Suggestion for Subbu *Updated* - Page 7

Originally posted by: -Gan-

V I'm so with in the same boat about confession set up pics that I saw and what I'm going to do when it airs

IDK I really had loved the airport confession promo and still wish the CVs had gone that route as that would have been more Ishra than this staged Valentiney set up. But I truly hope the CVs surprises us in a good way. Rest DT and KP romancing as Ishra does something to my otherwise logical brain...so I would be gushing most likely too😆

Originally posted by: elene93

@Bold: Then why did I get the special treatment?🤔

@Red: That's my point. "That one fine day" will never come in their life, they will never think in this way because they know their mutual love will overcome these hurdles (insecurities).

@Blue: So do you mean to say Raman or Ishita will NEVER EVER get rid of their past traumas? Well, real life doesn't work in this way. Traumas do get cured fully.

Well, I have hand-on experience on observing something far worse. I had to work on a long project that involved rape victims and acid violence survivors. Most of them have overcome their past traumas, not only that they are leading very peaceful life. We were amazed to see that most of them overcame their traumas when they got in touch with their loved ones. Yes, at times they feel sad remembering those horrific incidents but that's it. Those incidents neither came back to haunt them nor ruined their peaceful life.

Originally posted by: elene93

@Bold: Then why did I get the special treatment?🤔

@Red: That's my point. "That one fine day" will never come in their life, they will never think in this way because they know their mutual love will overcome these hurdles (insecurities).

@Blue: So do you mean to say Raman or Ishita will NEVER EVER get rid of their past traumas? Well, real life doesn't work in this way. Traumas do get cured fully.

Well, I have hand-on experience on observing something far worse. I had to work on a long project that involved rape victims and acid violence survivors. Most of them have overcome their past traumas, not only that they are leading very peaceful life. We were amazed to see that most of them overcame their traumas when they got in touch with their loved ones. Yes, at times they feel sad remembering those horrific incidents but that's it. Those incidents neither came back to haunt them nor ruined their peaceful life.

Originally posted by: Badtameez_Dil

Heyy Gan

i maybe just in a minority...there could be something more in this subbu's track which is not been seen as off now...this char is just being settled...its hardly so much there,..as much i see sudden coming up arrival yest or today i get more doubt on this sudden presence around..i still think cv's r not openly this thing fully..he is still a surprise to what will come due to subbu's presence in ishra Life...I truly hope you're right Tanvi ...with KP taking a break for wedding..to keep YHM interesting Subbu's character needs to have some impact otherwise this would be an ordeal to sit through YHM during KP's hiatus.

i still its so soon to comment over him...

i maybe see bit annoying due to actors not able to pull off the char on acting terms...I agree with you there 100% ..Just responded to Anu in this line...The actor needed to have a stronger screen presence...he's kinda too stoic to make any impact on me as a viewer.

but i keeping my comments reserve...due to off-screen personal life lead is not available..this subbu part shifted till more things will get settled around in terms of side stories...

what i wanted when we all used to see subbu want bk is like a closure to ishita's past...her more opening towards her feelings which she still reserves to herself...

where its still there...

we all wanted simple thing to get a closure but an actor entering...as char which cant be as simple to show in terms of show..where now he is shown he lost his family is loner...

now is shown hovering around ishita...knows all her whereabouts..does it look normal..No its doesnt in any sense looks simple...

we have to wait to whole thing to get unfold...True true..I hope it is so and they write a more meaningful track involving subbu during KP's absence.

coming to episode i enjoyed it totally...i dont have anything else to say without going into depth of what Ishra relationship is all about

they r individuals...they r couple...they r in love... they have ego issues too...but all they even cant live without each-other...

its like a relation we have with parents...how much children-parent fight..parents gets angry one children...but do they stop loving the children..they do so many mistakes...but than next day things get f9 b/w child & parent

couple relationship is somewhere like this...husband says something & wife says something...than they fight anger goes up but than love make them fonder for each-other...

so couple should keep everything in b/w them forever what they said to other...how will relation work...

than its only solution is divorce...While I agree that couple fights are like that...I will disagree that what transpired yesterday is a normal couple scenario. There are couple fights that happen in the privacy of their bedroom...what Raman did yesterday was threw his wife and her sister out of his house in the presence of BOTH of their families. That is disrespectful. Period. No wife deserves that and the least he can do is apologize for his harsh words. And Ishita also needed to show a bit of self-respect. This is the same woman who waited till she got an honest apology from Raman after the Param fiasco. So for her to indulge in normal bickering with him in the car felt really out of character to me.

yes raman has anger issues...ishita knows well...both have ego issues both know well..but will is end of relationship due to ego & anger issues...

if there is major thing like rinki..ishita also says want to end the relation...than bhalla & iyer's talking about could be understandable...

where its couple's fight its better couple resolve that's where parallel of rinki-mihir & raman-ishita is drawn...

as i see them fighting & having ego issues but than they also want to be with-other ..it makes me get more fond of them..

i see how they manage in there minds that its about each-other its about there love..they cant live with-other...

how raman wanted she cums bk..how she wanted him to call her bk..just tells in there minds its more about each-other...even if at moment ego is clashing..ego eventually will let it go...I agree with you about the love part...but this thing is not egos of both sides rather Raman's ego and Ishita's lack of self-respect ...which to me spells kinda dysfunctional imbalance. I wish Raman's showed some remorse when he FB's on his words to Ishita yesterday.

"Nobody sees anybody truly but all through the flaws of their own egos. That is the way we all see ...each other in life. Vanity, fear, desire, competition-- all such distortions within our own egos-- condition our vision of those in relation to us. Add to those distortions to our own egos the corresponding distortions in the egos of others, and you see how cloudy the glass must become through which we look at each other. That's how it is in all living relationships except when there is that rare case of two people who love intensely enough to burn through all those layers of opacity and see each other's naked hearts."

Tennessee Williams

Originally posted by: krishy13

About this confession set up...literally the only thing my eyes noticed were those giant pictures on the wall! Because of how long I have been waiting to see the pictures in their old room be replaced...I could care less about cliched balloons & such.

The idea of ownership of that room has been fun to watch evolve over the last year and for me, even before the final C...the pictures (hopefully put up by Raman & not the kiddos 😆) signify equality between the two. Yes the bed is the final frontier to conquer but now that room has a physical representation that it's their room...not his or hers.

It's funny because in the preceding 2 episodes equality in their relationship was up for a toss, but a small thing like posting pictures just stirs the heart.

Will this confession make up for Puttar's rudeness or Biwi's passiveness? Not reall, but it will help me forget it for the time being because the CVs, despite their laziness, know what scenes can pull at me.

Originally posted by: -Gan-

Krishy I noticed the pictures in today's episode. nice touch I felt

Originally posted by: beckysharp

My dear you did not get any special treatment for your dp ! It was your statement that Ishita's past was nothing that prompted me.

Past trauma, leaves wounds and scars. However much we want to, when the past memories visit us, it hurts ! I know ! I live with my past and it still haunts me ! Unless we live through it, we never realize the trauma and the hurt !

Peace !