in would give me a glimpse into Ishu's past, it didn't . I thought bringing Subbu in would give more dimension to Bala... it didn't- well it id, just not the way I hoped.

I thought bringing Subbu in would give me an idea of the kind of man that Ishita was attracted to before she 'found another Ishita' in her relation with RKB... all I see is piece of wet cardboard with no personality... i see nothing. I don't know if it makes sense, but despite well... everything... I can kind of see what the kind of man Raman 'Happy' Bhalla was might have seen in Shagun Aurora, even without the exterior.. she gave him a sense of purpose,pride a kind of self confidence and desire to be and do better. And for me, i wanted to see what kind of man ishita Iyer chose for herself... but all I got from the Dubbu on our screen is a clingy friend who has no other appeal ...i don't get it.

Ishita iyer was fiesty and sweet ... this is what she wanted ? I refuse to believe this. This man, like Aru said, this Dubbu is not the man I envisioned Ishita Iyer choosing for herself.. he's not worthy. And he makes me question Ishita Iyer. And for that I am hella pissed at the CVs.🤔

He's this man now, fine... but he was this pathetic then too? So what did she see in him? What are we supposed to see in him? What does that tell us about our heroine? As weird as it sounds I feel like meeting this Dubbu has reduced my respect of Ishita, she changed a bit in my mind hen i met this wet chalk ex fiancee.. and that makes me sad.

Puttar is the love of her life but he is a is love that came by chance, she never chose him, she chose Ruhi. But this , this is the man she chose? Really? That totally redefines who Ishita Iyer was in my mind... and I hate that. Because I liked Ishita Iyer before, as much as i liked Happy Bhalla before.- yes i love RKB and JKR a lot more but I still liked who they were before and this Dubbu revelation just makes me like her not so much... and I hate it. They're messing with the present portrayals of the characters so I cling to the past ones, and now they are messing with the past ones too? UGH!



The CVs have managed to disappoint me yet again...I am not even looking forward to the dimly lit club lighting and left over Valentines ballon used confession anymore... Why CVs , Why?



POST EDITED coz IF loved to play games with my ❤️

Originally posted by: -Gan-

Anu I am with you in all those frustrations...they have truly turned Ishra relationship as a joke. Talk about mature writing...that's so over-rated..the YHM CVs have proved it to us since their move to 7:30 slot so many times over. It's better we get into the program and stop complaining as frankly they give a rat's a** to what we think.

Confession...frankly the heart shaped balloons kinda have been a turn off as I had expected Ishra confession to be something off-beat and not so cliched. but hey who knows, the CVS might surprise us as wed forget everything and get all gushy as Ishra has thet kinda affect on us😆

Originally posted by: Veeann

I liked the last 5 minutes. I ffed Dubbu. I concur wholeheartedly with Anu @RomComFan regarding my regard for Ishita diminishing if Dubbu is what she chose to love for 12 years.

The confession set up is v tacky. I expected more class from Puttar.

However, I will probably be gushing the loudest when the confession happens. My brain is fried. YHM has reduced my capacity for intelligent and rational thought.

Originally posted by: beckysharp

Please note, your dp has absolutely nothing to do with my response ! Most of my friends on the forum have RKB as dp ! I love RKB too, but my adoration of Aunty Acid transcends RKB, hence my dp !

Well, May I say, one fine day Ishita might wake up and ask the same question ? Would Raman marry her if he did not already have two children ? After all the love / rant of ghar ka chirag is very well known by one and all ! would he love her if he knew that she is unable to give birth to his ghar ka chirag ?

Past is past.. and trauma is trauma ! You never know when it comes to haunt you.

I respect you view about Ishita's past ! But the trauma never leaves ! It hurts u somewhere, and the question is equal for both Raman and Ishita !

Since this will continue ad infinitum, let us agree to disagree respectfully !