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-Gan-

@-Gan-

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Posted: 10 years ago

#71

Originally posted by: elene93

@Bold: Then why did I get the special treatment?🤔

Elene93 ..nice debate going...I dont want to butt in the content of the debate but will just tell you this Becky is a BIG Puttar fan to the point I had to step in an curtail their Puttar fangirlism once as a TM 😆 ,, So I can tell you in all honesty you're not getting any special treatment because of your DP...rather she's expressing her honest feelings about the situation which happens to be on the other side of spectrum of your feelings. So dont think what she's saying is against you as a person...but rather it's her response to what you said about Ishita's scars. So please debate away on those lines or like she said ,you can just choose to disagree with her.

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-Gan-

@-Gan-

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Posted: 10 years ago

#72

Originally posted by: -IshRaDivAn-
G..
My share of rant done for the day! I won't probably rant for another light year! 🤣
Man, i love stalking your thread more. A lazy part of me being the reason..😛

So I may as well stalk for another while.😆
Kidding, was missing your posts and yes I am gonna be active here..Bas!! 😆
This is for all of you wonderful people here..Becky, Anu..Vee..G..krishy..Tia..Tanvi and everyone! 🤗
The magical ishRa. ❤️ 😳

PS : I miss those looks :( Want it all back!!! :(

aiyo!!!

and please be active...the girls are superfun and they love Ishra like you do 😉

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-Gan-

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Posted: 10 years ago

#73

Originally posted by: sunitas123
Gan, after a long time I skipped an episode today. Knew they wud show as if nothing happened. Now they will show confession and immly after that Raman will yell at her...why go through all this exercise if u cant basically even respect your wife?
I liked what u said about Subbu but I think the same applies to Raman too. He cant just behave any which way with ishita, even if she has done a mistake, he needs to learn to respect her, and behave like a decent human being first. It was this behaviour of his which gave Mani a chance to butt in and again it will be this behaviour which will let Subbu creep in... He has taken Ishita too much for granted. when he did not love her, he used to miss her so much and even put her name plate outside the old Bhala house. And yesterday he said this is no longer your house? Coz she does not pay for the rent??? Earlier Adi was more imp now everyone is imp and ishita is simply a doormat...

Even if he is acting those were not the words to use. And Ishita needs to tell him to change but guess he has decided like he said earlier I will do as I please, u can find someone else if u wish...

Sunita well as mcuh as I agree with you about Raman's behavior from yesterday...I also want Ishita to get back her backbone and stand up for herself...she doesnt need any Subbu to help her with the situation. During Mani's time Ishra didnt share the equation they do today...that time Raman's behavior stemmed from his insecurity and Ishita's not from noticing Raman's distress...Now they know each other like the back of their hands..Deeply in love with each other and know about each other's love (with or without confession). So I feel both need to have an open discussion where BOTH need to lay out some accepted spousal limits outside their bedroom. Raman needs to know for the horse's mouth, that his wife needs his respect especially in front of others...and that Ishita would not put up with his callous behavior one more time. BOTH were at fault in my eyes today...Raman for being crass and Ishita for her lack of self respect.

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shadeslayer

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Posted: 10 years ago

#74

Hey Gan!!! I hope everything is better at your end. Lots of love🤗

Lovely post!!!! I have not seen yesterday's and today's episodes and might not watch either; though I do feel like watching the last 5 minutes.

In a nutshell- I feel like whacking Puttar on the head and then giving him a hug; the same goes for Biwi. Subbu is - well- Meh #Forgettable. They have laid no proper basis for his character, nor brought in a good enough actor to stand tall beside the lies of DT, KP as well as Anurag Sharma (If I am to believe the spoilers- They will be in cahoots soon). So it does not click especially with his background story being altered to suit the "stalker " bit they are trying to show.

The Husband-wife dynamics have completely been butchered in the last few months of this show. But I do know that i will still be gushing at their confession. #Sad life of a Puttar Fangirl

Do these two have any clue what they are putting their kids through due to their ego? Raman's harsh words to Ishita and Ishita's lack of self respect could really take this show down the drain- The writers give two hoots about what the audience wants anyways.

Anyways- Chaddo- It's just good to see you back more often here. 🤗

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shadeslayer

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Posted: 10 years ago

#75

Originally posted by: -IshRaDivAn-
G..
My share of rant done for the day! I won't probably rant for another light year! 🤣
Man, i love stalking your thread more. A lazy part of me being the reason..😛

So I may as well stalk for another while.😆
Kidding, was missing your posts and yes I am gonna be active here..Bas!! 😆
This is for all of you wonderful people here..Becky, Anu..Vee..G..krishy..Tia..Tanvi and everyone! 🤗
The magical ishRa. ❤️ 😳

PS : I miss those looks :( Want it all back!!! :(

Anu that is simply Beautiful!!!

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sunitas123

@sunitas123

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Posted: 10 years ago

#76

Originally posted by: -Gan-

Sunita well as mcuh as I agree with you about Raman's behavior from yesterday...I also want Ishita to get back her backbone and stand up for herself...she doesnt need any Subbu to help her with the situation. During Mani's time Ishra didnt share the equation they do today...that time Raman's behavior stemmed from his insecurity and Ishita's not from noticing Raman's distress...Now they know each other like the back of their hands..Deeply in love with each other and know about each other's love (with or without confession). So I feel both need to have an open discussion where BOTH need to lay out some accepted spousal limits outside their bedroom. Raman needs to know for the horse's mouth, that his wife needs his respect especially in front of others...and that Ishita would not put up with his callous behavior one more time. BOTH were at fault in my eyes today...Raman for being crass and Ishita for her lack of self respect.

Gan, yes indeed. that is exactly what I said. Ishita needs to tell Raman what his boundaries are. She tried telling him so before as well, but all he did was yell back and tell her - this is how I am and I wont change, you go look for someone else ... Raman is just taking Ishita for granted. he knows she wont leave him, so he has been behaving crassly with her over the last few months... if the confession changes that attitude of his significantly then it has some meaning, else he will be back to yelling and shouting. Ishra charm is already half-lost thanks to raman's dual personality and if this persists, soon we will all wish that they divorce too😆

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Veeann

@Veeann

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Posted: 10 years ago

#77

Originally posted by: -Gan-

V I'm so with in the same boat about confession set up pics that I saw and what I'm going to do when it airs

IDK I really had loved the airport confession promo and still wish the CVs had gone that route as that would have been more Ishra than this staged Valentiney set up. But I truly hope the CVs surprises us in a good way. Rest DT and KP romancing as Ishra does something to my otherwise logical brain...so I would be gushing most likely too😆

I loved that airport confession Promo too Gan. It was so Ishra

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smilydear

@smilydear

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Posted: 10 years ago

#78

Loved your post Gan as always your collages speaks everything...

Yes IshRa care for each other, they became habbit for each other more the Love... Love I can't say as Ishita herself said lovers did anything to bring back their love, they never humiliate them , or leaving the, in the middle of the road. They still have to do a lot to develop this relation. I can't consider them as a lovers but yeah they are partners who still need to learn specially Raman that respect of your partner is very important to have a healthy relationship or partnership.

I am just copying what I have posted in LU thread...

Looks like a funny episode as nothing much to say ... Can't find logic or anything.

Love IshRa banter good humor but can't connect with that. That part gave me a feel I am watching something where frames get maxed up.

Rinki was not at all ready for marriage as rightly said by Mihir, she is still in dreamland wants a movie romance which never existed in real life. She was a newly wed bride not even their 40days of marriage were done, if I am not wrong chhoda( wedding bangle set during marriage) was their to wear for initial 40 days and she is still wearing them. So within 40 days you want a divorce. Really???

Rinki reminds me of one of my friends story where her SIL never let her dressed up as a newly wed after her marriage as she was elder Sister and she was not married, so to stop the conflict her husband also asked my friend to tone down her dressing, jwellery and outings and stay like a normal girl next door. In all I can say she is immature who is eyeing on her brothers happiness who gave her everything. He build up this relation after so many ups and downs. She not even a single time thought to talk to her bhai or bhhabhi that you guys don't fight for because of me. She is still completely absorbed by herself.

IshRa , I have never seen a self respecting women to behave as Ishita is behaving.

First of all this is a problem of Us all women ... Husband said 'OUT' and we are out , why?? We have a power and we mostly give up. Girls a humble request never leave a house when your partner is not in his senses and you know he behaves like a jerk in some situations. You want to go out go out to get some fresh air but not with bag and baggage. That is our house, that is where we belong, that is where we made our heaven, if we will say 'OUT' to our husband did he go out forever? No.

Raman definitly needs some classes, mainly Anger management. He exactly behaves like a low class person, for whom only thing matters that is to prove he is right and he doesn't want to fix the thing immediately but take his own time and then tries to fix. His this habit will definetly cost him a lot, one day.

I can understand CVs made up all this to keep KP n others in different frames. So they opt it out but doing that they again butchered Raman's character. So, now Ishita and Raman are physically apart, they can very well manage the two frames.

In all this they are bringing Param also so, we can see how Param and Shagun manipulate Subbu, they both know how to play with someone's mind so let's see how they manage at one front and how IshRa will manage on the other front ... And who is going to pull Subbu from this clash ? Maybe Bala, Vandu, Mihika , Simmi? Even I love Simmi to pair next to Mani they were good together. Let's see when Param is back , how things will process. I really want Simmi to do something like studies, job, and course anything but something.

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sky-if

@sky-if

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Posted: 10 years ago

#79

G, you are so right about Subbu - it is getting creepy.

For maybe the first time, today I found the IshRa banter (?!) distasteful - not only because they completely ignored the yelling and asking to leave the house incident but because of the kind of language that was used by Raman. It is a case of drama gone too far.

Minky taking part in the 'rab ne bana di jodi' competition is akin to the sauten race to decide best mom. It is beyond my realm of understanding. Neel hasn't acted like a lawyer in months now.

Totally agree with Anu - am disappointed in the portrayal of Ishita's past and her friends - does not align with the type of personality that Ishita initially had. Also, was not happy that one minute Ishita was putting Subbu in place and asking him not to interfere in personal matters and the next was complaining about Raman to Subbu:(

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beckysharp

@beckysharp

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Posted: 10 years ago

#80

Originally posted by: elene93

My dear Elene, we unfortunately seem to be flogging a dead horse ! You have your view point I have mine !😛

The essence of yhm, through my extremely limited view point and of course my very very limited intelligence, tells me that three, broken, scarred hurt people got together and began a new life. When you start afresh and anew, does not really mean that your earlier hurt vanishes into thin air. Raman however much he loves, adores Ishita, will never ever forget the hurt that Shags caused him because his children are the reminder !

For Ishita, however much she tries to convince the world Ru is her child, the sad fact is, she isn't and the world my dear, is a very very , very cruel place. Her husband's ex will always call her banj, her brother in law's mother, will always insult her for the medical condition !

Even if they want to forget, and move on, remember, humans are the worst creation of God ! They will always scratch the scabs off the wounds and make them bleed ! Eg. when ishita helped Pooja give birth, the god bharai.. and her infertility was the reason of subbu dumping her and his resurfacing brings it too the fore. Also, he is her brother in law's younger sibling !

Happy Maharashtra day and Happy Labour Day too !

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